ayoolar011:


Who this? Arm of company?

You will never know and guess. But I know who you are and I promise to deal with your mothers when we meet.

Bastards.

These Arakan bastards, hope you have started preparing your anti-plants for Sunday. I will surely fingerf*k your mothers and come to shun in your blood streams.

You like break abi...

I promise you, by the time I am done with your mothers, 5 of you will dash.

10 counts you are packing your bags... 1, 2, 3, 4 and lastly wonderful...

(lol, threats is a 6 units course that you must learn)

Cc: Adexlexy, judistics, ayoolar011, Layshooo.

May God help our pots.

shiwaggz57:


be sincere so we know our faith abeg

All I was trying yo say is have faith in God bro. He is all the connection I have.

OG2TURN:
pls y'all who got d message, with all sincerity can u tell if u got this on merit?.....just to give me hope.

It is just God. I don't need to know anyone. Sir, you don't need to know anyone too.

Regards.

Aigonline:


is the number that sent you the text 0816022.......?

Yes.

Text message just got in! Praiiiiseeee the Lorrrrdddd!

I am HIGHLY CONNECTED!

TinaAnita:
One thing I'm so sure of is that she fell for you and she was so heartbroken as she didn't hear from you, all that made her conclude that you aren't worth the pain and inconveniences so she decided to call it quits before she falls deeply in love and get trapped

So true. Worse is he didn't understand her but was thinking of only his side. Is a relationship all about one person?

Funny thing is, when you finally get this type of girl, she's yours forever.

I think I understand her point.

First, she really likes you but is trying to be cautious. She is a kind of person that hardly trust men, especially online guys.

So, this happens and her instincts told her, 'I told you so, this guy is not reliable. How convenient to say that he has been robbed after not keeping to his word. This guy is no good, I tell ya".

So, she backs off and blanks out.

For these kind of people, they need constant assurance that all is well and had you really really loved her like you said, you would have listened to her side of the story.

But instead, you said some demeaning things to her that made her instincts tell her, ' I told ya, this guy isn't worth it'.

Worse of all you brought it to nairaland and romance section that is full of toddlers so that people could applaud your actions? How matured are you?

#imo.

sisisioge:
How about a surprise visit where you bring on all the vavavoom? Or you two can make a pilgrim of each other's location minus the holiness. You will prepare for the visit like kilode...your hair, nails, read interesting things to discuss, etc. It might help spice things up.

Caveats on surprise visits o.

I remember my sis dating a dude all the way in London. Each would travel to see each other. The visits were planned for since London to Lagos no be Opebi to gbagada. This continued until she decided to surprise him but ended up shocking herself! Let's just say she ended up staying in an hotel and squatting with a friend for two weeks. She couldn't change her tickets back, she couldn't go home to families we have there. No be small thing. Good thing is, the surprise will help you see stuffs you might not know exist...there you could make a decision about your relationship.

Chai! That one na strong something o. I hope she is better now.

The thing about LDR is that you have to know that you are dating a man not a God and disappointment can come up at anytime.

Na God dey keep relationship o. 4 years of LDR no be moi moi.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Meen 4 years is too long to be in a long distance relationship of there has been no moves to make it permanent
Long distance relationships require shitloads of sacrifice. You need to really work at it. Communicate all the time and most important know where you are headed with it. If you stay too long as bf &gf things fizzle out . I suggest you have a real talk with your man( no bullshit) decide where you want to go with this

We do know where we are headed trust me. We are both trying to build our careers and combining that with a relationship is really tiring.

Communication is the thing.

Thanks.

They say as a Lady, don't be idle, looking for something to do.

Build a career

Be Successful

Don't wait on any man

Don't be lazy

sasko:


forget the tory....hee don tey way nyash they for back, make we hear words jorr..

even in corporate world you must find a way to hold body but just be smart about it...just don't get caught


if you can vouch for the very guy you can also believe Buhari will return dollar to Naira to its former price
.

I believe God will return Naira to its former value..

Thanks for all your contribution.

So busy that I can't even keep this thread alive... Hmmmm.

I'll keep trying and keep praying and what will be will be.

Yesterday, I missed his calls late (10 missed calls) while at work and tried calling back but he seemed distracted, maybe because it was a video call.

Tried again immediately I closed (didn't want to risk going home before I called coz he might be asleep) but alas! He was already dozing off!

Said he had a really tiring day!

See what I am up against?

stunningjudy:

Communicate as much as you can, reminisce on past memories, have crazy imaginations. LDR requires enough imagination and communication (video calls),it's not easy though. If your partner is in Nigeria, try to visit.

Thanks. I appreciate this.

Janeyinspires:
Lemmi take it from where you wrote,'when one is ready to chat,the other is sleeping.' There must be a committed effort from both of you to keep the spark.Let it not be one-sided.Both of you should agree on when to chat and all that.Always see it as a date with him online.You can be creative with your chat when chatting.Check this scenario......You:Hey boo,I'm coming down to your place.Him: Ok bae,I prepared your fav dish.Lemmi set the table for to.You:That's sweet!Can't wait to be there.Plz don't forget to play my fav song at the background.Him:I will.You:Boo,I'm at your doorstep,come open the door.......and it continues.With thiz type and way of chatting,you won't feel the distance let alone losing the spark.Again,don't forget to send text messages at interval and make videos to share.

Wow! Thanks! I'll try this.

In short, I'm calling him now.

Joavid:


you be small pikin

can't u give them one strong excuse?

I have ran out of STRONG EXCUSES.

Try giving excuses for 4 years and see where that would land you.

I just want an idea of what to do to bring back the spark.

sasko:
I can see a simple solution and some people are busy blowing grammar


get a part time boyfriend and save yourself some stress
.

I no get power to keep one, so na two I go come dey do as once Abeg o.

No strength for that.

Flexherbal:
Communication is the key.

The communication is dwindling everyday.

What do I do?

...

Joavid:
Try as much as you can to create time for both of you.

and when you get that time, discuss important things to strengthen and sustain your relationship.

During any short break at work, drop a text for him. make a short quick video and send to him.


If possible, fly over and spend the weekend with him.

I wish I could. I stay with my parents

Dem no wan hear say you go see man...

Dextology:
It takes great effort to keep a distance relationship going. There must be committed efforts to see that is really works out if you truly love and value your partner.

To keep the spark going there should be creativity, create out time to talk with your partner, ensure there is physical contacts by visiting your partner once in awhile.

Thanks for your contribution.

Creativity is the one thing I am trying achieve. Do you have any ideas?

Good Evening,

I decided to post this here because I need matured advice.

We have been dating long distance for about 4 years now and somehow, the spark isn't as it used to be.

My job is really tasking and so is his thats why we only get to talk at night and most times, one of us is usually asleep when the other person is ready to talk.

I feel it slipping from my hands and need your advice on what to do to make this work again.