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Most times when I hear people talk about relationships, I ask a few questions....

1. Is it true love?

2. Is it love at first sight?.

3. Is it friends with benefits?

4. Is it lust or love?

5. Is it experience gaining?

6. Is it boredom and the need to just change your relationship status?

And the list is endless...

Now... Let's put it like this... Love is a strong emotional feeling....'The strongest of all emotions' biblical and present it remains the strongest and the biggest of them all....

What is love?

*Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure.

*It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment which can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection. "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".

*It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals.
What is lust?

*Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes sex, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen between opposite sex.

*Lust is that desire that rarely last more than a few weeks or months.

Now do yourself a little re-think and ask yourself what drives you into a relationship is it Love or Lust?
If Lust 'my dear run' If Love 'my dear stay'...

Save the stress for the day is still young and early...make that decision today and be the change you want...

*I rest my case*...

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Its hardwork which pays, belive in ur self, slow and steady u surely will get there....

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A couple, both age 78, went to a sex therapist's office.

The doctor asked, "What can I do for you?"

The man said, "Will you watch us have sex?"

The doctor looked puzzled, but agreed.

When the couple finished, the doctor said, "There's nothing wrong with the way you have sex," and charged them $50.

This happened several weeks in a row. The couple would make an appointment, have sex with no problems, pay the doctor, then leave.

Finally, the doctor asked, "Just exactly what are you trying to find out?"

"We're not trying to find out anything," the husband replied.

"She's married and we can't go to her house. I'm married and we can't go to my house. The Holiday Inn charges $90. The Hilton charges $108. We do it here for $50...and I get $43 back from Medicare.

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Please one word for the Man, and one for the Doctor...

Don't be stingy with your comments, say something...

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Its hardwork which pays, belive in ur self, slow and steady u surely will get there....

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Cool pix but not so cool interior....

Anyways, is it love or lust?

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Hardwork truly pays...

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Nice stuff.... Knowledge gained..

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Xeinstra1:
Quite the opposite.

Xplain pls

Xeinstra1:
Smh.

Y? I hope you find this educating...

SUGARBEE:
Very true.. Familiarizes you to your partner's body

Most defntly....

Hdee 'choice'

@cutehector most defnitely... Yet not every1 knows of this

It's not just for sex. Or showers.

Here are three reasons to spend more time with your partner with your clothes off without getting it on.

1. You'll Appreciate Your Partner's Body More

When we're naked in a casual setting, I find myself admiring my significant other's form in a way I wouldn't during sex, especially with the lights off. It's often subtle: The strength of her shoulder blades. The softness of her hands. The way her ribs peek coyly through her skin when she stretches her arms above her head. Desexualizing her body makes me appreciate it more. It's refreshing to experience your partner's body as something beyond sexual.

2. You'll Explore Other Kinds of Touch

I'm all for petting, licking, and spanking. Heck, those are like the three main food groups and I'll go for seconds! But other forms of physical non-sexual contact can build a different and deeper connection. Practice less-common kinds of touch, whether tender or pragmatic or friendly. A foot massage. An extended cuddle session. A playful wrestling match

3. You'll Have More Fun

There's nothing that breeds giddiness and giggles like getting your naked, Something about nudity is inherently, well, silly. It's juvenile and liberating. It makes pedestrian activities, even chores like washing the dishes, more fun. And you'll want to do kid stuff. -bathing each-other and getting all soapy and covered in unclothedness.

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Gossipas we all know “is idle talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others”
“The act ofgossippingis also known as dishing or tattling”.

But only a few of us knows the true event about the invention of the word or act of gossiping…

I’ll tell you…

Back in the days… as early as the days of the ancientGreeks/Romans and co… The act of rivalry existed so much that everyone had to be careful and on there guard.. this brought about the need for all and sundry to always have someone whose job ultimately was just to go out to places of crowd…(I.E Pubs, Market places, Village squares, Battle fields and even as far as someones (a rivals) House to pick up information for their master..

Now this is the real idea.. Masterswill ask their spy's or service boys/girls to(GO)out into the bars and(SIP)their drinks and eves drop on what people have to say about either about them or just about everything they were opportune to hear/listen to.

With which at the end of the day, every service boy will in return go back to his master and give the gotten information..

Evolution made it clear and now its coined into a simple word…

GO-SIP…GOSSIP

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It is safe to say that you are liable of keeping somebody away from achieving, or doing, or creating as they ought to, or could? Great Question, would it say it isn't?

Possibly you have been in a part that impacts other individuals and your activities and practices are preventing somebody from being the individual they can be, or perhaps you are affecting them to the point where they doubt their own capacity to succeed.

Presently, a few cases ring a bell. We should take a guardian, for instance, who has a youngster or number of kids. In the event that one or both folks are the sort of people who urge youngsters to create and give them chance to do as such, as well as are dynamic with empowering words and practices, then you are in a constructive and accommodating mode. Be that as it may, imagine a scenario where, by outline or unwittingly, you are stemming the development and advancement of youngsters or perhaps one and only of your kids. Would you perceive on the off chance that you were doing this?
Would you change in the event that you did understand that you are upsetting, not making a difference?

Quite a long while back, I needed to swap a secretary for my unit. Before I promoted for the position, I was drawn closer by another administrator, inside of the same division, and inquired as to whether I would consider an exchange from his staff as opposed to opening another rivalry. My common inquiry was to ask who he needed me to consider and for what good reason?

His reaction amazed me, as well as made me a bit uneasy to acknowledge this exchange. Here is the motivation behind why.

I was informed that the worker had been bringing on various issues both from a work standard point of view and from an individual relationship perspective. It showed up from his depiction of this representative that she was having a ton of issues performing her obligations, and experienced issues on an individual premise with her director, and did not seem to react to any endeavors he, the supervisor, had made to determine the issues. Presently, subsequent to listening to his clarification, I truly had serious questions. What entered my thoughts, after this discourse, was that he needed me to take an execution issue off his hands. Do you think I caught the last rain shower? Why might I need to accept any other individual's issue?

I let him know I would consider it and would tell him the following day. As guaranteed, in the wake of considering this potential execution issue, I chose that, in light of the fact that an associate asked me, I would concur talk with her secretly before I settled on any choice.

What's more, what I discovered amid this meeting, gave me something to think about. As it turned out in the wake of talking with her for 60 minutes, was that the execution issue seemed to come about because of working for a director who never amplified a decent morning welcome, never gave an expression of consolation, savored in discovering blame, and was always showing signs of change the work load and its need. The deciding result was a completely crushed representative who was shaky, hated to see another work day begin, and who had thought about stopping consistently before she went to work.

Presently, I wasn't sufficiently credulous to imagine that I couldn't be tricked, yet the expression all over, the trembling hands, and the unsettled way in which she talked persuaded she was being honest. I chose to acknowledge her exchange to unit. What began as a bashful, withdrawn and terrified worker ended up being a standout amongst the most profitable and faithful representative's I ever had the benefit of working with.

She couldn't do what's needed and was continually requesting more and for more obligation. I was more than glad to give her what she required - acclaim for function admirably done, regard as a man, and support to exceed expectations in anything she handled.

Some of the time, we are the cause all our own problems in that we can keep ourselves away from achieving what we ought to, and being liable of undermining our own particular worth to the organization or association we work for. Yet, we can likewise unfavorably influence everyone around us whether we decide to act like pompous and inhumane individuals, or think we know setting so as to everyth, or improbable desires, or by declining to energize others as though a positive comment would disparage our own particular status. It might be a shrewd idea that we all look in the mirror, now and again, to see what we are truly like.

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Here is a rundown of advantages that one gets from morning activity:
1. Triggers your digestion system and keep it hoisted throughout the day, now and then up to 20 hours! Fundamentally while sitting, strolling or working you are as yet blazing calories on the grounds that you practiced in the morning!

2. Arrival of endorphins, know as "feel great" hormones, which are expanded after activity of adequate power and span.

3. Prepared to have a sharp personality? Activity increments mental sharpness. All things considered, it endures 15 + hours after activity! Along these lines, quit squandering that mind super power while you're resting.

4. Your body endocrine framework and rhythms conform to your precise timetable of activity. Really, your body knows your timetable and is planning to wake you up at the ideal time for work-outs.

Furthermore, abruptly, it's not all that difficult to wake up at a young hour in the morning.

5. Your hormones are working in your leverage. In the early hours, significant hormone (talking about men) testosterone, meets expectations to support you and by practicing in the morning, you're exploiting these truly essential and actually circling hormones, as opposed to later in the day when they're lower.

6. You won't have the same number of diversions, on the grounds that other people is dozing. Changes are great i.e. you may prepare with one or more companions. It's nothing incorrectly working out with companions, however morning preparing will be, "carry out your occupation and begin the day".

7. Morning workouts help you not to think on nourishment as you used to think. Thus, this is one more reason working out in the morning. You will have the capacity to direct your hankering amid the day. The same number of individuals adoration to say that places them in "solid attitude".

8. Feeling more enthusiastic throughout the day. You will expand your capacity for complex issues and complex musings. You will have vitality for all the anxiety and issues amid the day.

Don't hesitate to include yours in the remark segment.

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HighIQ:
lack of fear of God causes it

Most defntly....

HDee:
its a serious issue.

So serious I begin to wonder, which way Nigeria

Nudity has taken over the Nigerian society of late, living one to wonder and ask 'Which way?'

It is said that Nudity or unclothedness is the state of wearing no clothing. Let's not forget that wearing of cloth is a predominantly human characteristic arising from functional needs such as protection from cold and heat, covering of ones body 'sexual' organs, or/and the need to be different..

The amount of clothing worn depends on functional considerations, such as a need for warmth or protection from the elements, and social considerations. In some circumstances, a minimum amount of clothing or none at all may be considered socially acceptable, while in others much more clothing may be expected.

Now it becomes a thing of concern to me and us all to see the rate at which our young girls not just of the younger generation but also of the older generation now go unclad in the name of trending along with fashion trends....

People have a variety of views on nudity, both of their own as well as those of others. This would depend on their level of inhibition, cultural background and upbringing, as well as on context. A society's attitude to public nudity varies depending on the culture, time, location and context of an activity.

There are many exceptions and particular circumstances in which nudity is tolerated, accepted or even encouraged in public places. (In and accordingly).

In general and across cultures, public indications of sexual arousal (nudity) are commonly regarded as embarrassing, both to the person aroused and the onlooker, and for this reason those parts of the human body that would indicate arousal are normally covered.

Arousal is most evidently indicated by the sex organs and women's breasts, which are routinely covered, even when other parts of the body may be freely uncovered.

It may surprise you to know that Clothing also expresses and symbolizes authority, and more general norms and values besides those of a sexual nature.

There are a lot of countries in the world, notably Germany, who are rather tolerant of public nudity,yet back to my very own domain here in Nigeria, public nudity meets social disapproval or even constitute a misdemeanor of indecent exposure.

Check the crime (rape, deaths, robbery etc) rate in some of our local communities properly and you will find out that most cases or should I say above 40percent links its origin to involve a female not properly dressed yet we don't give them the proper check..

The society itself is now encouraging nudity as with cases were a good or service can't get to the audience without having unclad girls as a brand naming on them. Or an event being tagged to have unclad females to draw the attention of people 'Only the Canal' to the said product or event..

Check our streets, secondary schools, tertiary institutions and co, you will also see that its off by over 500percent the rate at which the body of the subject in discussion (females) have become unclad ... This brings to a reason for call of caution to Parents and Guardians to be on guard as always to what their female wards were in and out of the house...

Some wear some cheap rags in the name of fashion and knowing myself how I get irritated seeing girls in such, get so pushed that most times on the Road, in the Bus/Class/Bank/Markets and different places when I see them, I adjust there unclothedness to be covered or tell some by signals to get covered with either a handky or something..

*From experience, I have female friends, sisters and relatives and I gotta be honest and tell you they are well cultured in the act of dressing '10/10 to all'..

Nudity is considered shamelessness in the conservative society accross the continents and majority. In as much as its tolerated in some communities, we should have a sound check on the females as to stop this menace before it engulfs US all..

Let's not forget 'you get to be addressed the way you dress'...

Your read this to this point, you have a question or two to contribute? Or have you ideas? Please do have your say via the comment box..

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