naptu2: President Bola Tinubu, Dr Obafemi Hamzat, Mr Babatunde Fashola, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu and Honourable Mudashiru Obasa pray at Dodan Barracks.
Bayo Onanuga, OON, CON @aonanuga1956
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EID-EL-KABIR: PRESIDENT TINUBU URGES TOLERANCE, GENEROSITY, UNITY AMONG NIGERIANS
President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has called on Nigerians to use the celebration of Eid-el-Kabir to deepen the values of tolerance, generosity, and peaceful coexistence.
Lovelink1991: A single lady who once boasted that women can live well without men has turn back to tender an apologies after living without a man for many years, asking for forgiveness over her comments against men
ebubeson: We have single Mums that can make good wives, and no matter what the society says, there are single Mums that can make good homes.
If you look deeply, a single Mum having a child may not be the main issue of many guys, but below may be the issue many guys avoid single Mums in marriage.
(1) Fear of she cheating with her baby daddy: Do you know how painful it may be loving and supporting a single Mum only to discover she is sleeping with her baby daddy who may be so irresponsible.
(2) Fear of not being a father to her child or children: If after a man marries a single Mum and treats her child or children so well like a true father, and gets dumped in the future because he is not their biological, such may be so painful to him.
(3) Fear of divided emotions: A single Mum may be emotionally connected to both her husband and baby daddy. This might make her husband feel unsafe in the marriage; and if he expressed his concern, there may be outburst that he is just being insecure.
As a lady, never accept to get pregnant before marriage, no matter the promises given. Just avoid pre-marital sex. Again, if baby Daddies had married their baby Mamas, this issue may have subsided.
Marrying a single mother is like giving Everton handicap 1 against Chelsea…No matter what, u go still cry and lose money at the end 😃😃😃
Victory662: I recently bought a Toyota Corolla 2005 model, Nigerian used. Since then I've had this constant problem of hard starting. It's not very bad though, it picks after second or third kick, although in some cases it could be worse prompting my battery to run down.
I have explained the issue to about 4 mechanics, each of them telling me what they suspected could be the cause, I paid them and at the end of the day, nothing changed. I've spent over 300k on this very issue.
The only option I'm considering now is that of the latest mechanic that told me it could be fuel pump system pressure or electrical fault or both. I'm just afraid of spending money again because I'm already afraid it may not work. So NL family, have your car ever had this "spiritual hard starting" problem? And how did u get out of it?
Take it for computer scanning and they will tell u everything that is wrong with it with just 5k or thereabout 💯
Rep9jaCom: A viral video circulating online captures a heated altercation between a man and his date at a restaurant after she invited him out, Rep9ja reports.
ErnestNc: It was a bitter sweet experience I'd not advice any young man to engage in. It's a game and the only way to win, is to be the user .
I knew this already but unfortunately I was blind sided and disarmed by the love I had for her 13yr old child. The child was so bright. I tutored her in mathematics til she became the best. I saw a lonely bright child who took me as a father figure in her school.
I was so attached and one day I was opportune to meet with her mother. I met a very beautiful young woman in her early 30's the day she came to drop off her child at school. Prior to this, our chat engagement was official and all about her daughter's growth. She requested that I drop all formality and desist from caling her "ma" . She called me babe instead and We both became informal with time and got very close. There was constant calls and communication.
She told me alot about her past , her 4 exes and how she's been alone. It turns out she was always the victim in all her stories . She's so pretty , why would any man leave such a woman? I kept asking myself. She learnt about our 5yrs age difference which was shocking to her but she was already deep into it and ready to go down.
THE ROMANCE
We became sexually involved and things were going down fast. She had great sexual appetite . She wanted me to marry her and was fond of calling me her child's soon to be father and how we were gonna get married. She's a fashion designer who is financially stable.
CRISIS
She had sudden financial crisis after embarking on a huge project. To assist , I tutored the child for free and I was assisting her occasionally with finances cuz I had lesson gigs fetching me 6figures.
Soon, I started to realise her sudden change of attitude. The calls soon dropped and we started to have alot of unresolvable fights , reason being that she would rather not like to settle the conflict when I want to, but make it linger so I'd have to beg her even when she was wrong. She never likes to talk about the unresolved issues, so we could trash it amicably and make amends where necessary.
POINT OF REALISATION
I suspected she was sleeping around and one day I decided to pay her a visit . On that faithful day, I heard her elder sister over a loud phone conversation " Jane, u really have my time today that you didn't go to man's house" ". I cringed on hearing that . This is someone who said she doesn't sleep around because of the stereotype attached to being a single mom.
They both laughed about it and she told her sister that she was currently with a man. The sister said further " what of bros? He say he no do again or when he go engage u? " .
This time I felt the ground should open up . "Bros" is an elderly man in his 50's who wants to marry her. We had a fight that night and she denied that she had anything to do with bros and her sis was joking about her visits to men. We trashed it and made up with sex.
Next morning she was on call with a male friend who wanted to borrow money from her and she called him babe.
Note that, she's called a different male friend babe accidentally too and she quickly defended that she calls all her male friends "babe" . I told her it wasn't cool. She got defensive and even called another male friend and she told him I was jealous, they both laughed and she ended the call with " I love you and he replied too". We had a fight . I left and still came back to check on her. I was ignored while she was on call with her male friend for 30mins after which she invited him over with 2 other guys.
I asked why and what for. She boldly told me "whatever activities I have with my friends is not your concern , even if we have 10some " .
I was saddened because this was someone for once I was ready to risk it all to settle down with. She was probably entangled in something I never understood. I discovered that she clubbed on Sundays , and would never allow her daughter come live with her. The poor child has been living with her grandparents for 13yrs. My girlfriend also abused weed and alcohol. I saw all these in her fridge
THE PREGNANCY
I was broken by everything and kept my distance but we still spoke. Early this year, we both suspected she was pregnant since she missed her period. We did a test and I found out she was pregnant. 4weeks 8days but I doubted it was mine after all the recent discoveries. To cut the long story short she removed it and bled for days.
The disrespect and devaluation kept on going . I was mentally unstable for a while and took Ill. I couldn't resume to teach and I lost my job. My mother was angry with me for having anything to do with her.
I broke up with her cuz I realised what I had wasn't real. I realised I never did anything that bad to deserve all the treatments I received. I was supporting and loving and was even a father figure to her child .
I'm without a job now but I'll be commencing a technical training for a better job offer. I'm still unstable and hurt but I'll bounce.
I'm one of those guys who don't believe in playing nice because ive been hurt before. I broke my rules and was disarmed by the love I had for a child and I fell in love with a lie. But it's all good. I learnt my lesson.
So sorry about that broda, but from my own experience, many of them are nothing but leech and parasites. They don’t have any iota of feelings, they are only living for survival😃😃😃
OlaleyeCast: Popular Nigerian comedienne and actress, Damilola Adekoya, fondly known as Princess, has openly appealed to prominent clerics to help her find a life partner.
In a video shared on her social media pages, Princess called on Pastor Jerry Eze, Apostle Femi Lazarus, Pastor Bolaji Idowu, and Apostle Joshua Selman, urging them to help link her up with a “kind and responsible man” within their congregations.
The actress said she is single, ready to mingle, and willing to settle down with a man in his 40s or early 50s. According to her, she has followed the teachings of the pastors consistently and, in some cases, has previously sought help through their comment sections.
Princess noted that while her requests sometimes attract insults and backlash online, she remains unbothered, insisting that the new video was meant to show how serious she is about finding a husband.
SpecialAdviser: I just hope and pray he is not one of those that promised to teach a particular tribe a lesson during last election.
I am sorry if the comment above looks harsh but with the recent happening in Nigeria, one would ask if TRIBALISM truly pays. An adage says that a goat lying down is lying on its skin.
The day we stop tribalism is the day we solve our problems collectively. Tinubu was never a candidate that deserved an office. His style of politics will always breed evil. How can someone preach snatch it, grab it and run away with it? That statement alone invites CURSE. God sees everything,. It’s a big SHAME
But bitter Obi is fit for the post bah??….I think u need to order sense from Temu on a discount promo😃
EvergreenDiarie: A UK-based Nigerian lady breaks down in uncontrollable tears 😭 after her husband allegedly removed her from his Certificate of Sponsorship. 🇬🇧💔
In this emotional video, she recounts how her dream life in the UK suddenly turned into a nightmare — losing not just her spousal sponsorship, but also her residency rights and security. Many Nigerians in the diaspora are reacting, calling it a painful reminder of how love, immigration, and power can collide.
💬 What do you think — was he justified or heartless? 📍Watch, share, and join the conversation.
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