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22o62021:
[b] Our patents are aware of the pregnancy.

She traveled home and she told me that she has no money to come back, I sent her #12500. But I was surprised that her number stopped going through and I was restless. After the first day on the road, she called me to tell me that her step brother took her two phones inside her back and went away. I was surprised and asked her if the brother dropped her sim and she said yes. After three days on the road ,she finally came home past 11pm . When I went to open the gate for her, I saw that they were two girls outside, I let the both inside, she told me it was her step sister, I said ok because at this moment I thought maybe her sister is going somewhere else.

In the morning I woke up before then and I was at the bathroom when my girlfriend came in, I asked her , that she planned bringing her sister here without informing me , she said that it’s none of my business if she bring her sister, that her sister will not stay with me because she already has a work for her. I was angry but I kept quiet since she said that the said girl won’t be staying in my house. Before this my girlfriend stays with me but her belongings are not in my house, they are in her own place.


After about 5 days later , I got her another android phone because she was already asking for it because a guy bought a phone for her sister just in her four days in the city.

They will always come to my house to eat in the morning, on one particular day, I have yam at home and I bought everything that we will need to make porridge, I called them to come in the morning. Immediately they came, her sister opened the fridge to check for bread but couldn’t find any,my girlfriend gave her money to go buy one and eat, when they are done eating, I asked them to go cook the food, I followed my girlfriend to the kitchen but her sister stayed back, put on an earphone, on the fan and television, laid down. After 10 minutes in the kitchen I went inside to meet her and asked her to go help out in the kitchen, she just stood up and left my house. I told her that I don’t want to see her in my house again. My girlfriend after preparing the food, she fished in the flask and took it to her, I did not even ask her why because I know that she won’t have the heart to eat without her sister.

Right from that moment, my girlfriends behavior changed too, she will no longer call me on phone or come to my house, At their working place, her boss started complaining of her change in attitude since she brought her sister there.

Her boss was tired of complaining and sacked them. They came to my house when I was the kitchen, she joined me in the kitchen but her sister was inside. After cooking , we ate together in the kitchen and I went straight to stay at the balcony, she came to me and told me that they are going to her brothers place that she will be back.

It had been days now and she doesn’t pick my calls and I don’t even know where they are right now.

I have called with different numbers and she wasn’t picking.

This morning I called the numbers severally until a guy picked up, I asked after the owner of the phone and he told me that she is not around now, I told him whom I am and the said girl is pregnant for me. She was shocked and told me that they are together now in a different state with me. This is to say the said girl has ran to meet another girl with pregnancy.

My friend also called the guy and introduced himself as my elder brother, he explained everything to him and he promised to call us back when he get home, that he was not aware that she is pregnant, that he is going to send her back to where she cane from by tomorrow.

This evening they flashed me and I called them they will busy the call. Her number hasn’t been going through since then.

Many women have advised me to let her be for now that she will come back begging when she sees that no man is ready to take her in when the pregnancy starts coming out. Others said I should pet her to come back then talk sense into her.

To me right now, I have tried my best and I have chosen to stop looking for her.

Many people on this forum warned me about TIV girls and their promiscuous nature but I defended her thinking that she is different.

I have been avoiding my moms calls because I know that she will ask after her

I can’t sleep and I can no longer concentrate on anything I’m doing. It’s affecting me psychologically .[/b]


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But this evening when I came back to the shop

My boy told me that she saw her sister and called her to the shop, he asked her about my girlfriend and she said she was at home (their brothers house) she said it’s the next street after mine but I can’t locate the particular house.

But I’m sure she is no longer in this state

osuofia2:
Watch see how Southerners without morals castigate Northerners with morals.
In the North we are trying to build better society unlike in your states like Lagos,Benin,Owerri that is stinking of immoral acts.

NaMe4:
It's their region and they can make any law they deem fit (even if it contravenes that of the Nigerian constitution). If you are an apparel trader, the law there says do not display your wares using mannequins, modify your business method, it's your damn private business.
Of course, forget about alcohol business if you love yourself.

Sadly, those on the other side of the Niger are scared to even enforce a ban on open grazing, a measure which would have far more life-saving value for their citizens. Right now, a sizable part of their population suffers from relative food scarcity and soaring prices following continued destruction of farmlands and slaughtering of farmers.
But guess what? The recreants would rather resort to treachery and fighting one another for insanely selfish reasons.

SenatePresdo:
Nigerian armed forces can never be smart.

Who is SA on security matters to the President?

What will be good for them is to just allow these people protest in peace without interfering. When night comes, all protesters would go home, and it will be over.

But due to lack of common reasoning, they would want to use security forces to hijack the protests, which some youths would try to resist, and casualties may be recorded.

Now that would make it more easier for the protesters to gain more sympathizers just like during endsars.


Buhari should thread with caution, and apply common sense.

Kebbiprince:
This makes u even a stupid animal, so grenade should choose where to affect? Lmao, you must be one foolish inexperienced compound fool who lacks experience of military hardwares
Animal!

afoife:
Hello all, I have a staff on my farm whom I have known for sometimes before I employed him. Then I have been supporting him financially in the little way I can until I needed an extra hand, so he joined me.

It was during our conversation that I realized he is actually a bricklayer, I have been able to help him get construction jobs from friends who are civil engineers, but still I noticed he is always broke.

So I asked him how come, or is it that my friend has not been paying? He told me has been getting his wage, so why are you always broke?

He told me it's his family, but I know he is not married, he said it's his mum, she is a.drunk and smokes, this guy is in his mid thirty so I presume the mother should be in the mid fifty (I have never met her)

This guy lives around bere in Ibadan (the mum lives around there also), so I raised funds for him and relocated him to Akala express, and I told him to separate himself from him family members for some time. So he can give directions to his life, which he did and he called me yesterday that he wants to buy a mini gas cylinder as fasting is approaching, but he didn't use his phone, so I asked him of his phone, he said he switched it off as his mum has been disturbing him for money

But just yesterday, I was going to sending money to my mum for weekly upkeep, I felt bad that I advised someone against giving money to his mother and here I am giving to my mother.

Am I doing the right thing?

femu:
Civil disobedience can be handled by the police or mopol not army slaughtering people.

denkyw:
there is only one reason why they will not lift the trophy and that is Buhari , that guy is bad luck and a failure am disappointed to tell you that Nigeria won't lift the trophy........ blame Buhari.

erunz:
FAYOSE MY MAN, PDP THE ONLY PDP ATTACKER IN FORM, KEEP TELLING THEM THE TRUTH. NOTHING IS WORKING AGAIN IN THIS COUNTRY, MOST BUSINESS HAVE BEEN PUT ON HOLD, NOW NEW INVESTORS, EXISTING ONES ARE RELOCATING. STILL THE PRESIDENT WILL STILL TRAVEL OUTSIDE THE SHORES OF NIGERIA AND DISGRACE HIMSELF. FAYOSE HIT THEM MORE