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It really saddens my heart that a lot of people go into marriage without understand what it entails..

U saying you have seen others do it doesn't mean it applies to yur marriage, stop comparing other people homes to yur home, those men are not yur husband...

Yur husband lost his job, he is in a very vunurable situation, he is supposed to be the provider who is being provided for, his ego and pride is hurt already...you as a wife is his help mate,if for anything he is suppose to feel safe at home at least with his helper...I believe he was a provider wen he had a job so you should at least not make him feel more vunurable in public.....

Am not justifying him hitting you which is alterly wrong, but am just making it clear to you the reason you got that reaction, for every action expect a clear reaction
Solution
You know yur husband more than anyone on this platform, he is bruised,pls be there for him, if he is a good man like I believe he is, he would mend his wrong doing...build yur home and nurture yur man and avoid comparism, have a happy marriage dear