₦airaland Forum

I'm waiting for the first lady Remi tinubu to congratulate her. You see Remi she is a very tribalistic human just like her husband people. For what the girl, a woman like her pass through in the hands of a whole nation. Not a single word from Remi to this girl. If this girl is purely Yoruba or Hausa/Fulani imagine the kind of support the Government would have given to her.

Tayorshd87:
How can I verify this situation 😢

sir thanks for the care. I don't know how I can verify myself more. But I work at Ogulunto in Ikorodu Lagos State. Sir I just need any assistance that can take me through to the end of this month.

Good morning everyone. Please I'm begging for a financial assistance even if it is little. For the past one year and half I have been battling an illness. I have spent money on drugs, treatment and check up. For the past few months I quit my job just to have rest and recover fully.I have spent all my savings while at home taking care of myself. Na hunger wan finish me for house and bills to pay that's why I go find work. I got a job early this month I collected 15,000 naira in advance from my boss just to use it to feed but now I don't have anything with me. Pls I'm begging for money to feed so that I can complete this month. I don't want to quit the job now cause I have worked far. I don't have any family members that can help me. So i have decided to continue with my job even though I am still sick. I will rather die why working to feed my self than sit at home doing nothing cause hunger and bills don't know sickness.

Between opera mini and nairaland I don't know who report bad news more. Opera mini wants to finish me with dead people news. Everyday there must be breaking news of someone that died in Nigeria.

tunjijones:
See this one.

It's like most people don't know the kind of damage the British have done to us. The slave trade stopped but we are still metal slaves. They stole our identity, the stole our religion, the stole our language... Plenty Nigerian can't speak their language... We call our language vanacular... plenty Nigerian think and dream in English.. They have damaged us as a people.

you are just a lazy black man. If the Japanese that got affected by war,think the way you black reason. Do you think they will be where they are today.

True l have worked nearly every part of Lagos. Even in the so called island in Lagos there are people that earns less than 50 thousand naira. Though must of them accommodation is been provided for them. Lagos mainland is the worst. You will see big companies paying their low staff 20 to 30 thousand as salaries. Some of them has families. Salary earners dey suffer for this Lagos o. Most of the time when nairalandlers will be writing I earn six figures, my take home is half a million,my monthly pay is 1.5 million. I will just be laughing. Na naija all of us dey sha. We know how e dey go offline.
I met a man he should be 45 to 50yrs old. He is doing a security job. He told me he runs two security job in a day, that is he runs one shift in the morning and other shift at night at different companies. I ask him how is the salary like? He told me, the two jobs combined gives him 80 thousand naira. As in 24 hours everyday in 30 days he earns 80 thousand naira. One day the man collapse at work. he was lucky to be rush to the hospital on time.

7upnigeria:
Don't go and farm or support agriculture, everybody wants to work in office and press computer, una go chop AI. You aint seen nothing.

cheesy cheesy
People will be just be saying go and farm. Do you think farming is that easy. How many farms do you have?. Instead you should encourage big companies , business men, rich individuals and your looting politicians to invest into farming. Do you think land is free, and you didn't think of labour at all. And you think seedlings are that cheap. What about fertilizer and other chemicals. I should leave the city quit my professional job and relocate back to the village, to farm on small piece of land to grow small crop. just because I want to feed my self. Do you reason at all.

kuntash:
take am easy na , abi the economy don dey affect pattern of responses for nairaland?

People will be just be saying go and farm. Do you think farming is that easy. How many farms do you have?. Instead you should encourage big companies , business men, rich individuals and your looting politicians to invest into farming. Do you think land is free, and you didn't think of labour at all. And you think seedlings are that cheap. What about fertilizer and other chemicals. I should leave the city quit my professional job and relocate back to the village, to farm on small piece of land to grow small crop. just because I want to feed my self. Do you reason at all

ttobizz:
For over 2months since he arrived Nigeria from his country of origin, where he obtained his highly revered degrees, he as been conducting interviews.

Oga interviewer!

lol

ttobizz:
Disregard him and his self righteousness.

As highly educated,he claims to be. I was expecting him to come up with simple and Clear criticism against my post. But no, he was using abusing words on me. Na wa oo

ttobizz:
Disregard him and his self righteousness.

As highly educated he claims to be. I was expecting him to come up with simple and Clear criticism against my post. But no, he was using abusing words on me. Na wa oo

Exousiang01:
This is not hate young man....

My issue here is that the fact that you don't know the offense he has committed is shameful.

you are quick to jugde Mr man. Just because I'm not against Bobrisky now, you using it to rate my educational background. Anyway I'm a school dropout, are you ok now. Please lists the offence committed by Bobrisky. Am waiting.

Exousiang01:
This is what the decayed educational system has done to Nigerian youths.

Even Bob knew he was doing something wrong which was why he hide in the car and sent someone to help stamp his passport...

When I say 90% of Nigerian graduates of today shouldn't have SSCE people think it's a joke.
Just look at this OP now.

He will carry this ignorance to work in someone's company and you will expect productivity....

I have been here in Nigeria for a month, I run interviews from Monday to Friday just to get an EA but nothing, absolutely nothing. some even came with MSc....
It's pathetic

you're talking too afar. What are the offences being committed by Bobrisky. Just list them. I understand your hate.

The Nigeria Government should free Brobrisky abeg. The Nigeria Government like involving in irrelevant issue. They're bigger than this. It's a shame a whole Federal government of a country to be involving it's self in a matter like this. When there are more pressing and critical issue on ground that needs to be solved.
I want to ask what offence has bobrisky committed. Because I remember s/he was jailed for six months and s/he completed her jail term. Even if s/he was given preference treatment, that is against the Nigeria constitution. It should be between the Nigeria correctional agency and those personnel that are involved should be punish. Nigerians just hate Bobrisky. Brobrisky has never one day declared he is gay, I have never see where Bobrisky was promoting gay. Brobrisky is not stealing from anyone. S/he has not committed any murder. S/he not dealing with drugs, so Nigerians why the hate. Brobrisky has a life style and s/he living it. I don't see why it should be interfaring in your life. This is what south Africa did to Chidimma that denied her the beauty pageant. The funniest thing Nigerians, where raining curses and accusing South Africa of being Xenophobic.
Nigerians should be focused on those people that is holding this country backward for their own selfish interest. Those people that are soiling the name of this country outside and the people that is cursing unrest in this country should be Nigerians problem. Not Bobrisky. For your information I'm not gay if case you are reasoning to that side.

Lithiumite:
So t pain should go lay eggs for you.....4 big eggs are being sold for 700 naira in the market here in ikire....I do buy and take to Lagos for my family.
Keep waiting for govt to even cook for you!! People are brazen up and looking for how to earn more in these times you are there complaining......in the UK,people are doing 2 to 3 jobs to make ends meet but you want to seat behind a desk with AC doing almost nothing but still want to be feeding fat......get your bloody arse up and work.

why are you so insensitive with your comment. The UK you are talking about works hourly. 3 to 4 hours of work pay.can feed you for 3 days. Here in Nigeria it's. 8 to 4 or 7 to 7 hrs, with hard labour. So you will use 24 hrs to work just because you want to earn more.

mrjojo:
what were you doing before , I saw your lost your last job

I work as an operator in a factory before. I quit the job cause of my health. Now I am getting better now. Though I am doing a part-time job for now.

mrjojo:
Where is your location ? What have you been all these while? You need to drop the victim mindset immediately !

I'm in Lagos currently. I have never mentioned or heaped blames on anyone that is the cause of my struggle. So I don't see where the victim mentality is coming from. I'm a guy who get fed up of life. Even with the 100 percent effort, descipline and hunger I have towards life.

INDOMIE9090:
if you have visit Ibadan before,you wouldn’t have post this rUbBish.
Ibadan have lot of beautiful highbrow areas than any of state you have in the east,this particular area called Bere has remained the same.

Bro you are lieing here. Bere is not the only place that has brown roof. Where is Molete, Iwo road, kudeti Ojaoba, orita, Boluwaji, Egrammar,sawmill,Sanyo,some place in Apata and numerous places I forget to list has brown roof. Though there are places in Ibadan that has modern buildings and infrastructures that are more developed than Delta Edo and some cities in Nigeria.

Ttipsy:
Nigeria is the worst place to ever exist

People hate themselves

The most underrated comment. Now, the way Nigerians take wicked eh. Even early humans no wicked reach like this. The problem na money dey cause all this whahala. A Nigerian man would want to amass all the wealth he can. If he no fit get all of them. He go come cause whahala for ground. If you be the upright one living in Nigeria thinking you will make it clean. Omo Nigerians will frustrate you.

xperiencelove:
Poverty might deal with you more if you failed to do what someone like you should have done earlier in your life. When I said "someone like you", I mean your background and family you found yourself. We are not all born with silver spoon but we can create a life for ourselves.
Now you are 34yrs old, imagine you have enrolled yourself to a car mechanical or electrical or car painting training at the age of 18? By now, you must have completed or almost complete your own house by now, have a small car and a family.
My advice is this: even at your age, enrol for a training and acquire a skill and have a change of life when you are 40.

you're right Sha. I should have learned a skill earlier. But when you think of the other side it wasn't really not my fault. Two weeks after my mom gave birth to me, she got separated from my dad. My mum struggle to take care of me and the rest of my siblings. When I was a little bit older she started passing me around her family members because the burden of taking care of 8 children was to much to bear so she had no choice. When I was 16yrs started living on my own. So i couldn't afford to learn a skill then, because I feed for myself, pay rent sponsoring my education then. Education was my priority then. That is why, I say maybe I took the wrong decision

mbaise1000:
I am not trying to motivate you chief, I dey vess, it pains me to hear this type of thing from a 34 year old when most 50 something year old people are even believing that they will still need to make it and are struggling and pushing foward .
Nonsense

@50 you still never settle down. You're a big liability to people around you. Let me make clear sir. Chances that a 50 yrs old will it make currently in this country is very slim. I don't mean rich just to provide for his basic need and care of his family will be very hard. At 50 he should be facing health issues. Except he is doing it, the illegal way it.he will find it hard to stand on his feet. At 50 nothing to show for your existence you will be mocked and ridiculed. Infact depression will set in. From there your health problem start. Ok, are you telling me if a 50yrs old single man should come for your 20yr old daughter for marriage you will be ok with it. Or if you have a firm you will employ 50 yrs old to work a staff not as a security guards. Oga stop to they cap anyhow. If future go better na today you go know.

Solsix:
I am 39 and I have not given up, I can't.

Are you married sir? Any kid yet? Do you have high demand skills not school cert. Do you have a business you're running or you to about to run?what about your family background? Are they in the lower, mid or high class sir. Do you have friends that are connected or know of people that are highly connected? Do you have any achievement currently at this your present age.? What about your health status? You're still strong as at when you're 15yrs to 25yrs old. No offense sir.

mbaise1000:
Yet without all the vices you mentioned, you still haven't made it?
And how do you meet opportunities?
If you haven't met opportunities, what stops you from creating opportunities? Was it not people who creat the opportunities you are waiting to meet?
I want to believe that you went to some type of school even if it's elementary, maybe you won't know that most of us here didn't go to any university. like myself here for example, I will repeat here that I don't even believe this story but for the sake of people who might be tempted to think Like you are posting here: GIVING UP ON ONESELF SHOULD NOT BE AN OPTION. I know of someone who TRAVELED FIRST time out of this country at the age of 23 without any help from anyone, who his mother just gave a bible on the day he Left the country. He ended up in Europe.
And raised his poor family from the ground,
I know of people who have seen and gone through worse things than you are saying here and they are great men today, you can go and enjoy your weakness in private and not making some kids here start thinking the way you do and they are already flocking around you and defending your defeatist attitude

Ok how many opportunities have you created your self. Or which problems did you solve that is making the world to seek for your services. Nigerians go just dey cap anyhow just because as e soft for your side. come make others be mumu. You be Christian. Keep Bible aside I want you to face reality. Do you know what is really happening in the society. Do you know how people are struggling to survive. In the society there is no hope for some people. Some people don't know if they even exist but they're just living. I have worked all through my childhood till my adulthood yet I see no progress.I felt being stagnant. Is like I'm moving backward in life. You don't care. You're just fighting me for voicing out my frustrations.

mbaise1000:
If you will do a little research if the billionaires of this world, you will find that less than 20% of them didn't have it easy in life, many of them come from poor backgrounds and even if all of them Comes from wealthy backgrounds, you can still be the exception, what if the path I didn't take is the one you are taking? Ok, I never gave up and you have given up and you want to be like me, if we took opposite paths, are we going to end up in the same place? No way, you took the path that all the failures of the world took and you are certainly going to end up where they did, anyone supporting or encouraging you on this type of your decision hates you and are not doing you any favours, giving up on yourself is never an option if you want to succeed in life, when you give up you are not heading anywhere because you stopped so you are finished.
One good advice, believe that there is nothing God gave other people that he didn't give you, it's how you manage the talent he gave you, your success is not dependent on what others say or do but what you decided to do, no one or devil will have authority over you except you gave them the authority and the only way you give them that authority is when you think they can do it and that's exactly what you have done, you can always take back that authority from them because you are the one that gave it to them and it still remains your authority. Think about this, stop doing this ostrich you are doing, it won't help you, and like I say, even if you are given millions now, with your type of mentally, you will squander it because, you have convinced yourself that you can't make anything of yourself, start by asking God for forgiveness because you have insulted Him by believing satan more than you believe God

wtf man, is it why your are writing epistle on top of my matter. I understand your are trying to motivate me. You're not me. We are two different people. All my years on Earth I have never depend on anyone. I don't beg people for arms. From 16 years I started living on my own. Even to my present predicament I'm still taking care of my old mother with the little I have. I just contribut to pay for her house rent. Should any of my family members need financial assistance I give to them the little I can. But I have never cry to to them for help. Non of them knew what I am going through, not even my mum. You just want to provoke me this night. No problem I accept I'm weak. Place where I don enter to hustle legit, dem no born you well to even think of am. Na just luck wen I no get.

mbaise1000:
I think if the poster is serious, he is born looser, a failure, his poverty is follow come, and if anyone will by mistake give him a billion money, he will squander it too an give up again, imagine giving up at the age of 54.
Even if the poster made serious mistakes in the past, so what? How many successful people haven't made serious mistakes in their life, there are 54 year old people who haven't even married and are still hoping to marry and still hoping to be successful, the poster is weak since it is said that when the going gets tough, only the tough get going, since he stopped, that's the reason he is a failure. Mr poster you are a failure already because you have given up ALREADY, you can prove me wrong if you are not

Thank you. I'm already a failure I agreed. I have tried my best. But one thing i will let you know, not everybody will have it easy in life. The path you took in life might not be thesame with me.

mbaise1000:
I think if the poster is serious, he is born looser, a failure, his poverty is follow come, and if anyone will by mistake give him a billion money, he will squander it too an give up again, imagine giving up at the age of 54

na your opinion though. You will not understand. I have never had or meet any good opportunity that will change my life.I will now carelessly and squandered it if I had anyone. I'm well behaved. I don't do alchohol,smoking. not a gambler,I no dey womanise. I dey avoid trouble, so how I wan use squandered a life time opportunity

Poverty is dealing with me seriously. You can insult me fine call,me all types of names no problem infact laugh at me. But all I know am not a lazy person. I Don hustle well well oo. I have worked hard all my life. Starting from when I'm small about 9 years start living with people who are not my parents. I started hustling for money when I was in junoir secondary up to tertiary education just having one certificate. I didn't further ahead. I had to drop to face life. Na me be last born for my family as everybody don Bleep up, them come put hope for me say na me go make am. I go raise the family from poverty. Though the signs were there, cause I take life serious . My pattern was different from my elderly ones. I have this hustling spirit that have never been see in my family. Sometime family members used to tease my mom if she is the one that gave birth to me or she adopted me.
Today here I am hopeless, I lack morale, weak zero zeal. Facing health and emotional challenges. I have grown to be a man now, no wife, no kid.no investment no steady source of income. I can't even take good care of myself. I'm just retrogressing, selling some of my property to feed. I'm asking this questions? did I took the wrong path to life? Are there unknown forces like spirituality controlling my family? I just wonder how a whole full family come just poor finish from A to Z nobody fit make am. To even do well small, nobody. Or did i made some wrong decisions in life that have kept me like this?

Franking:
Good one. They should ban all plastic bags AKA nylon.

Alot of people will be jobless dey play. Lagos alone has more than 500 nylon producing factory.

Rexymania:
Oluku
You agree foreigners shaped your country...and inshallah, they will take it away from you, and you will run to Zimbabwe where you come from. Loser

Oga rest na una dey fine trouble. Those guys open thread to appreciate nature, you come dey vex. Why can't you just ignore the thread and focus on your thing, instead you come dey troll them. See bro South Africa is far ahead of Nigeria in anything you can think of. I'm Nigeria I don't support nonsense. You start the fight. The Lagos that you're using to brag was develop by the British. Aside from Lagos which other states is developed in Nigeria. Since the British left Nigeria which significant development you have done from 1963 till date. So the White help develop Nigeria too. The south Africans are good people. Infact the nicest people on Earth. South Africans have a good heart. South Africa is the only country that immigrants will live comfortably, marry their women, work and invest in their country and you still call them lazy in their own land and not react physically. Can you try that in Nigeria be sincere. Can Ghanians living in Nigeria call Nigerians lazy.will you take that. Even in Nigeria it will difficult for an Igbo man to marry a Fulani woman. Or a Yoruba girl to marry outside her tribe. South Africa is the best country where different race live in harmony.

Rexymania:
Our lazy brothers

Apart from scam, looting of Government money, prostitution and kidnapping wetin you Sabin. Una go dey quick dey call other people lazy. If you dey hard working as you claim why you no develop your country. Na you dey run go lazy people land. See China and Japan when dey hard working develops their country. You think to sell drugs is hard working.

internationalman:
Make una rest na. Nor be everything be low mentality or low self esteem. If snow fall for Nigeria today we go do the same or even worse. Ordinary ice block rain those days dey marvel us. Even oyinbo wey dey witness snowfall every year still dey do wetin South Africa dey do so.

Make we channel our anger to our politicians and leave South Africans alone make them use anything them like take happy. Happiness is free.

I dey channel my anger now to people wey still come out go vote for APC for my State.

Happy Sunday y'all.

Good talk Nigerians too like downgrade other africans. Even one dey talk hut. Meanwhile for Lagos here. get people when dey stay for mud house, plank and tapolin hut. Imagine if na we get constant power supply, our currency dey ok, Government dey pay Grant to unemployed and work and infrastructure dey. Other africans for hear am for our hand.

Amigoss:
Bro you are the one not making sense,what has bringing news as such on Nairaland done or solved aside for trolling...You must be one of those avid readers of pm newspaper...

you must be a mumu man idiots. Nigerians are worst human on Earth. Something that is bad and evil should be covered up because you don't want the world to know. Just listened to your self are you ok. Do you know how many people have lost their lives to this bastards. Left with you the killing of twins and abolishing of slavery trade shouldn't have taken place. Man you're barbaric get out. Your likes is the reason why this country is like this. You will see your leaders misbehaving. You will keep quiet. Almost all the youths are into fraud kidnapping and doing prostitution no body is saying anything. Hardly you will find a decent and honest youth now.