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Hello Am in 2 years in relationship with Nigeria boyfriend thinghs arent so well i dont understand if is the different culture or is up to personality . My boyfriend is not working and he is here not legaly all 2 years, from beggining he was studying after he stop the school and we moved together. im suporting him in any how but is look like is problem beacause he lost any respect in me and am having the trouses role which i didnt want to, anything i will say he think is an order but he dont want to change a thing. im really sad i feel like he hates me, anytime we had an issue abouth his future or something else he is ignoring me, I do have a feelings for him, he is really lovely person but sometimes i dont reliaze him how cold he can act. am really psychicly suffer from that ignoring of any mine feelings, He did made disicion he will go back to school he already had money for the ticket to go back to Nigeria to fix the visa, but is look like he spend it when i ask he ignore me again, dont know what to do i can not see things what supose to be in relationship i have also in my mind then he using me for some things, im really not happy is only me trying to things work, im sorry my english is not so corect i hope u gonna understand me, thank you for advices or opinium beacase if i ask my closest people i know they dont like him, i was so positive and full of life before now im so negative and sad feellin i failled,