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There are several reasons a guy can hover around you or allow access into his life without loving you.
One of such reasons is if he is getting jeru trip.
He simply wants that without any strings attached.
He wants the benefit of jeru trip without marital commitment.
Another reason is if he gets financial favor from you. He would simply keep leading you on so as to keep getting the financial favor but has no intention of marrying you.
Here are a few tell tale signs that he doesn’t not love you and he would not marry you.
1. He will stop calling you
He will manipulate you to a point where he stops calling you, while you do all the calling.
The only time he would call you is when he wants jeru trip or he needs financial favor.
Such relationships are not worth staying!
Move on and trust God for a man that will love you without toying with your emotions.
2. He will avoid picking your calls
He will not pick your calls except when he needs something from you.
He keeps telling you that he loves you but that he is busy.
Something is not quite right.
No matter how busy a person is, he would stay in touch if he is in love! Click To Tweet
Even when he is in one military establishment where phones are not allowed, he would still find time to sneak somewhere in order to hear your voice.
As a lady, don’t be coerced into becoming the aggressor.
You are the responder in a relationship.
Allow him to drive the relationship and if he is not driving it, get down from the vehicle. Click To Tweet
3. He would never promise a particular date
A man who doesn’t love you and has no intention of marrying will never give you specific date.
If you force him to promise a certain date, he would keep postponing that date. That date would never come!
He would keep telling you he needs to settle some things.
It is somehow to borrow a guy some money so that he can settle down to marry you. Click To Tweet
That shows irresponsibility on his part and some desperate move on your part and every time you are desperate, you are making a mistake.
Isa 28:16 (KJV)
Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious corner stone, a sure foundation: he that believeth shall not make haste.
4. He will never introduce you to any authority figures
Beware of a man who refuses to introduce you to any authority figures in his life.
You don’t know his parents, you don’t know his siblings, you don’t know his pastors, you don’t know anything about his family, ad yet he is promising marriage?
Is he Melchizedek who has no beginning and ending?
Beware of such men. A relationship is not a secret cult. It is not a fraternity that must be kept oblivious.
It is supposed to be joyful thing and he should be excited to announce it to whoever has ears!
5. He gets irritated when you mention the word ‘wedding”
Anytime you try to bring up discussions about wedding or settling down, he gets angry!
He says you are rushing him.
And yet he wants you around every weekend to come and cook and wash boxers! Click To Tweet
Dear daughter, never ever subject yourself to such harrowing experiences. You are much more precious before God.
Never give permission to a man to turn you into a sexual toy, to gratify his lust, satisfy his rush of adrenaline, all in your bid to get married.
Compromise will never secure a relationship, it scatters it!
Prayerfully allow God to work things out for you.
Trust him, and don’t succumb to compromise because of the pressures around you.
Follow God’s time table, stick with His map, use His compass and you will never regret.

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The greatest power you have as a single is not your handsomeness or beauty.
It is not your height neither is it your hot legs.
It is not your phonetics, and it is not your finesse.
Your greatest power, strength or advantage is your CHOICE!
Marriage is not or is not supposed to be by force but by choice.
Your choice!
You will live with your choice!
You will live with the consequences of your choice.
You will live with the strengths of your choice.
You will live with the weaknesses of your choice.
If your choice is good, it translates into a good life.
If your choice is bad, bad stuffs awaits.
A lady has the power of choice before wedding.
After wedding, she still has choices, but her choice is subdued and influenced by the ultimate choice of her husband.
Many choice ladies on fire for God as singles ended up using the fire to cook only because of their choice.
Destinies have been warped and distorted by the choice of their choice!
In deciding who to marry, go beyond the obvious and plunge deeper to see what is beyond the pulchritude.
Go beyond the flesh of the flesh and check out the bone of the bones.
After you have seen the hot legs, does she have a hot heart as well? Click To Tweet
His height attracted you, but does he have a life a well?
A man who doesn’t have a life should not seek for a life partner. Click To Tweet
You love his beard gang, are you sure it is not a gang-up against your destiny? Click To Tweet
Her smile slays you, but behind the smiles, are you sure there lies no bile?
The choice of a man is zeroed up after wedding, so choose well.
The choice of a woman after wedding is final, choose well. There is no clean divorce, it is always a tearing apart.
Mat 25:3-4 (KJV)
They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them: [4] But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.
The lamp represents the pulchritude, it is that which is seen, it is that which attracts.
It is often polished and shiny. With all the hips, tips and lips in place. But not all have oil in their vessel.
Their lamps is only burning for a while.
Before you choose, check beyond the lamp, and be sure he has oil in his vessel.
A lamp without extra oil is an empty facade. The shame will soon be obvious to all.
Does he has the fear of God?
Is she filled with the Holy Ghost?
Don’t go for phonetics alone, be sure he or she can speak in tongues. Demons have no respect for phonetics.
Afflictions of life engendered by wicked spirits can snuff out the light of the lamp quickly.
Without an extra oil, the lamp is useless, a fake life, devoid of life and substance, a shame in waiting, a disaster on queue! Click To Tweet
I challenge you not to fall in love with foolishness. The lyrics of Beyonce or the tune of Fela will not bail you out in the days of trouble.
What is a professed child of God doing with curse-filled lyrics and music?
Invariably, you are what you listen to!
You will need the word of the living God.
Plastic Christianity without a depth will lead to frustration.
Religion without a deliberate relationship with God will embarrass you soonest.
Are you getting married to his bank account or the true riches of the kingdom?
Money is different from wealth. There are billionaires who are bound by the spirit of poverty!
If you have no oil in your vessel, don’t ask me out!
Don’t let his shiny lamp, his fine car and iPhone 7 deceive you, those things bring temporary happiness that will fizzle out.
Real joy, constant victory only comes form God ordained relationships and marriages who are constantly living by the word and the Spirit.
If he has no oil, he would think the lamp is the problem, and he would go and get more lamps, he would dabble into adultery!
Nothing is more excruciating to be married to a wicked spouse, cheating on you, lying, deceiving, full of frowardness and never giving you peace of mind.
Nothing is more debilitating to be married to a strange woman, a knife instead of a wife, bringing daily hell instead of daily help!
Nothing is more fulfilling to be married to a man or woman who is faithful to God, and has no capacity for evil through cheating, lying, playing religion, brandishing lamps without oil.
Where is your oil? Where is your depth? Where is your fear for God? Where is your integrity? Do you pay tithe? Do you honour God? Then you can ask me out and only then will my heart fall for you!
I challenge you to look beyond the lamp and go for the oil, the oil will lubricate your destiny and prevent your marital engine from knocking!

It is not difficult to know if a lady really genuinely loves you.
At the same time, it is also not difficult to know if a lady does not love you. No matter how well or long she pretends, there will be certain signs that will point to the fact that she does not love you.
Once you observe these signs, you need to move on with your life
There is no point flogging the relationship.
Here are some of the signs
1. She will not be excited about you
Once a lady always, all of the time is cold, unexcited, and irritable around you, she does not really love you and does not enjoy your company.
2. She does not talk about you to her friends
Usually ladies are relational and love to talk about the relationships in their lives.
When a lady is in love, she doesn't hide it. If she is not talking about you, you probably don't hold a special place in her heart. Click To Tweet
3. She has other male friends and hides them from you
Once you are not the only guy in her life and she hides other guys from you, she doesn't really love you. She has other hidden agenda.
Her text messages are all private. She walks away to pick calls. Her heart may not be with you.
4. She criticizes you a lot and compares you with other guys
A lady that does not value you and keeps comparing you with other guys will most likely leave you.
She does not love you enough to accept you.
5. She openly embarrasses you
A lady that does not respect you but publicly embarrasses you, does not really love you. It doesn't mean much to her to hurt your feeling. She does not really care.
6. She does not stay or keep in touch
A lady that "forms" busy all the time and doesn't stay in touch does not really loves you.
When a lady loves you, she will always want to be around you.
7. She does not pray or intercede for you
When a lady loves a guy she prays for him and talks to God about him.
If she has never prayed for you, if she doesn't talk to God about your progress, she does not really love you. Click To Tweet
8. She will not give to you
She doesn't have to give a guy expensive things but her willingness and readiness to share what she has is a sign that she loves the guy.
If a lady is always receiving gifts from you without giving you anything in return, she does not love you.
9. She will not keep you informed about her personal and private life
A lady does not love you if she does not inform you about our personal life.
If she keeps vital personal details of her life, past or present from you, she does not love you. Click To Tweet
10. She can not verbalize her love
Once a lady cannot say categorically that she loves you, then she does not love you.
Usually, a lady should find it easy to say, "I love you" if she does.
So if she has never said she loves you and does not show it in her actions that she loves you, she really does not love you.
I pray that God will give more underst

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