ErnestNc: It was a bitter sweet experience I'd not advice any young man to engage in. It's a game and the only way to win, is to be the user .
I knew this already but unfortunately I was blind sided and disarmed by the love I had for her 13yr old child. The child was so bright. I tutored her in mathematics til she became the best. I saw a lonely bright child who took me as a father figure in her school.
I was so attached and one day I was opportune to meet with her mother. I met a very beautiful young woman in her early 30's the day she came to drop off her child at school. Prior to this, our chat engagement was official and all about her daughter's growth. She requested that I drop all formality and desist from caling her "ma" . She called me babe instead and We both became informal with time and got very close. There was constant calls and communication.
She told me alot about her past , her 4 exes and how she's been alone. It turns out she was always the victim in all her stories . She's so pretty , why would any man leave such a woman? I kept asking myself. She learnt about our 5yrs age difference which was shocking to her but she was already deep into it and ready to go down.
THE ROMANCE
We became sexually involved and things were going down fast. She had great sexual appetite . She wanted me to marry her and was fond of calling me her child's soon to be father and how we were gonna get married. She's a fashion designer who is financially stable.
CRISIS
She had sudden financial crisis after embarking on a huge project. To assist , I tutored the child for free and I was assisting her occasionally with finances cuz I had lesson gigs fetching me 6figures.
Soon, I started to realise her sudden change of attitude. The calls soon dropped and we started to have alot of unresolvable fights , reason being that she would rather not like to settle the conflict when I want to, but make it linger so I'd have to beg her even when she was wrong. She never likes to talk about the unresolved issues, so we could trash it amicably and make amends where necessary.
POINT OF REALISATION
I suspected she was sleeping around and one day I decided to pay her a visit . On that faithful day, I heard her elder sister over a loud phone conversation " Jane, u really have my time today that you didn't go to man's house" ". I cringed on hearing that . This is someone who said she doesn't sleep around because of the stereotype attached to being a single mom.
They both laughed about it and she told her sister that she was currently with a man. The sister said further " what of bros? He say he no do again or when he go engage u? " .
This time I felt the ground should open up . "Bros" is an elderly man in his 50's who wants to marry her. We had a fight that night and she denied that she had anything to do with bros and her sis was joking about her visits to men. We trashed it and made up with sex.
Next morning she was on call with a male friend who wanted to borrow money from her and she called him babe.
Note that, she's called a different male friend babe accidentally too and she quickly defended that she calls all her male friends "babe" . I told her it wasn't cool. She got defensive and even called another male friend and she told him I was jealous, they both laughed and she ended the call with " I love you and he replied too". We had a fight . I left and still came back to check on her. I was ignored while she was on call with her male friend for 30mins after which she invited him over with 2 other guys.
I asked why and what for. She boldly told me "whatever activities I have with my friends is not your concern , even if we have 10some " .
I was saddened because this was someone for once I was ready to risk it all to settle down with. She was probably entangled in something I never understood. I discovered that she clubbed on Sundays , and would never allow her daughter come live with her. The poor child has been living with her grandparents for 13yrs. My girlfriend also abused weed and alcohol. I saw all these in her fridge
THE PREGNANCY
I was broken by everything and kept my distance but we still spoke. Early this year, we both suspected she was pregnant since she missed her period. We did a test and I found out she was pregnant. 4weeks 8days but I doubted it was mine after all the recent discoveries. To cut the long story short she removed it and bled for days.
The disrespect and devaluation kept on going . I was mentally unstable for a while and took Ill. I couldn't resume to teach and I lost my job. My mother was angry with me for having anything to do with her.
I broke up with her cuz I realised what I had wasn't real. I realised I never did anything that bad to deserve all the treatments I received. I was supporting and loving and was even a father figure to her child .
I'm without a job now but I'll be commencing a technical training for a better job offer. I'm still unstable and hurt but I'll bounce.
I'm one of those guys who don't believe in playing nice because ive been hurt before. I broke my rules and was disarmed by the love I had for a child and I fell in love with a lie. But it's all good. I learnt my lesson.
So sorry about that broda, but from my own experience, many of them are nothing but leech and parasites. They don’t have any iota of feelings, they are only living for survival😃😃😃
OlaleyeCast: Popular Nigerian comedienne and actress, Damilola Adekoya, fondly known as Princess, has openly appealed to prominent clerics to help her find a life partner.
In a video shared on her social media pages, Princess called on Pastor Jerry Eze, Apostle Femi Lazarus, Pastor Bolaji Idowu, and Apostle Joshua Selman, urging them to help link her up with a “kind and responsible man” within their congregations.
The actress said she is single, ready to mingle, and willing to settle down with a man in his 40s or early 50s. According to her, she has followed the teachings of the pastors consistently and, in some cases, has previously sought help through their comment sections.
Princess noted that while her requests sometimes attract insults and backlash online, she remains unbothered, insisting that the new video was meant to show how serious she is about finding a husband.
SpecialAdviser: I just hope and pray he is not one of those that promised to teach a particular tribe a lesson during last election.
I am sorry if the comment above looks harsh but with the recent happening in Nigeria, one would ask if TRIBALISM truly pays. An adage says that a goat lying down is lying on its skin.
The day we stop tribalism is the day we solve our problems collectively. Tinubu was never a candidate that deserved an office. His style of politics will always breed evil. How can someone preach snatch it, grab it and run away with it? That statement alone invites CURSE. God sees everything,. It’s a big SHAME
But bitter Obi is fit for the post bah??….I think u need to order sense from Temu on a discount promo😃
EvergreenDiarie: A UK-based Nigerian lady breaks down in uncontrollable tears 😭 after her husband allegedly removed her from his Certificate of Sponsorship. 🇬🇧💔
In this emotional video, she recounts how her dream life in the UK suddenly turned into a nightmare — losing not just her spousal sponsorship, but also her residency rights and security. Many Nigerians in the diaspora are reacting, calling it a painful reminder of how love, immigration, and power can collide.
💬 What do you think — was he justified or heartless? 📍Watch, share, and join the conversation.
Chilipepper: Canada-based Nigerian man called out for dumping Nigerian woman he dated online for 3 years to marry another woman he claimed is related to him
A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to accuse her Canada-based boyfriend of betrayal after allegedly dumping her to marry another woman he had claimed was his cousin.
The woman, identified as Onyinyechi Onyenma, shared her story on Facebook, recounting how she dated a man named Izuchi Maurice Anthony, also known as Nazzy, for three years. According to her, Izuchi hails from Osisioma Ngwa, Umuagbara village in Amaise autonomous community, Abia State, and lives in Canada.
She explained that she had been supporting him financially since 2022. “I have been assisting him the little I can since 2022. It’s not because I have the money but because he told me his Nigerian account is not functioning,” she wrote.
Onyinyechi said she became suspicious after noticing that Izuchi often posted photos of a particular woman on his WhatsApp status, always with affectionate emojis. Whenever she confronted him about the lady, he reportedly told her the woman was his cousin. “This guy will always tell me it’s his cousin and that they can never marry because they’re related,” she wrote, adding that she later investigated his family background and discovered no such cousin existed.
She also claimed that Izuchi had promised marriage, asking her to tell her parents to prepare a traditional marriage list. “He promised me to return by November ending this year and he even went as far as telling me to tell my parents to get traditional marriage list for my bride price,” she wrote.
According to her, they had been dating exclusively online and had never met physically. “My reason then was because I needed to see him physically before going to his place (because we’ve been dating online), at least see him before going there,” she explained.
Onyinyechi added that Izuchi assured her he was “coming back” for her and pleaded that she should not “break his heart like other ladies did.”
CommentatorPro: Nigeria is a country blessed with talent, resources, and resilience — yet it continues to struggle under the weight of bad leadership, corruption, and poor governance. From unreliable electricity to the rising cost of living, it sometimes feels like every sector is crying out for help.
Now imagine this: you suddenly become the President of Nigeria — but only for one week. You have full control to make key decisions, sign executive orders, and implement reforms. No bureaucracy, no political godfathers — just seven days to make a difference.
What would you fix first?
Would you focus on the economy, to bring down the price of food and fuel? Would you tackle security, ensuring that citizens can travel freely without fear of bandits or kidnappers? Or maybe you’d go straight to education, reviving schools, paying teachers well, and making universities work again?
Some Nigerians say they would start by cutting government salaries and reducing the cost of governance. Others believe the first step should be arresting corrupt politicians and recovering looted funds. A few even argue that constitutional reform is the only real solution to Nigeria’s endless cycle of problems.
Whatever your opinion, one thing is clear — most Nigerians know exactly what they want fixed; they just haven’t had the power to do it.
So, let’s hear from you If you had just one week as Nigeria’s President, with total authority to act, what’s the first thing you’d change and why?
Primarily, I will change my family story……😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
And what makes him think Nigerians has anything to loose??. We ought to be living in luxury as a citizen of a cowntry with numerous mineral resources but weytin those werey dey give us, na sufferness pro max🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
naptu2: The FERMA Act of 2007 stated that collection of the tax will commence on a date to be determined by the minister of finance. Mr Olawale Edun is the minister of finance.
Eeeyah, I feel so much for her, but na to get Egusi soup with better round Panla inside to take sink ham. Pelsin cannot comma suffer two sufferness 😂😂😂
It is delusional to think that Jonathan would want to be the Vice President while Bitter Obi comes the president…..Please come off it cos that’s no possible even in the next life😁
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