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I agree with all of them should hang... but some cases you dont know and try to understand if this man did this intentionally or without any bad intention as he says... its no easy. You cant also hang unless you are sure.

They talked to other mothers in the area now and none of them heard of any incident. They asked their children too none of them reported anything strange. So why "play" with this particular girl like that He is begging for forgiveness saying he never meant harm and that he is against all sorts of abuse and if he did things wrong and made the girl feel uncomfortable he is very sorry and he himself would understand if they call police. He said after this incident he would never get closer to any of the neighbour children just to not cause misunderstanding. What would you do if this was your husband? The wife is so ashamed.

The wife is nigerian and yes they are based in lagos.

Thanks for your reply yes it sure is not normal.

The man has 3 children so for the sake of his children that was the reason the wife was begging my friend not to involve police. But yes maybe some sort of report would be good.

Also not long ago the man and the girl stayed in the house alone for some few hours for the first time. And that day too the girl says he didnt do anything to her.

Hello community,

I hve a question... A friend went with her daughter to anotha friends house. The daughter is 7. They been going there every now and then. Now the child says the friends husband used to touch her buttocks and kiss it sometimes. The man is known to play a lot with children and so far they say never was there any incident or suspicion he could do bad. The man claims that he could never intend any sex or such with that girl since she is just a child. And also the man says thats how they play also with children in his family. He said he is very sorry and wont ever get closer in any way to the child again and he sees the girl like his own niece or even daughter and that touching her bumbum or kissing it was a way of expressing his love but he also understand he shouldnt have done it. Now my friend and the family dont know whst to do or how to handle the case if police should be involved or not. They asked the girl and she says the man never touched her vagina or show his unclothedness to her. What should they do or how would you handle such case? The man is 39 years old and from kenya.