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GboyegaD:
Did you ever record her insulting you? Even if you did not, at this time, I am not sure if counselling will help. Your wife has shown you she is no longer interested in the marriage and I would personally advise you take a stance on if you want to be married to yourself or you want to be single. Do not listen to any noise as her height of selfishness is unbearable.

Bro. I’m actually in similar situation here in America (tho my wife has never called police on me b4).. however I’d have leave and run but the fear of wasted investment (got her conditional green card through me, paid her tuition and I’ve invested in this marriage to a point where it became crippling).. also, the fear of paying alimony and CS till like forever is also crippling but I’m not happy (still I’m tie to her and it’s like I’m slaving for her and her family). Bro I’m not happy and I’ve become a shadow of my former self. No one to talk these things with. I just pray I scale through these murky waters. People I talked to ask me to leave her while I’m still alive and forget about fear of wasted investment. I’m tired tbh