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ChiefGuru24:
You still Haven't told us what or why you're having such thoughts. If she has done nothing, then you're the one at fault for your incapability to control your sexual urges and so it will be pointless to carry on with the wedding unless you can fix yourself through counseling. But if she is at fault, then you let us know, then I'll teach you how to Fix her and get your relationship back to normal. Wish you luck

Feminism traits and the likes....

Shibaraba:
Divorce came to mind because she did something either consciously or subconsciously and you hated it.

We wey dey the institution na prison we dey we no fit comot.
We dey push am like that. Wishing we weren't
But then again no one loves going down alone
So please marry. Make you feel wetin we dey feel

I am actually seeing some feminism traits in her and some other issues.... Sometimes now her talks irritates me

Please nairalanders, I need your opinion and advice though i expect a lot of bashing because it is normal here on nairaland.

I met this girl two years back and we started dating since 2017. We have been into each other since then.

Recently i went to see her parents just to make my intentions known. After that, we both traveled to see my parents also.

Ever since we came back from my village i have been having this thoughts of divorce. I have this feeling that i will seek for divorce immediately after the wedding. I don't want to have a broken home. I don't want to cheat on my wife because if i eventually marry her with the way i am thinking now i must cheat on her which i don't want to happen in my marriage. I am thinking of quiting the relationship but i don't know how to go about it, how she will react, what her family members will say and react. I am so confused.

Please i need your advice.