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funmisticqueen:
you are very stupid, how is it her fault that the man got another girl pregnant. Even buhari has more sense than you

I believe my opinion is as much valid as urs. U have NO RIGHT to insult me. Pls be advised else...

@Rubysims, the choice is urs. Its apparent u guys are into each other but dating for that long tends to bring issues like this. Like I said earlier, I advice you to stand ur ground, be headstrong and GMS.

Hi Babe, em so sorry u found urself in this kinda situation buh I think u cause urself pain, obviously. U had everything going on fine till he had that one night stand. Secondly, ur bf had being very loyal to u (notably) buh u chose to make him a bit miserable. U see, men's life is filled with hiccups, sometimes the tide is strong, violent and seems unending and sometimes, we just stroll down the street with our babe hand in hand, jollificating and time slowly pass by. We ain't perfect too, we make mistakes and some are irredeemable - just like this. However, there's always a way outta trouble.

I think the said lady is just a poisonous venom in ur life and u need a strong antidote. She came around to fill that void u left open in ur relationship, I'll advice u tackle it head-on. Prayerfully equip urself and seek spiritual guidance.

As long as I don't support taking a human life, I strongly recommend ur bf work out a modality to take care of the baby after birth, besides she can only claim the baby for a few years (Baba ọmọ ló lọmọ = A child's father owns him). Then u MUST take care of him/her like urs! Since u cause that illegitimate child by ur acts of negligence to ur paramount concern - ur relationship hence, ur family.

However, if the preg is just a few weeks old, probably still in semen or clot, then press hard for its removal and be headstrong. Unfortunately, the lady is aware of ur bf's situation, she would want to exploit him esp when she knows about u. This is a tough predicament, stand ur ground though.

On a final note, don't make ur bf go through another series of hardship and unnecessary troubles. If you're still interested in him, Get Married � Soon (which I pray will be ur resolve). And if u ain't, let him go. There's no point keeping what u won't need. Ohun tí ènìyàn òbá níí jẹ, kìí fíí runmú = U shouldn't smell what you won't eat.

Babe, no one will make ur decisions for u. I see u love ur bf... And I believe u knw what u want. U have three options:
A - Accept Baby, GMS (Get Married Soon)
B - Delete Baby, GMS
C - Let go of ur bf

My advice: Accept this fate (accept the baby and take VERY GOOD CARE of him/her when s/he's with u since u caused it) and GMS.

God bless you.