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EducationRe: Just One Carry Over by LanceNL: 8:40pm On Nov 20, 2025
It may depend on:
1. The school's senate policy, and department's policy,
2. The number of units
3. If it is a core program course (either borrowed or departmental)

Just reach out to your part adviser as soon as you can, and any lecturer close to you, to know if there's any possibility of a waiver.
And do so as soon as you can, so that you'd be discussed in the next senate meeting (usually, matters like this are considered in such meetings).

All will be well bro.
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by LanceNL: 2:19pm On Jun 06, 2025
Chram:
U sure say u dey quick understand something so?
Sir, do not mind the young man trying to drag you back. Don't listen to his lies. If possible, block him on NL. That's the rubbish they keep yapping to keep men bound.
It's only through Jesus Christ, that you can experience the peace of God, and thank God you've found him - He that dwells in the secret place of the most high, shall abide under the shadow of the almighty.

The mistake had been made, lessons learnt, and thanks to God for sparing your life.
Join a bible believing church that prays fervently and encourages personal development (I'd also suggest listening to apostle Joshua Selman's messages), attend life changing seminars, and seek friendship with people who are going to your destination in life.

Don't live your life in fear of anything or anyone, Just avoid any means of contact to the former area, change your mobile, and get a job, skill ... as it were.
If you have 1st connection relatives back there, be wise and discreet with communications, and do that anonymously.

You can still be who you dream to be.
I've battled depression before, and I know how hopeless life might look. But your reality would be what you declare and work life to be.
Things have taken a new turn for me, I believe yours too will get better and better speedily.

Stay blessed bro.
HealthRe: I Am Experiencing Mental Stress & Emotional Struggles by LanceNL: 1:45pm On Mar 14, 2025
All will be well with you my brother.
Success has many fathers but failure is an orphan.

Whatever it may be that you're going through, there's someone out there who's been through worse, and there's another currently passing through worse. Also, there are people who have come out of such challenges, and today, it has turn into a testimony.

I had battled depression for over 6 years till mid of last year sir, with a number of attempts to end it all, due to failure in academics, relationship, business, et al.
And it does at times shows that people don't care - not even acquaintances, and even some just perceive you based on assumptions.

God is always present and faithful, and he still is. Keep praying to God no matter how little the time you can spare. Maintain a cheerful and grateful attitude. Stay away from negative people (I had to relocate in my case from a toxic atmosphere). If there aren't much motivation around you, watch funny YouTube videos, listen to sermons that speaks to your desired goals while on the go.
Listen to praise songs and vigorously 'outdance' your challenges.

Early this year, God did blessed me with the gift of a wonderful friend, who's also been through hell and back. She listens, encourages, believes in me, and is willing to help me all the way, and I too would definitely be reciprocal. Also she's very funny and playful .... Lol.

I pray help would soon locate you, and destiny friends would come your way, in Jesus name.
Love you bro.
EducationRe: Problem With My Siwes..what To Do. HELP !!!! by LanceNL: 10:47pm On Mar 13, 2025
Hi Bro,

I do believe that something can be still be done. As soon as you can, please "courteously" reach out to your departmental SIWES coordinator, and ask for every help that can be rendered.

Wishing you Godspeed in your final year.
CrimeRe: VIDEO: Woman Dies After Jumping From Ekpan-refinery Flyover In Delta State by LanceNL: 11:51pm On Jun 29, 2024
Let's stop blaming people for failing, or giving up. We might only blame them for not trying or being lazy.
Around 18:30 and 18:50 today Sat 29, I attempted hanging myself to the ceiling fan in my room.
I checked online, to see if there's anyone I could even speak with, or thereabout. I called LUTH, LASG, and NG suicide hotlines, they're mostly switched off.
Later, I switched to listening to Cece Winans - Goodness of God (on replay), and praying in the Spirit.

Friends, please be nice to people, love genuinely, pray for them. Even if you don't have money, kindly reach out, let them share the love, warmth, and strength that you have. The strength of a chain is in it's links. One shall chase a thousand and two would put ten thousand to flight.

For about 6 years now, I'd been battling depression (not having anything to do with finances). I just would have appreciated if there's someone to talk with, and who'd sincerely listen. This past two weeks seem almost dark, but I thank God his love never fails, He's Emmanuel.

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