Hallo Leilana

Ich denke auf dieser Website findest du alle nötigen Infos.

http://nigeriaembassygermany.org/consular_forms.htm

Unter "Passpost renewal" steht nirgends, dass mit Visa bezahlt werden muss.
Vielleicht möchte dein Freund den neuen E-Pass bestellen. Hierfür habe ich von bekannten gehört, dass Sie via Internet den Pass bestellen mussten und dann einen Termin bekamen. In der Embassy wurden sie dann mit einem speziellen Gerät fotografiert.

Versucht euch doch bei Bekannten Infos zu holen.

Liebe Grüsse
mamaken

Oh, sogar auf deutsch Bist du auch Deutscher/ Deutsche?

Es steht wiklich nicht auf der Homepage. Meinen Freund wurde diese Auskunft telefonisch gegeben und die Dame am Telefon betonte auch, dass er online die benötigten Formulare ausfüllen muss und dann eben auch online bezahlen soll.
Gut das taten wir dann auch, aber seine Mastercard wurde nicht akzeptiert. Die Dame am Telefon war dann schon nicht mehr so freundlich. Legte ständig auf. Überweisen sollte er nicht, denn das Geld wäre weg und ohne Termin soll er nicht zur Botschaft kommen und diesen Termin bekommt man nur nach der Bezahlung.

Ich glaube nicht, dass es um den E-Pass geht. Er hat einen Pass, dieser ist abgelaufen und er muss erneuert werden. Ich kann ihn aber nachher mal fragen.

Ich habe ihn auch schon den Tipp gegeben Bekannte zur fragen, aber hier in der Gegend gibt es kaum Nigerianer. Er hat Kontakt zu einen und der hat den deutschen Pass mittlerweile. Kennt sich also auch nicht wirklich aus.
Deswegen dachte ich, dass ich es hier mal versuche.

Thank you!

Thank you very much for the answers

Deutsche Bank do not give us a credit because we do not earn enough money. I am still a student and he is working but may be you know how it is in germany without qualifikations it is so difficult to get a well paid job. (I think it is everywhere the same ).

I heard it from the embassy that many people are having that problem at the moment. I still do not understand why they change the system.
My boyfriend has got a Mastercard but the embassy told him only VISA is possible.

We also plan to travel to Nigeria together may be in the next 2 years but when the system is like this how should I get a VISA? Or the children? The only have the German pass, so I think they woul need a VISA too.

His parents are telling him everytime that they want to see the children too. He can not bring them here and we can not got there. All the the laws are to difficult.

I open an account by Postbank here in Germany. I get the Visacard, but I can not verify it with Visa
The don not accept this card.

He is not illegal and I dont stop dating him because of our two wonderful sons. And we love to live here, in our beautiful country. Thank you.


The Visacart is difficult to get, because we dont earn enough money. No bank will give us this visacart.
The pass isnt expensive, only 65 $, but really we dont know anybody with this visakart. He even ask his boss to help him out, but who needs this card in Germany? Nobody.

He already contact his lawyer to help him.
I thought I can met people here, who had the same problems with the nigerian embassy in Germany or still have.

My boyfriend is nigerian, he is living since almost 6 years in Germany and he have to renew his passport. The embassy in Germany is very difficult. Tongue

They only accept payment with visacart and you know we dont have this cart and we dont know anybody with this cart. We try so much. His pass is already expired Undecided

Please are here any Nigerians who also had or have this problem with the embassy here?
How can we solve this problem?
The people from the embassy dont help to. When he call they are very rude and off the phone ,

I dont know how I can help him again.

Sorry for my bad english. I try my best

My boyfriend is nigerian, he is living since almost 6 years in Germany and he have to renew his passport. The embassy in Germany is very difficult. Tongue

They only accept payment with visacart and you know we dont have this cart and we dont know anybody with this cart. We try so much. His pass is already expired Undecided

Please are here any Nigerians who also had or have this problem with the embassy here?
How can we solve this problem?
The people from the embassy dont help to. When he call they are very rude and off the phone ,

I dont know how I can help him again.

Sorry for my bad english. I try my best Wink

My boyfriend is nigerian, he is living since almost 6 years in Germany and he have to renew his passport. The embassy in Germany is very difficult.

They only accept payment with visacart and you know we dont have this cart and we dont know anybody with this cart. We try so much. His pass is already expired

Please are here any Nigerians who also had or have this problem with the embassy here?
How can we solve this problem?
The people from the embassy dont help to. When he call they are very rude and off the phone ,

I dont know how I can help him again.

Sorry for my bad english. I try my best

"Are you Iranian? Are you a muslim? Is your husband a muslim? What attracted you to your husband in the first place?

If you answer these questions, then I would be glad to give you some advice"

I am not an Iranian. I am not a muslim. My husband is not a muslim.

Nothing attracted me to him in the first place. He was nice but he is not a good looking man. He wasnt interesting for me. The love came when I spoke with him for some hours because we was waiting for the same bus in the middle of the night.

So may be I can say that his kind of person and the way how he talks and what he said attracted me to him in the second place

May be he already have some kids.


Ok, but I am still surprised. There are enough young girls who can bring him to Europe and hello? WHO wants to go to Poland??

I think its better to be in Nigeria than in Poland.

37 and 50

Which men want to have something with such an old lady

Wake up girl! He ist just telling you lies

I am not Leila and I am not an arab woman

Thanks chaircover I like what you wrote. Its true.

I live in a country where the children get money from the state.
This is always his excuse. He dont understand that this money isnt enough.
He thinks when he pays the bills for the house and the water etc its enough.

Let them go where they want to go.
They are enough English man who like them.

I dont need a slave and I dont need a man who pays everything for me.
My husband earns more than me, but when there is a financial problem, he is not ready to pay for it. Its me who allways have to pay the bills when they are increasing. I have to make so much trouble with him before he help me out. I am so tired of this. He like to spend his money for technical things but when the children need something , oh, I have to please him to help me out because my money from my little job isnt enough.

I am still studying, so I cant work a full job. I just tired of this stress. And african friends allways tell me that in Africa its the women who do all the work, so I have to live with it.

Oh you people have to read better.

I didnt say Nigerians are primitive! I saie that I understand now why people always say that because of the primitive reaction of some users here in this forum. There is a big difference so read well.

And no I am not ten years older than my husband. He is the one who is older.

And I dont say that the men are lazy. My husband is not lazy. I talk about the sharing in Nigeria - you know man work - woman work etc. Once an older lady , she lived some years in Benin City, she told me that the women there are saving their own money and build their own house and the men never know about it, just for safety. They never now what will happen.

@outstrip: you are right. I shouldn `t compare with other people marriage.
We all make mistakes sometimes

Thank you very much for the answers
It helped me a lot.

I don t complain.

I ask about the traditional role of nigerian men in a family.

I am surprised about the hatred in this forum.

Yes this is what racists wants to see. Nigerian to Nigerian.

No, he doesn`t have a Nigerian lover. I know what he is doing with his money and he can never give it to a black woman. His parents are very nice. I have a good contact with them and we always try to visit them as often as we can. They are lovely people, not racists.

English is not my motherlanguage, so I don`t to speak it perfect.
I can speak 6 languages. I don`t have time to learn another one.

I don`t marry a person because of his dick oder the Sex what he gives me. May be you people do like that, not me. When you think that black man are having larger dicks, go and get some and be happy with them.

Thats so poor and primitive.

Now I understand why people always think that Nigerians are primitive.

I am not surprised again.

Only for your information: A muslim is only allowed to marry four wifes.

most of the iranian man are doing so, because their religion tell them so.

"You are the one making generalizations about a particular tribe from Nigeria. Because ure dating a poor and broke man, should not warrant such generalization"

NO thats not true!

I didnt wrote that.
I wrote about him not about all the edo people  
please read again when you dont understand

i am not dating him.

"Being with a poor and broke man --- has nothing to do with Edo people. This is a singular issue with your man and not a cultural or plural issue with Edo people"

I think it is a cultural thing.
My best friend from ghana is together with an iranian man. this man is a muslim. he dont want her to work and pay something for the house. want she get is for her. she just have to take care of the baby.

another friend is together with a man from suisse. they are sharing the work. she work, he work and both pay everything together.

this is different in every country: this is why i just ask this normal question how people in nigeria are doing it!

oh is that everything you can think about?  

For your information I am working, my husband is also working. The sex with him is not very special and he dont have a big ******. So you dont need to be angry that we are  together, you wouldnt want him. You need a man for sex. I understand.

why i dont seperate? may be because i love him and we have some beautiful children together!

Wow why are people so jealous and angry because of a normal question.

Crazy  

oh, I thought this is a forum for adults


i think it matters that he is from edo, because he always tell me that there the women and the man are sharing everything. He tells me that the man has to pay the house and the woman the food.

this has nothing to do with being lazy. We are not lazy. so i would be very grateful when a edo person can tell me about that. its true or not?

I am together with a man from Edo and I am going crazy with him.

We are always having money problems and he is not ready to behave like a man and take care of his family.
May be its his tradition? I dont know.

Please tell me about the traditional role of a family father in Nigeria.

The Place where I come from, the men are ashamed to take money from their girl and they take care of their family otherwise they are not real men and people will laugh at them.

thk for the answers.