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dytbabe: Mtchewwwwwwwwits kul if u ve nothin to say...bt I just said its nt a bull story |
dytbabe: Mtchewwwwwwwwits kul if u ve nothin to say...bt I just siad its nt a bull story |
Pls guyz I really need ur advice ....it may luk lyk a cock nd bull story...its just dat m bad @ narrating events .. |
My conscience has really been biting me since the last few days......ask me why??......I had gotten a nyc restaurant in town ,met with the waiter nd planned with him to put a ring(cost me a lot) inside the glass thingy .xo I culd propose to my fiancee in a romantic way (just lyk they did in a film I watched ),but all went BOOM!!!....on friday evening precisely 8pm thereabout after work I manuveured around town picked up my fiancee from her place took her to the restaurant as earlier agreed (surely she knew I wnted to propose to her dat night )I wuld lyk to jump the events dat happened nxt to where she was taking her drink(red wine(mexican)).the waiter winked @ me as he served our glass of wine ,we did a toast nd the the next thing dat happened was lyk a scammer playing a fast one on me .SHE GULPED WINE WITH 2karat GOLD PLATED RING DOWN HER THROAT...nd she even got pissed cos I couldn't propose to her dat night...nw she is nt even picking up my calls......m xo TOAST.. |
Guyz..was just goin thru sum fp topics nd dicovered dat sum were nt even more than 1 or 2 pages nd yet made fp...unlike b4 .....do u think nairaland can survive this illness......wats ur say pple. |
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There is a new twist to the Don Jazzy versus Wande Coal saga as new reports allege that Tiwa Savage, the first lady of Mavin records is the source of the whole trouble. Some hours ago, Don Jazzy accused former label mate Wande Coal for allegedly stealing one of his songs titled 'Baby face'. According to report, Tiwa and Don Jazzy were rejoicing over the positive responses from fans over the success of their recently released 'Eminado' video when she brought his attention to the released 'Baby Face' track. A reliable source said, "Tiwa and Wande Coal haven't always been friends, and she was the one that brought Don Jazzy's attention to the baby face song. When Don Jazzy saw and heard the song, he was angry and had resolved to giving Wande Coal a call but Tiwa insisted that he should make it public." Tiwa allegedly said, "He can not continue to steal from you, he should at least be respectful enough to credit you, if you don't do this, he will continue to steal your works, if you put it out on twitter, he'll know you are serious. It's wrong to always take people for granted." Meanwhile, Tiwa Savage is known for always attacking anyone who offends on twitter. She recently attacked editors of TW on twitter for a publication rather than calling them privately to settle whatever misunderstanding they had. |
A heartbroken woman whose boyfriend died days before their wedding decided to get married anyway - to a shop dummy. Sanja Seke, 21, was looking forward to years of wedded bliss with her 29- year-old fella Igor but her hopes and dreams for the future were shattered when he died of a heart attack just before their wedding day. She said of the shocking news: "We had been together since I was 16, and all I wanted to do was spend my life with him. When they told me that he had died of a sudden heart attack I just couldn't take it in, my life over the last two years has been like a living nightmare. With the event in the Serbian town of Sid planned and paid for, Sanja decided to get married anyway and used a mannequin dressed in Igor's wedding suit as a stand-in, saying it was the next best thing to actually getting married to her boyfriend. Wedding Outfit : The mannequin wore what the deceased would have worn on the day Sanja said of her big day: "My friends mentioned to me that perhaps if we had been married and had fulfilled our dream things might have been different, and that was when I decided that perhaps I should just go ahead with the wedding anyway. "I had already organised a dress, so I just sent out invites to his family and mine and everybody attended. Everything was really great." Rather than be downbeat about everything that happened, the bride and guests tried to make it a day celebrating Igor's life. Sanja added: "We tried to make it a joyful affair and a celebration of his life and for me it was all about completing something unfinished so that I can move on. I hope that now I will be able to move on with my life." The ceremony also included music by their favourite singer and a local priest to conduct a special ceremony to help Sanja find closure. |
A 26-year-old woman, an employee of an old generation bank in Ondo State, southwest Nigeria, has been apprehended by the police at Onikan division, Ikoyi, Lagos. She faces charges of withdrawing N24 million from the bank customers' accounts. Alabi Joy Omotayo was arraigned before an Igbosere Magistrates' Court, Lagos on a five-count charge of felony to wit, stealing. The arrest followed a complaint filed by the management of the bank's headquarters in Lagos. It was stated in the application that the accused, a customer service care officer at their Ondo branch office, had illegally obtained N24 million. The bank officials stated that the fraud was discovered after the audit of their account had been edited. It was revealed in the course of investigation that Omotayo, a resident of Ondo State, allegedly gained unauthorized access via bank's computers to the data of her employees and customers. She withdrew sums of N10.5 million, N4.5 million, and N9.1 million from customers' accounts. The suspect pleaded not guilty to the charges. The presiding Chief Magistrate admitted her on bail in the sum of N500,000 with two sureties in like sum. She was, however, transferred to Kirikiri Prison, Apapa, Lagos, pending when she will fulfill the bail conditions. The matter was adjourned till 15 November, 2013 for mention. |
A 33-year-old man was allegedly held at gunpoint and forced to have sex with a woman in the backseat of a car after the woman's female companion offered him a ride on the Near North Side over the summer. The man begged one of his tormentors - who demanded he place his hands on her breasts and buttocks during the July 26 attack - to stop, it was reported. He eventually escaped, running out of the car naked from the waist down and into a taxi where a cabbie helped him and drove him home to the suburbs, in Chicago. The man had been walking in the 400 block of North Kingsbury early that morning when 25-year-old Cierra Ross allegedly pulled up to him and offered to give him a ride. While she was driving, Ross pulled out a black revolver and ordered the man, who was in the passenger seat, to get in the back and have sex with her friend. The woman in the backseat demanded that he take off his clothes and the man complied by taking off his shoes, pants and underwear before he was assaulted. The two women also took $200 from the man, his credit cards and iPhone, according to a police report. |
In 2008, I felt attracted to a colleague in her late 40s, but she was married and had two sons in their late teens. Later, her husband got cancer, and Anne took nine months off to help care for him. When he died in 2011, she became very depressed and I was supportive. I realised I was falling in love, so in October 2012 decided to move to a different firm. A few days before I left, she invited me for a drink after work, to thank me. We got on so well I confessed I was hopelessly in love with her, after four years of friendship. When I dropped her off she leaned over to kiss me. Later, she texted to say she had strong feelings for me too. We started going out, and in June 2013 Anne asked me to move in. We even talked of marriage. She confided that her husband made her suffer through affairs, alcohol and drug abuse - and that 'her boys' had become her world. And that's where the problems began. Her sons are allowed to do whatever they like. Anne and I slept downstairs on a sofa- bed in the sitting-room while they moved their girlfriends into the two upstairs bedrooms. The house is in an absolutely disgusting state. She's amassed a huge debt through rent arrears, unpaid credit card repayments, utility bills and the expense of trying to keep this 'family' fed. The boys have part-time jobs (when they can be bothered going), and their girlfriends are in temporary employment, but none of them helps clean the house or even brings down dirty plates from their rooms. All the cleaning is left to Anne and myself, and we both work full time. But Anne says it isn't so long since their father died, and to leave them alone. We have tried family meetings to agree rules, but they only stick to them for a few days. The elder boy seems to bully her. I have tried to get her to seek debt counselling and start moving forward, but nothing happens. She's either scared or simply not bothered. Recently, the eldest invited a friend (with drug problems) who'd split up from his girlfriend to stay until he found somewhere else. With Anne's debt, she can't afford to support another person in the house. I pointed out that he has relatives and friends living nearby, so why not go and stay with them? Anne said that he was her sons, friend and she could not see him on the streets. Two weeks later, I told her that the situation was now intolerable; she had put her sons' wishes before me. I left that night, and haven't heard from her. I now bitterly regret my decision. I am so much in love with her I want everything to work out. But I don't want her being taken for granted all the time. What must I do? |
You get a call from your friend, who invites you to hang out with the guys on Saturday night. An old college buddy is in town and will be joining you. You are excited to go. However, your girlfriend has a class until 10pm on Friday, so Saturday is your only date night together. You senses that your significant other will not be happy about this, but you also are entitled to a night with the guys. However, you forget to tell her about your plans until 3pm that Saturday, while she is excitedly proposing a few things you could do that evening. What happens next is totally predictable. Your woman gets pissed, you argue, she hangs up and calls her girlfriend to complain. You feel surprised and disappointed at how upset she got, and feel resentful. You feel trapped by this relationship and doubtful that this woman is the right one. The right woman would be supportive and want you to have a life, right? While she feels upset that she now has no plans for the evening, and feels that you don't actually care about spending time with her becuase you don't take her into consideration when making choices. Men often complain about how they wish their women wouldn't get so upset about everything. Well, do they get upset about everything? Hopefully, upon brief reflection, the answer is no. It's time to look at the types of actions and conversations that make her upset, like the scenario above, to see if there is something you might to do change that. As an aside, if the answer is yes, it is possible that the guy is living with a truly unstable person. Guys, if your woman suffers from a diagnosable mental illness or personality disorder, you will have a different type of work to do. But for the rest of you, healthy women will react emotionally when you bring up certain subjects. Here are three steps to reducing the drama and increasing your sense of freedom in your relationship: 1) Learn to expect a reaction-When it's cloudy and humid, you don't put on your suede jacket and curse mother nature for screwing you over when it starts to rain, but this is what many men do in relationships with women. Your fear about her reactivity AND your resulting denial about the possibilities that she will be upset, compel you to behave in provocative ways. In fact, she is often responding more to what you have consciously or unconsciously done to avoid upsetting her, then what you were afraid might upset her in the first place. In this way, you create more of what you say you don't want. Bring an umbrella. Learn to expect a reaction anytime you change what has become an expected pattern of interacting or unspoken agreement between you. For example: You usually spend Friday nights with her and suddenly you can't You need to take more time for yourself You suddenly become less attentive to her for any variety of good reasons If any of the above take place, there's a good possibility (unless you are with a very mature person) that she will be upset. If you've been with your partner for a while, you can get a good sense of what types of things upset her. If you have a hunch that what you need to do or say will bring it on, prepare for it. This will make it much easier for the both of you. 2) Make room for the wave -A fire that has no fuel will extinguish itself. Do not feed the fire by arguing with her about her feelings or perspective. You don't have to take insults or jabs, but if you can stay calm and allow her upset to be, it will subside. If you are truly not trying to hurt her, then you can feel compassion for her hurt feelings , but you don't have to believe that you caused them. Your job is not to take it on, fix it or make it better but rather, allow the wave to break on the shore. It also helps to remember that she is not upset because she is controlling and manipulative, although her behavior certainly might be. She is upset because she loves you and wants to spend time with you, and doesn't know how else to manage her vulnerability and disappointment. 3) Show her that you are in the relationship. Your woman will move through her reaction very quickly if you demonstrate your care by taking her feelings into consideration. Prepare ahead of time! "Hey listen, Saturday night I'm going to meet with the guys, but next weekend I would love to take you to that place you like by the water." A communiqué like that can lead to a disappointed sigh instead of a rant, and offers an excitement about the future and a feeling of being cared for that minimizes hurt. It's pretty simple. She just wants to know that you care about her feelings, about spending time with her, and that you are not abandoning or taking advantage of her. Of course, anything you promise you must follow through with in order to earn or keep her trust. If you follow these three steps regularly, a sane woman will respect you, and in turn become increasingly reasonable in response to your requests. And you will see that you can have your freedom and the relationship too. A good woman who loves you really wants you to be happy, as your happiness contributes greatly to hers. |
A while ago someone asked "Why is christian dating such a challenging a task? It was quite easy for me to date as an unbeliever but ever since I got born again, dating has been a challenge." I've heard a guy say he thought dating someone from his church felt fake because you are never free to express yourself, there seem to be many more don'ts than dos. I think many new believers go through this. The real problem is an obvious one here. I want to start by asking one question though; If all you needed to pass a particular exam was to simply show up and write your name, would you bother to study hard? You sure need to do a lot more of studying God's Word to pass this one. I am of the opinion that Christian courtship (if done as it should be) is one of the most fulfilling forms of relationships there can be on the surface of the earth. The problem that most people have is that there is God's way of going about it (which people term as "rules" highlights the fact that people do not like rules or any semblance of restriction at that) but you have to choose between the broad-way of sin (which you have forsaken but which you and I must admit is more acceptable to the world) and the straight n' narrow path of the Christian life. On closer observation one would realize these "rules" are not meant to restrict, rather they are to guide you in the path of true love for the other person.The earnest desire for the ultimate eventual good of the recipient of your love. This contrasts sharply with the innate/natural love of self.The love that is geared towards using the other to gratify one's base, immediate urges. Any one on the street can love a girl's body but who can love her entire being? True Christian courtship teaches you to love your woman for who God made her to be. To love her for her. To love her soul, her very being, her personality, her ideals, her take/slant on issues, the way she laughs-in short everything about her even her occasional flaws. One of the greatest joys a woman can have is, knowing her man loves her beyond her physical attributes (which are transient anyway). He loves her total being. Introduce sexual immorality (pouring your lust over her) into this entire equation and it's like deactivating the brakes of a car cruising at 170miles/h.The end is better imagined. 1John5:3 For this is the love of God that we keep His commandments: and His commandments are not grievous. And for a true believer His commandments become innate. On the question of abstinence, sexual abstinence has nothing to do with chastity either. At best abstinence could be included in the concept of "decency," resulting from discipline, education or self-control. True chastity is purity of thought, but in all things right down to everyday business. Chastity is a purely spiritual and not a physical quality. It's a beautiful thing to be in a relationship with all the right values and attitudes. And I believe that " Christian Dating " offers an excellent platform for developing the right mindset which would prove invaluable in marriage and family life when practiced with some of the points he's outlined. Do not subscribe to the school of thought that believe Christian dating is all about don'ts. If you study the scriptures thoroughly (as you should), you'll discover there're far more "dos" e.g. "Love one another sincerely", "Speak the truth in love", "Esteem the other more highly than yourself", "Be kindly affectionate to one another", the list is inexhaustible. |
This goes to all the ladies out there. Have you ever taken time to think of the reasons why that guy dumped you? Why he doesn't like you? Why that guy dimmed his love for you? Why your guy changed all over a sudden? Why guys don't fall for you? Why you are remaining single year to year? 1. You Lie Too Much - Guys aren't stupid. They can tell when they're being lied too. Don't try to hide who you are because you think a guy won't like the real you. You can't fool somebody forever and once the truth comes out he'll never trust you again. So be yourself to some guys who date you. 2. You Don't Appreciate The Little Things He Does For You - Some guys are horrible with expressing their feelings, but they try to in their own little ways. Sometimes it's something small like picking up a cupcake because they know you'll like it. Lots of times an act like this goes unnoticed, If a guy is trying to show you he cares and you don't see it he'll think you don't care or you don't love him. Appreciate his efforts please. 3. You Text |
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A self-proclaimed informant for the Directorate of State Security, Okon Ntiedo, has been arrested for swindling over 50 unemployed persons from Cross River and Akwa Ibom states of N3.5m, under the guise of securing federal appointments for them. The 27-year-old suspect, who was arrested on Thursday at a drinking spot in the Afokang area of Calabar South, is currently being detained at the Mbukpa Police Station in Calabar. Ntiedo had allegedly promised to secure employment for the victims at the Nigeria Customs Service, Nigeria Immigration Service, National Drugs Law Enforcement Agency, Nigeria Prisons Service and other federal parastatals. He was said to have collected between N100, 000 and N250, 000 from the victims under the pretence that it would be used to process their forms and lobby officials in the Federal Ministry of Internal Affairs. When PUNCH Metro visited the police station on Monday, Ntiedo confessed that he had collected various sums of money from the victims but alleged that the total money collected was N2m and not N3.5m. He said he had worked in collaboration with a medical officer in the Nigeria Air Force, who is based in Kaduna, and a personal assistant in the ministry of internal affairs (names withheld). Ntiedo said he was willing to pay back the money to the victims, but added that other "partners" would have to bring what he had transferred to them through their accounts. He also said he had worked as an informant for the SSS since 2007, although he did not have any official identity card from the directorate. Ntiedo said, "I have been working for the SSS since 2007 as an informant and have been posted to various parts of the country to monitor one activity or the other. "I have also worked with the other suspects and we have maintained constant interactions. We have been working together based on agreed percentage." An Akwa Ibom State indigene, who was a victim, said he was introduced to Ntiedo by the air force personnel. The 40-year-old victim, who pleaded anonymity, said, "I have known the air force official for more than 10 years. I didn't have any cause to doubt him when he introduced Ntiedo to me. "We rallied round our communities, gathered our sons and daughters, who are unemployed and those who did not have good jobs. We took a loan with an expectation of getting the jobs. "Ntiedo told us on the telephone that the appointment would be available by September but September came and passed, no sign of anything. We started investigations and discovered that the suspect was staying in Calabar, Cross River State. "He was just sending text messages to us to pay in money into three accounts and we kept on paying. Our tellers are with us and we have given copies to the police." |
The Vice Chairman of the Senate Committee on Education, Senator Sola Adeyeye on Monday described as 'ridiculous' the pay demands by the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) on the federal government. This is just as he challenged lecturers to a public debate to justify the unresolved pay demands which has led to the protracted strike by university lecturers. Adeyeye who is a Professor of Molecular Biology told newsmen at the National Assembly against the backdrop of last week's Senate debates on the protracted ASUU strike. On account of his contributions at plenary, Adeyeye was particularly criticised by the ASUU chairman, University of Ibadan branch, Dr. Segun Ajiboye. "There is no question that the enormous rot in Nigeria's education sector cries for urgent and immediate attention. But as unpopular as saying so might make me to the membership of ASUU, the truth is that ASUU has been a part of the problem. I would gladly love to engage Dr. Ajiboye in a prime time televised debate on my assertion," Adeyeye stated yesterday. The senator proposed five practical solutions to this "most national pressing crisis': firstly, the National Assembly should henceforth appropriate at least 26 per cent of Nigeria's current revenue to education alone. Second, the education ministry must ensure the streamlining of the "endless parastatals that drain resources while making little or no contribution to national well-being and progress." Thirdly, the government in a bid to raise revenue for funding a "national redemption programme" in education, all imports should attract a mandatory education tax of one per cent. Fourth, beginning from January 1, 2014 till December 31, 2018, all workers in Nigeria must contribute five per cent of their income as education taxes. Embezzling any amount of these revenues targeted for education should be taken as an act of treason. Fifth, the costs for running the offices of all elected and appointed political office holders should immediately be pruned by 50 per cent. According to Adeyeye, the "implacable" demands by ASUU are fueled by resentment at the "obscene" privileges which Nigerian politicians enjoy. |
The House of Representatives Committee on Public Accounts said on Monday that the Federal Civil Service Commission breached financial regulations by paying "over N11.7m" into the private bank account of one member of its staff. The committee, which queried the commission for the act, said it found out that the money was approved for the hosting of an international conference in Abuja. However, it stated that a member of staff kept the money in a private account as against the account of the commission. The Chairman of the committee, Mr. Adeola Olamilekan, directed the commission to produce the employee, whose name was not given, on Wednesday (tomorrow) for questioning. He also said the commission would explain what eventually happened to the money. The committee called for the list of those who attended the conference where the N11.7m was purportedly spent. Olamilekan said, "We cannot understand why an individual should be given such a huge amount to be paid into his or her personal account. "Government money being paid into a personal account? What if he or she runs away with the money? "It is illegal and unacceptable; it is against financial regulations and the committee will get to the root of the transaction. "The affected member of staff should be brought before this committee by Wednesday." Olamilekan, who gave the directive to the Permanent Secretary of the Commission, Mr. Suleiman Mustapha, said the committee was also interested in knowing whether hotel accommodation was provided for the foreigners who attended the conference. According to him, the home governments of the foreign participants would have picked the bills of their delegates and not the commission since it was an international conference. The committee also found out that another employee collected N493,000 to attend a conference but there was no documentation to justify the expenditure. Similarly, a consultant was said to have been paid N900,000 by the commission without deducting tax and charges due to the government. |
Top management officials of the Petroleum and Products Pricing Regulatory Agency are expected to appear before Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Offences Commission today, October 29, Tuesday, at its Abuja headquarters. They are being probed over alleged N3.5billion fraud in the Petroleum Support Scheme. The summoning follows a petition by a Port Harcourt-based petroleum products marketer, Ledisi Dagogo-Jack, dated August 13, 2013. The businessman believes the top officials of the PPPRA have a case of corruption to answer for, and pleads with the Agency to "effect a thorough investigation of the financial dealings in the agency and rid the public sector of the monster of corruption." In his letter to the ICPC, Mr. Dagogo-Jack requested to investigate the Executive Secretary of the PPPRA, Reginald Stanley; the Assistant General Manager (Finance), Peter Tokan; the Internal Auditor, Dominic Aniemeke, upon their alleged involvement in fraudulent acts involving petroleum products surveys at Nigeria's ports. Mr. Dagogo-Jack says he has evidence of them violating the provisions of the public service financial rules and regulations. {read_more} Furthermore, Mr. Dagogo-Jack also requested to probe the Personal Assistant to the Executive Secretary, PPPRA, Farouk Mohammed, two other aides, Gaji Mohammed and Hussaina Modibbo (Technical Assistant). Mr. Dagogo-Jack accused Farouk Mohammed of using two unregistered companies, allegedly linked to him, to award himself phony contracts worth several millions of naira. Gaji Muhammad is accused of exceeding his official powers by approving the contract for the supply and installation of computer accessories worth more than N23million (going beyond the N2.5million approval limit) to external suppliers without due process, in disregard of the Public Procurement Act. Moreover, Mr. Muhammad allegedly ignored normal tendering processes. Apart from drawing monthly salaries from the NNPC, Mrs. Modibbo and Mr. Muhammad were said to equally earn stipends of about N500,000 as aides to the Executive Secretary, PPPRA, in addition to four different allowances totalling N6 million per annum, the petitioner said. Also, General Manager (Operations), Wole Adamolekun; Internal Auditor, Dominic Aniemeke and John Egundebi are accused of complicity in the alleged fraudulent acts involving the agency's Pension Funds and tax returns on its Pay-as-you-earn (P.A.Y.E) system. According to Mr. Dagodo-Jack, since 2011, the PPPRA has been disbursing N70 million monthly to the five independent inspectorate firms, resulting in the accumulated disbursement of about N3.5billion so far. This is opposed to N5million usually paid by the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation subsidiary, Pipelines and Products Marketing Company. The development was confirmed by General Manager (Operations), Wole Adamolekun, who has been invited to stand before PPPRA. He, however, denied seeing a copy of the petition and the issues raised by the petitioner, and dismissed any possibility of fraud involving the PSF. On the appointment of five firms to handle the inspectorate services for the agency, Mr. Adamolekun said those independent inspectors were internationally licensed to provide such services, adding that not many of them were available in Nigeria. He described the staff of the inspectorate department of the PPPRA as mere witnesses, who are neither trained nor licensed to do the certification job. |
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immortal voices u need a lecture on human relations and etiquette and not to lash out ur abusive mind at a stranger .W SHALL MEET TONIGHT AND U SHALL UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN BETTER |
i believe i shud apologise to everyone whom i may ve offended wit my recent post earlier. |
let me guess after the family re union colonel tries to convince Eva and Sean to join him in a war against ghostcorp |
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