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This life sha...

My suggestion... Have a conversation with him regarding the issue. Make sure u beg him.

Do this by recording the conversation with your phone.
Forward the recorded conversation to another backup phone. Then use that to threaten him.


Make sure you are diligent with work though.

That's the only wicked advice on my mind atm.


BTW, OP. Let the victim join nairaland too na. Abi na your gf?

Thermythorpe:
today is my birthday, Nlanders wish me happy birthday with likes..

Happy Birthday

DIEZILLIONAIRE

adeaks:
Hehehehe.

Evening boss.

Oga. How you dey sir?

adeaks:
By using the word 'sample' I meant that I'd continue sampling or gathering people's opinions about marriage. I didn't mean sampling in the euphemistic sense of the word.

New word: euphemistic

cc150615:
I'm excluded

Hian

cc150615:
The Queen had spoken....oya vamoose all of u

U nko

Lepagirl:
If I may ask,is this job section or relationship section

All of the above.
Which do u want?
Job?
Relationship?
Or both?

beau49:


Me don kuku talk my own......

Double post *

beau49:


Me don kuku talk my own......

Stubborn gal

MarvellousGod:
It's factor when it comes to menopause and other issues. .

We are heading somewhere.

naanxie:
That's the point, no appointed age. To each his/ her own. I know an 18year old girl who got married to an average 30-something year old guy. She swears she is enjoying the marriage.


I know another lady who got married at 20 to a rich guy twice her age, after years of marriage, she still regrets. She is a very comfortable young woman o.


As for me, marriage is definitely on my mind. I'm with Jamean on her stand here.

Lol. No appointed age. Ok o. Sha marry, I wan see baby naanxie

naanxie:
Yes na. I mean make you no carry your wahala give another person.


Morning.

Hehe. Night

adeaks:
Says who?!!!!!


Happiness is an individual feeling and therefore relative so you cant just make a blanket statement like that.

It's one thing to be in a relationship, it is another thing entirely to be happy. There are people in relationships who are fed up with their nagging, troublesome over-jealous girlfriends/wives. Some of them even earnestly long for the time they were single and living a less stressful life. Marriage or being in a relationship is not an automatic ticket to happiness.

A man can be very happy being single and successful.

And some people go into a relationship just because others are doing it. Smh

Nmeri17:
Hah!! Oga I have searched all the scriptures in my house for the passage in your siggy but found nothing.

Same here oo

Mynd44:
Not introducing myself.

Sue me

Singlefade25, I don try ooo

ednut1:

Yes, you.

singlefade25:
God's appointed time. For ladies 28....guys max 32.

Now we are heading somewhere

singlefade25:
you must introduce yourself......lero15, you are needed.

Oga Mynd44, oya o

beau49:
Erm....even some ladies have money in mind too you think every lady would like to depend entirely on their hubby for the rest of their lives?


No make me blow you o......

Hehe. Beau, easy on me o.
Na question I ask.
Of course you have money in mind too.
But most of us didn't answer my question.

I'm talking age.

mickey45:
Thanks

Uwc bro.
May we meet you?

mtor:
Lero15 is there really a right age I have to go with beau49 and naanxie.
In addition though its great when one starts a family early so getting financially stable is key for a guy

Hmmm.. For guys, money
for ladies, ?

ednut1:
one word i dont wanna hear ' marriage'. Money on my mind o

Paper chaser. U are getting old o

naanxie:
That one too no bad.


Just stay unmarried, so you don't 'spoil market' for somebody

Lol. Coman explain that spoiling market ooo

mickey45:
Sorry when and where is the December session holding?

When? December 26+
Where? Hmmm... No venue yet

beau49:
Like naanxie said it isn't a matter of age but maturity and meeting the best possible person to settle with. When two people are on the same page concerning marriage then they are good to go.


The unnecessary pressure on ladies/men a few years to 30 or 30years and above is uncalled for and I believe it is one of many reasons,if not the major one why marriages crash today. And the last time I checked marriage isn't an automatic ticket into the gate of heaven.....

I get you, but I still insist that age is a cogent factor

adeaks:
I'd continue to sample until I'm 32 and then marry a fresh 22-24 yr old girl. Any lady above 26 is already old cargo

Sampler

Yesterday it was a sorrowful Chelsea thread, today it's man u

naanxie:
Good morning people. Been a while, I've been busy as hell. I'm even still tired this morning


About your question, I think many people would argue that marriage isn't exactly about age but 'maturity'.


But I'm sure we are know the divorce rate is on a steady increase. My mum got married when she was a teen, my aunty; even younger but they are still holding their marriages. I think times have changed sha.


So, generally, whenever you feel you are ready for it, go on If divorce comes in, sign the papers and *in jayz's voice* onto the next one


I can't talk too much!

I don't even know if I will feel ready in years to come

eipreel:
This one Lero is talking about getting married early sunday momo be like say you go wedding yesterday

Well...for me the right time to get married is when rationalmind accepts my proposal

Okay on a more serious note, as a woman, the right time for me personally is when I get my chevron job I can't let one man coman be doing shakara for me abeg and I can't be the "daddy e fun wa lowo a fe ra pata" wife the yoruba folks here will know what I mean

Hmmm.... What if chevron comes at age 32?

Jamean:
lero why did you mention me first, am I a man or a marriage counselor

You were highly recommended

cutetonye009:
As a man: The age you begin to earn as high as 250k and above monthly., you are qualified ;

As a lady: Anything above 28, na mountain of fire things

Heheheh