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My broda,its a gud tin this is coming from a man but sincerely speaking people that have anger issues really wanna change it after their reaction but pride holds it back....
Am sharing this with u cos I have anger issues too.though,am quick @saying sorry but sometimes I go overboard and it make me cry at my quiet moments...
Please don't leave her cos every woman cums with her probs.....Cos I believe it hurts her too just like it does to me....
My dear brother,quitters are losers....Don't make this part of life a misery...Communication is key in marriage...Each time I have anger issues with my hubby after settlement and at our quite moments,he always ask wat his mistakes were and wen I tell him, he equally tells me mine and how to be a gud wife and mother.
U said she talks to u like a kid,she doesn't really mean it...Every tin is said and done out of anger...
I respect and luv my hubby more cos he manages my anger well.....He totally ignores me wen I start...By d tym I finish ranting I wish I cld be as soft as he is....
Like someone said,buy her books on how managr crisis in marriage..I read alot and I think it helps a lot....
I browse a lot on marriage and tinz that could strengthen marriage...
Divorce is never an option....
Just the way u feel bad about her attitude,she does too my dear....Don't give room for thoughts like DIVORCE..Cos d psychological trauma that cums with,u can't handle.....

May the Almighty Allah see u tru