₦airaland Forum

MinorityOpinion:
Two of u get ur dancing shoe ready, we wan sabi who sabi dance between una two

You dey deceive yourself my guy.

CANDYDADDY:
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Am from the south west,any time i see any headline about IPOB,i always voluntarily support them even without reading the said news

Nigerian never have any solidarity trait so far

Na your papa born you.

cynosuree:
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.

I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.

But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.


He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.

I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?

The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .

I'd like to know what you think

You have everything in him, but na 'discuss continues' be your problem.

What if he is an introvert like me? Maybe he even feels you are not smart enough for him.

That's how I discuss with ladies I feel are not intellectually sound but still want to have a fling with them. I am PhD in molecular medicine by the way, so you can't accuse me of lacking intellect.

helinues:
If I can understand you, you agreed with me that SE are no longer in the scheme of things in Nigeria hence eating left over food ( rotten meat)??

Foods are served according to ranking....

If they are not in the scheme of things you won't be lamenting about them like you do everyday for the past years.

Do you talk about the minority Egun, Nupe or Kanuri tribe as much as you talk about NDIGBO?

helinues:
Are Igbo in the first 5 position in Nigeria currently? Cos Yoruba's have 2 positions out of 5...

My rotten meat big pass your rotten meat, no mean say belle no go run our two las las.

helinues:
Nwanne, like I told you, that's old glory.. I get am before no be property...

Do you have 'new glory' today? Are yorubas president today?

Iamgrey5:
That's your Anambra brother

Hug him tight!

He smells yoruba, get close to him and perceive his odour. It has that 'kazeemu' smell.

You know what I mean.

Juliusmalema:
[s]Well continue Insulting Yoruba.

Do I look like someone to defend anything west.

Try again.

Ipob Miscreants everywhere[/s].

Your rotten amala-mouth won't change anything okoroawusa.
Your yoruba odour will always forsake you.

myboy2111:
Ceremonial Slave President

The queen is also ceremonial.

Go to aso rock, remove his picture as first president ever from buhari's office and break it on the ground. Pained ewedu mofo.

Juliusmalema:
Osino gini?

Mr I hv no time for Ipob Miscreants.

Useless set of people.

Shattap your stinking amala mouth, nwoke ewedu!

Deceiving themselves. Tommorow they'll start an 'Akata must go' movement.

Helinues my yoruba muslim friend, what do you think about this thread?

helinues:
President - NW
Vice President - SW
Senate President - NE
Speaker of the House - SW

Sophisticated West ( SW)

Igbos have been president, VP, Senate president, speaker etc too. We've tasted all. You haven't. By the way NO yoruba man have ever been senator of this country and you don't have what it takes to elect yourself President with your 'auto-cursed' votes.

That's why I proclaim that you are far less than second fiddle.

Juliusmalema:
Nnamdi kanu and his IPOB Miscreants..


mtcheew

Pain wan finish this amala-choping ile kewu monsurudeen.

helinues:
I get am before , no be property.

We have told you people countless times to support who ever you people want to as president in 2023 ( SE dare not) and let's meet at poll.

Good music no be by loudness

I get am before na historical record. Na only 2 elections (2015 and 2019) yoruba don help anybody win and the beneficiaries are not yoruba candidates.

yoruba sef no get am again, you are not president now and won't be president in 2023. Na the koko matter be dat. Shey una say una get sense?

RIP to him.

This is why health workers such as Medical Scientists should be renumerated with proper hazard allowance and insurance.

helinues:
Are you talking about past glory or present glory.

Being successful in life is ability to learn from past mistakes..

SE have been relegated in Nigeria politics to 4 the position..

So how can you people dare to contest presidency with SW?

BTW we have been winning back to back. Can you guys say the same?

Glory is glory whether past or present as long as it is in historical record for reference. It's not your place to pick which is relevant or not.

You can't see the future without studying the past.

yoruba votes are cursed for for yoruba presidential candidates. No dispute.
That's not changing soon.

You won't be president in 2023. Take that to the bank.