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http://www.lexhansplace.com/2016/10/who-is-graduate.html

CC. Ishylove, lalasticala, mynd44

When I see graduates here cry of unemployment, I am not concerned. I become concerned when I see the kind of graduate crying.

What kind of graduate is he? An educated graduate or a certificated graduate?

Are we talking of a graduate who can defend his certificate or the one who can't even pen a simple job application letter in simple English?


Are we talking of a graduate who was taught but never learned, went to school but was never schooled,...?

Join the discussion...
*WHAT CAN BE DONE TO CORRECT THIS*

Source: read more of stuffs like this here. http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/11/gossip.html

cc: lalasticlala

all stunts all stunts... album coming soon, def a boom sale for them as usual..

lex

love and marriage.
love and dating.
love and friendship. (casual)

love and sex.

which does it?

MODIFIED...
in terms of the concept (love). will you love for Marriage, for Dating, for sex or just for the fun of Friendship.

its clear, one is for showoff n cash flashing while the other is for generous giving to the people they invited...

*I am an Igbo man*

but at the end of the day, if u no showoff the money for your party who/where u wan come show am?

*runs off thread*

na still part of movie abi? continu

naija doin things.... nice1 man.

talent and class... waje...(words aren't just enough)

Couples today cohabit for numerous reasons, ranging from more time together, financial concerns, and fear of the commitment of marriage or fear of divorce. Others slip into it out of convenience, some want to test their compatibility, while still others are actively rebelling against their parents or ethical upbringing. *(crisismagazine)*

How good does it go for tertiary institutions.

Students are sent to the university to learn and make the best of their Education but when the aim turns negative, what do you get in return.

Someone once said a few of these (They wine and dine together, They read and study together, Th3y do basicaly everything together)

Where are the moral values of our youth?

Is this monster called Cohabitation morally right or wrong?

Do we seat back and watch this ugly trend or norms sweep up our youth?

These are a few questions that came up on a discussion board.

A few of these students are likely going to encounter the following in such situations but at the same time I will like to add, if priorities are set right, they should have no problems or negatives to cohabiting.



Domestic violence is set to be a part of such cohabitation. You ask me why? I will tell you.


Knowing how our youth fall prey to emotions and its ups n downs, there is every chance that at one point or the other one may offend the other be it by word's or actions and they wil go straight to taking law's into their hands to violence and not dialogue as clearly majority of them are young and not well taken on the need to allow dialogue to solve a difference.

Psycological Trauma, without saying much in this one in particular, take a leaf from the violence one suffers and come to terms with the trauma that comes with it.


Unwanted Pregnancy. So long they cohabit, they are bound to get intimate time and again, and a lot of them are not well educated on the goods and bads that comes with s3x, at the end some get pregnant as proper s3xual knowledge wasnt given (females).


STD's. Without the knowledge, you can't known how to protect yourself, you cant know who or how to know the infected persons so diseases and infections come into play and a lot of damages comes with this.


Low Academic performances. Male and Female students that engages in 'Cohabitation' wrongly find it difficult combining studies and other activities perfectly as clearly the above effect creates room for a lot of distraction which in turn brings the low grades and weak academic performance.

Now the big questions are.

1. Is it right or wrong?

2. How can one balance between this? As clearly you can't stop a male and his female friend (lover) from dating.

Please join the discussion and drop those comments in the section below.

Source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2016/06/cohabitation-in-our-tertiary.html

Cc: lalasticlala mynd44 seun... i hope you get to see this and please move to FP. let our students be aware.

Is S** generally over-R'd?

I come to think 'day in day out' that it is not over-R'd as people think of it.. and completely it truly isn't over-R'd generally via my view.

Let's see a definition of mine... (It is coppling between two partners for a purpose of either fun and pleasure, baby making or for reducing or responding to an upsurge in hormones (sensual) in need of control..)

Remember when the likes around misuse its purpose and other erotics involved you put blames on the individuals not on the act itself...

*as the old will say, its for married couples and not for everyone* so why say its overated?.

Honestly we are making it look so because of the educational influence on us... 'Before education, it was there and it happened but as we are giving in so much knowledge of our very own society through our various means of gathering more on education..(Which is completely wrong of us..

You don't chase education the way we do now as it is said =too much knowledge of something sometimes confuses your understanding of that very thing you desire knowledge of= )

The knowledge given to us about it becomes questionable that we say its over-rated... To me its not..

'Remember its a 2way stuff.. Either the parties involved say yes and do it or say no and don't....'

As always, its in no way over-rated rather the educational influence is making us say so...

This is so simple and short a piece I had to do after I visited a friends blog and saw people say their different opinions on s** being over-rated..

*NOTE: My opinion..
so tell me what you think about it.... your honest views please as i will appreciate it in a very massive way.

source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2016/05/is-it-over-rated-yes-or-no-give-reasons.html?m=1

lalasticlala mynd44 seun

‎This is strictly a post to help the Introverts come out of their hard shells and relate with all for I remember I once experienced same at some point in time...
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Read this post below!!!‎
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#I'd really love to be close to people I love but I can't begin to think of what it might deprive me of.
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I am the type who would leave a room unannounced, withdraw from a crowd and even say nothing sometimes when spoken to. How many people can tolerate this?
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They're only going to judge me, thinking my attitude is about them. It's not! It's about me. You are a great person but I really value time to do things I'd love to do alone. If it was about you, I'd have told you. I am not fighting any demon. I just feel the need to dream and as much as I would like you to be part of the experience, I don't want to hold you down.
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I gave a dude I met my phone number and now I feel uncomfortable answering his calls.
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My not answering his calls has nothing to do with him. It's more with me. I don't know what to discuss with him. I'd like to discuss stuffs that go really deep but I don't think he can go with that. I did return his call , though, after I had rehearsed what to say to him and also how to end the conversation quickly while not sounding like someone in a haste to hang up.#
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*Note* This is actually a post from a friend of mine but I decided to share this as am sure a lot of people go through this day in day out...
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So tell me, if it were you? How will you deal with this situation.
#feel free to drop your comments on it#.‎‎

Source:
www.lexhansplace.com/2016/03/the-struggles-of-introvert.html

lalasticlala mynd44

*exclusive and direct conversation with him and no changes in words*(in trauma our words can have loads of typos)

Miah Michaels is the owner of www.techvillaz.com a tech blog..

See his chat with our rep here @lexhansplace below..

Lexhansplace: Hello Miah... can u speak on how it all happened?


Miah: well, it was a gud day.. d day started peacefully, ‎some hours later d weather changed, it started drizzling from drizzling to a heavy rain but d rain stopped some minutes later suddenly, it came back again dis time around more heavy n troubling wit scary wind, thunder n lightning‎, i was inside d house with my aunt n younger bro.


Lexhansplace: After that what happened again, cos I see pictures of debris n a large chunk of stone

Miah: I left my aunt room to enter parlour wen I suddenly heard a loud sound of forceful destruction, what happened? d heavy rain n its wind has forcefully removed someone else's roof n landed it on our compound, almost to killed to my 3big dogs.

Lexhansplace: So sorry about that, but I hope no loss of life or major damages?


Miah: sorry, almost to kill my 3big dogs, d impact of d roof destroyed simethings dat was outside d compound, my pawpaw three got uprooted by force. n suddenly, a big stone came off from our roof almost to hit me on my head but thanks to God it was a near miss. no lost of life but d properties of d owner of roof has been messed up by d rain, ‎worst of worst, they were not @home but their kids were.

Lexhansplace: ‎Hopefully things get better wen they get back home...


Miah: yes... am ok. Jut little shock that's all..

Lexhansplace: ok brother. God be with you and the kids around, and please have a watchful eye on the kids till the parents are back...

source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2016/04/top-tech-blogger-miah-michaels-escape.html

MOORCHMOORE:
Becas we spend so moorch to buy it, but wen man fall he gets up and keep walking.

But could this be another end time fall?

lol, no o..

GET YOUR self-confidence BACK...


Do you find yourself feeling so lonely? well below yourself? 
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in general do you see yourself loosing that touch of confidence which has always made you tough and hard to come up to by your peers?

If yes becomes an answer you will give then i suggest you do this and follow all through while you read this masterpiece and get your self confidence back as soon as you possibly can.

I am no expert in all i do in life but i have been able to personally implement this and truth be told this worked for me a whole lot when i felt the need to get a grip of my confidence at a time i had this feeling i was loosing it all. It will be of importance for you to note that it isn't naturally your fault that this is affecting you right now, but i trust that while you are able to read and implement this routine access there should be a great sign and volume of success in regards to what you seek to achieve.

To be confident in oneself is one thing just as it is another thing if you're and being positive within the selections you create.‎

Read more >>> http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/10/get-your-self-confidence-back.html


cc: lalasticlala mindy44

We all make mistakes in LIFE..

And which better way is there and ever available for us all to end the year in such a good way.. Lets take a simple and strong look at this short but direct peice from me to you all as 2015 draws closer to an end.

We all have committed errors in the past - nobody is conceived or lives as a holy person. The distinction among individuals with second thoughts is the way genuine these transgressions were, as well as what has been done subsequent to recoup or change, and to push ahead with another valuation forever and all it gives.

On the off chance that just we hadn't occupied with a sure conduct, or if just we hadn't lead a sure way of life, or, if just we hadn't been so soon to hop to a conclusion.
"Live in the current state, confronting the current obligation without misgiving for the past or stress over what's to come."

We can't change the past - the past is history. It doesn't mean we ought to simply shrug our shoulders about out past slip-ups and bear on in the same old way. It means, in any case, that we perceive that not just are our previous activities before, yet that our new self and its related practices is the means by which we live now and into what's to come.

To live with misgiving is to be buried in the past and a past that can't be changed in at any rate regardless of the amount you might imagine that relating issues that have brought about you issues in the course of the most recent couple of years, it won't help you to move towards making a superior or another life.

The route forward from this point forward is to begin taking a gander look at yourself nearly to choose what you need to be, Your perspective of what it is you craving to be similar to is the same as making a guide to take after. Without knowing where you need to go, you will wind up no place.

In a nutshell, forgive yourself of any wrongs you must haev done yourself, and also as the year ends up, please do make out time to forgive all those who have offended you in one way or the other and in doing this you usher in a new space of life for yourself thereby opening new doors of open happiness for yourself from heaven above.

I have offended people and they have also offended me and i ask myself that i have to make peace with all before the year ends and also make peace with my inner-self also.

**How has the Christmas and Boxing day celebrations been for you all? i guess fine.

http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/12/have-you-forgiven-yourself.html

Cc: Ishilove, lalasticlala

You ever wondered why we don't place values on ourselves or our friends?

A case was brought to me some time ago, it was fun yet pain...

A lady went to a super store to get some items and within a few minutes getting in, her friend who was with her, stumbled upon the high entrance and fell on the floor, and to my surprise every1 that was there all burst into laughter with just a few sayin sorry to her..but what caught my attention was what happened next..

As she laughed hard at her friends fall, her Samsung Note fell of her purse and everyone around her went mute and she was thrown into panic... My mind went blank as to why a Human will fall and people laugh , but next a Phone (Object) falls and people laught at it?

Any ideas pals, share with me please...

http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/11/value-on-non-living-things-becomes-issue.html

lalasticlala Ishilove LadyF Mynd44 please can this get to first page?

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Period is a normal bit of every woman's life. In any case, troublesome menstrual fits can be terrible issue. Great menstrual issues can exasperate reliable any ordinary development.

They are made by the substance Prostaglandin, which a hormone like disturb that is conveying on the uterine muscles to make tightening influences in the midst of ladylike cycle.

Variables like genetic qualities, coming to pubescence at in front of calendar ages, overpowering depleting in the midst of menstrual cycles, a stationary lifestyle, smoking, using wealth alcohol, and unlawful prescriptions can fuel menstrual issues even. For some woman, menstrual fits vanish straightforwardly after the first work. There are various helpful solutions that encourage the anguish, yet we will show to you typical and fruitful cures that are in like manner diminishing torment and turn away menstrual fits.

1.Ginger

Ginger is dumbfounding herb that enough encourages menstrual fits. It's reducing the levels of desolation, and fights exhaustion related with premenstrual issue. Moreover, it institutionalizes eccentric periods.

Cut and warmth up a tiny bit of ginger for 5 minutes. Strain it and incorporate lemon crush and nectar.

Drink this radiant tea three times while you are having month to month cycle.

You can in like manner suck on ginger desserts or add ginger to you dinners while you cook them.

2.Heat

In case you apply warm in the uterus range, you will loosen up contracting muscles, which will decrease torment.

You can use warming pad or plastic container full with high temp water. Apply them on your lower back and stomach area.

Hot gives similarly reduction torment, and will loosen up you.

3.Cinnamon

Cinnamon has cooling, hostile to coagulating, and antispasmodic properties that will prevent menstrual fits. It is moreover a mind blowing hotspot for calcium, dietary fiber, manganese, and iron.

Menstrual fits can be neutralized with cinnamon tea. Blend ¼ teaspoon of cinnamon powder in a glass with breaking point water.

Allow it to chill off for 5 minutes, and incorporate nectar. Taste it step by step 2-3 times for 2 days before the period starts..
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source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/12/menstral-cramps-and-solution.html

cc: lalasticlala

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"Good things come to those who believe, better things come to those who are patient, and the best things come to those who don't give up."

which class of these people will you say you belong to?

THE BELIEVERS?

THE PATIENT?

THOSE WHO DON'T GIVE UP?

tell me, let me know you more now as the year draws close to an end...
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source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/12/good-things.html

cc: lalasticlala

ok lets take a trip back to Ancient times and read a little about something some of us may not know...

Orange is the shading of saffron, carrots, pumpkins and apricots. It is amidst red and yellow on the scope of light, and in the standard shading wheel used by painters. Its name is gotten from the natural item Orange.

In Europe and America, orange is regularly associated with pleasure, the eccentric, outgoing people, flame, activity, hazard, taste and scent, the harvest time season, and Protestantism. In Asia, it is a crucial ordinary shading of Buddhism and Hinduism.

The shading orange is named after the prepared's vicinity orange organic product. The word begins from the Old French orenge, from the old term for the natural item, pomme d'orenge. That name starts from the Arabic naranj, through the Persian naranj, got from the Sanskrit naranga. The at first recorded usage of orange as a shading name in English was in 1512.

Preceding this word was familiar with the English-talking world, saffron successfully existed in the English dialect. Crog in like manner insinuated the saffron shading, so orange was moreover suggested as ġeolurēad (yellow-red) for blushing orange, or ġeolucrog (yellow-saffron) for yellowish orange. On the other hand orange things were once in a while depicted as red, for instance, red deer, red hair and robin redbreast.

In obsolete Egypt, pros used an orange mineral shading called realgar for tomb gems, furthermore diverse vocations. It was in like manner used later by Medieval experts for the shading of unique duplicates. Hues were moreover made in old-fashioned times from a mineral known as orpiment.

Orpiment was an imperative piece of exchange the Roman Empire and was used as an answer as a piece of China notwithstanding the way that it contains arsenic and is uncommonly deadly. It was in like manner used as a fly poison. In perspective of its yellow-orange shading, it was moreover a most adored with scientific experts chasing down a way to deal with make gold, both in China and the West.

Before the late fifteenth century, the shading orange existed in Europe, yet without the name; it was basically called yellow-red. Portuguese shippers passed on the first orange trees to Europe from Asia in the late fifteenth and mid sixteenth century, close by the Sanskrit naranga, which a little bit at a time got the chance to be "orange" in English. it is wort realizing that in parts of Germany, the Netherlands, and Russia, the orange natural item is still called the Chinese apple

i can continue endlessly and on, however the data on the shading "orange" will without a doubt get endless...Now let me know.

does this picture give you the alleviation of life?...

in the event that yes drop your musings about them

Source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/10/a-colour-so-warm-yet-ancient.html

cc: lalasticlala

Reasons for INFERTILITY IN MEN....

- Using steroid-this causes the testicles to backlash in this way rendering the man vain.

- Malnutrition and sickliness.

- Wearing tight pants and boxers-this reasons fruitlessness by reducing the era of sperm as a result of the glow made by the tight dress, this glow impacts the scrotum unfavorably.

- Lots of excellent workouts-Too a lot of high phenomenal movement is fit for rendering a man unproductive as this causes the body to convey stacks of adrenal steroid hormones, which then cause a testosterone deficiency.

- Smoking– this basically decreases both sperm number and sperm cell motility, which is the ability to move abruptly and viably.

- A drawn out usage of pot and other recreational drugs.

- Chronic alcohol abuse.

- Lack of adequate vitamin C and Zinc in feeding.

http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/11/infertility-in-men.html

Gossip as we all know “is idle talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others”

“The act of gossipping is also known as dishing or tattling”.

But only a few of us knows the true event about the invention of the word or act of gossiping…

I’ll tell you…

Back in the days… as early as the days of the ancient Greeks/Romans and co…

The act of rivalry existed so much that everyone had to be careful and on there guard.. this brought about the need for all and sundry to always have someone whose job ultimately was just to go out to places of crowd…(I.E Pubs, Market places, Village squares, Battle fields and even as far as someones (a rivals) House to pick up information for their master..

Now this is the real idea.. Masters will ask their spy's or service boys/girls to (GO) out into the bars and (SIP) their drinks and eves drop on what people have to say about either about them or just about everything they were opportune to hear/listen to.

With which at the end of the day, every service boy will in return go back to his master and give the gotten information..

Evolution made it clear and now its coined into a simple word…

GO-SIP…GOSSIP

cc: lalasticlala, seun, mynd44, Fynestboi,

Early bosom disease for the most part does not bring about side effects. This is the reason customary bosom examinations are vital.

The vast majority feel that the vicinity of bumps at the early stage is all expected to set up that there is bosom growth. In any case, at times irregularities may not be available; but rather there would be different markers that may recommend the vicinity of bosom disease.

These are five early signs that may be markers of bosom malignancy.

1. Vicinity of a protuberance that feels unique in relation to whatever is left of the bosom tissue, and as a rule does not sting. More than 80% of bosom growth cases are found when the lady feels an irregularity. Knots found in lymph hubs situated in the armpits can likewise show bosom disease.

2. Change in the size, shape, or feel of the bosom or areola.

3. Change in the presence of the bosom. This may incorporate redness, dimpling, or puckering that resembles the skin of an orange

4. Change in how the areola looks, for instance pulling in the areola.

5. Liquid originating from the areola, may be wicked, clear to yellow, green, and look like discharge.

#Note: Men can get bosom malignancy, as well. Side effects incorporate bosom protuberance and bosom torment and delicacy.

source: http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/10/know-if-you-have-bosom-cancer.html

cc: lalasticlala

bukster:
I'm Nigerian. I hate it when you ask people where they are from and they say Africa. Africa is the second biggest continent in the world and there are 54 countries within it. Saying that they're from Africa doeesnt narrow anything down, I already knew they were from Africa because of their skin colour. Its so annoying and all it does it add to the belief that Subsahran Africa is one homogeneous entity and we are actually the most diverse place on earth.

Clear thoughts you have there...

ezeagu:
The idea of African unity is fabricated and sentimental nonsense. If we don't want to be divided, why not then a world government?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catalonia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Basque_Country_(autonomous_community)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Partition_of_Belgium
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scottish_independence
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scottish_independence_referendum,_2014
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irish_Republican_Army
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unionism_in_Ireland
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_Cyprus
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soviet_Union
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faroe_Islands
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Ossetia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_Kosovo
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Welsh_independence

Well said, but the hands above, will they stand for this for all igbos or for their selfish intrests?..... I like the references you gave, some still fighting for freedom....

zendy:
Im an Igbo man and a proud one too. The term "Nigerian" is an illegal identity foisted on us all by the British and enforced by the guns of Lord Lugard. While I don't begrudge anyone who embraces this British identity, I do have an axe to grind with any Igbo who places this foreign identity above the identity of his forefathers. How can any Igbo man say he is 'first a Nigerian' before being Igbo? Sounds fishy to me. What was this Igbo man before the British came? What would he have been if the British had never come? My late Grandfather was born in 1902. He told me before he died that he did not know he had been made a Nigerian until 1920. I believe that if we Igbos are to assume any national identity, it must be the one we choose for our selves and not the one the White man gave us. I accepted the Biafran identity, nobody forced it on me.

Clear points.... Yet we remember how the Name Nigeria and what it stands for.... 'I like how direct you made your point and the part you said 'nobody forced it on you'...

For the Young and Unmarried Girls in the house...

This is for you, read thoroughly and implement, making You and Your family proud of you..

Here are about 4 Tips to Help you Avoid Getting Pregnant:

Read these tips properly and get to implementing them all and trust you will on the safe side of the world and word itself (pregnancy) ...

1. Make sense of how to say "No" to anything you feel uncomfortable with. Whether its declining to have a playmate, have any kind of physical contact, take part in intercourse without security. There is nothing the matter with protecting yourself. The fundamental 100% shielded way to deal with avoid pregnancy is to not have intercourse, so you shouldn't feel bonehead for not having any yearning to do the wrong thing.

2. Do whatever it takes not to offer into partner weight. Various youngsters and even youths do feel abandoned when their colleagues start to have sweethearts, or start participating in intimate relationships. The people who have started to do these things early can as often as possible talk about it enough to make others see left. In any case, in case you continue on and hold up until you know you are readied, you will be cheerful you did.

Trust me, a critical number of your buddies will mourn their choices in time. Others could even be lying. Don't just start participating in intimate affairs in light of the way that different people are.

3. Acknowledge what will and won't realize pregnancy. Ceaselessly arm yourself with the realities and cut down your conceivable outcomes of pregnancy the safe, and savvy way.

Unprotected affairs has the most important potential outcomes of realizing pregnancy. Male sperm readies the female egg, realizing the advancement of a hatchling. Unprotected affairs moreover passes on a high risk of infirmity and sullying.

Pulling out passes on some peril of pregnancy. This is by virtue of some sperm may be released in the male's preseminal fluid, or essentially in light of the fact that the male doesn't pull out quickly enough. Regardless, condoms work more enough than pulling out

4. Ceaselessly use security. The best thing to do is to talk about contraception choices with your associate before taking part in intimate affairs, as there are various choices, for instance, the anticonception prescription pill, condoms and spermicide.

If you aren't adequately content with your assistant to speak with him or her about certification, you aren't arranged to participate in intimate affairs with them.

Check that you are totally taught about the reasonability of most of the assorted sorts of anticonception prescription before settling on a decision.

political politics........... CHANGE..... sai baba.

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Happy independence Naija

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NOBODYY:
An igbo man just said he is a nigerian
Am very sure the self acclaimed biafrans will insult the hell outta him now

am Nigerian..... i am Igbo and would not delve into something that brings a reason for division...... any true Nigerian who witnessed the war (OUR FATHERS AND MOTHERS) will definitely say no to BIAFRA..... lets ask the true elders of the IGBOLAND...

ONE NIGERIA...

KashyBaby:
I heard igbo men are handsome

lolz, yea right... we are....what about you?

cheavroi:
It depends on your motive. If you are doing it for link building; wrong

If you are doing it because the blog post has something interested and you want to share your own view (either good or bad), then it's good.

Now no matter your motive, dropping link is bad especially if you use keyword as your name

thanks for this...i appreciate ur comment..