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I've been married for 30+ years, the past 5 years since being empty nesters have not been so good... it seems she has lost love interest for me, we have had numerous talks about it and ends in - "okay we'll both try harder" but I do my part but she ignores her part in the effort to improve our relationship, we are growing apart, I am very active and can't sit still for long always on the go, I'd like her to be there with me on my adventures but she seems to always have an excuse as not to go, or if she does go she makes miserable for all. We have a very successful business together and work side by side as CEO and CFO but not as lovers and friends, I hate to say it but she bores me, I've tried everything to get her motivated. In the meantime..... some three years ago an old female business acquaintance contacted me on a totally business deal and we interacted on a business basis only, then the pandemic hit and she lost her job in France, as months went by I communicated with her as she and her teenage son tried to make ends meet during the pandemic. She and her son were going to be kicked out of their apartment for non payment, I sent her money for rent to avoid her living on the streets, later I also sent her money for food. She talked of committing suicide because she could not go on, I convinced her not to because she is a beautiful woman and has a lot to live for (her son). I sent her money again for rent and food, our conversations eventually became romantic and I gave her hope to go on. She had an accident and went to the hospital which used up all her money and the rent money, she was kicked out to live on the streets in the winter and her son ended up dyeing of illness being out on the streets. She is asking me to come to France and be with her or bring her to the US to be with me. I love her, she loves me, I think I love my wife but not sure anymore.... Should I stay or should I go?