₦airaland Forum

Egbon Bob Dee, you have began a good conversation. In addition, the restructure of Nigeria is more about economics than political, if it's allowed to take it's proper course.
The real issues that need restructuring are namely, resource management at the local level, land use management at the local level, enforcement of terms of contracts at the local level, and finally the Independence of the local economies, with regional and national coordination.With all these come the political solutions.
If the truth be told, all "Nationalities" within Nigeria suffer the same plight, poverty.... poverty of the mind, resources and soul.
Now, how it should be implemented or achieved.
I believe an annual national referendum might be the solution, annual for the purpose of evaluating each decision and avoiding emotional decision like brexit.
And I would start with the mother of it all, should Nigeria be divided....let's take the bull by it's horn.
Next should be state of origin against state of residence. These are questions that should create a sense of belonging.
After these are agreed to, then let's go to management of resources and land...these are are issues...not the silliness of oduduwa republic, Area and Biafra....they are just whitewashes of the real issues, how can I feed myself, my family and be assured of the security of my/our properties, knowing everyone around have the same issues, so that we can have strong localities, which eventually forms a strong Nation.
And to the young people on social media, insulting people is not only childish, it's shows a serious poverty of your soul, not just the mind...you were created to be the best you can be, go for it and take life serious, don't blame others for your woes, and most importantly DON'T BE ANOTHER USED FOOLISH PERSON" [

infantlion:
Hello fellow Nairanders,

Once upon a time in 2016, I fell in love with a beautiful damsel who happened to be a virgin. We became very intimate and had great sex.After sex, she always thanked me for making her feel so extraordinary.As at that time, I was madly in love with her.

We got engaged in December 2016 in a grant style due to the fact that am working as a graduate engineer in a multinational firm.

I sincerely had the intention of taking her to the altar until early February, my friend alerted me that he saw my girl in a club with four(4) young men...I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls until later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry, I was sleeping while your calls came through"

I wept and called my friend to confirm if his is very sure of what he told me...He insisted.I kept wondering, how could an engaged woman flirt around with guys? I was shocked because I got 95% of what women need-money, good sex,good looking, good job e.t.c

In a nutshell, I invited her to my place and interrogated her and she admitted that she went to club with those guys but nothing happened.No woman would truly agree that she "spreaded" her legs for another man.

My feelings for her crashed to 0%..She pleaded for 30 days until she involved my pastor.My pastor told me to embrace forgiveness which I did...We started all over again and she promised to be faithful, loyal and honest at all times..

A month later she took in.The badnews came as a shock to me because I never cum inside her whenever we had sex...I quickly rushed to see my family doctor.He told me there is 100% chances of any woman to get pregnant with the method I adopted.

Due to the fact that my feelings for her is still at 0%, I begged her for an abortion and she replied"over my dead body"..Her family called me and I told them I am not ready and they threatened to arrest me...They sent her to my house last week with her protruded stomach without my consent...It was very late and I had no choice than to let her in.

Luck ran out of her this morning when she got a call from one Pastor Mike...I was curious to know if it is "hygienic" for a pastor to call a beautiful damsel in the early hours of the day...I questioned her and she told me the guy is a genuine pastor...
Me:pastor of which church?
She:Catholic Church
Do catholic church ordain pastors?

I called the so-called Pastor Mike and he said, he is not a pastor.

I have contacted my family and friends, but am not yet comfortable with their counsel.

One good thing about Nairanders is that from the bad, the good and the ugly comments, a wise OP should be able to get something out of nothing.

Long live Nairanders!!!
Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!

Young Man, this is the time to play the fool, don't show your hand. Do everything you can for her. Once she has delivered the child, then do a DNA test. Reason for my advice is, in the event the child turns out to the yours, you won't hear the last of it.
So don't fight, don't over show love neither, just play the fool....the truth is not too far away. Retreat to fight another day.