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ReluctantAdult:


Only delusional people think monogamy is real
Stop deluding yourselves about this one man to one woman arrangement, when you know you're always going to get bored and seek other people out.
Accept your primal nature of sexual liberty and be at peace

Well, I guess I shouldn't mess with Divorce Lawyers and Marriage Counsellors hustle. Make una forgive me abeg

Speak for yourself brother..

Some Men and women have practiced monogamy to old age with swag and love.

Ignorance is not bliss

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YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

If you have not slept with her while she was married,then dont be scared because your wife wont rely on her ex.Just give her some negative attitudes and dont be available to give any advice, she will get tired and move on.

BUT if you have slept with her while she was married then NOTHING can stop your wife from relying on her ex for decisions..Karma must fulfill its mission. It is biblical.

PDPdestroyer:
I don’t care who wins the world cup, as long as Portugal is out

you de beef who GOD don bless

Timijo:
We don't really care about the outcome of the game from this side. No pressure.

consolation..

digitalman2811:
If iam a nurse i will raise some money and travel out, so many hospitals out there are ready to employ nurses, take care of your travel and visa expenses including your dependants.

If I can't raise money to travel out, I will open a medicine store in a busy area and cash out big time.

pls which hospital sponsors a nurse and its Dependents..

Benjanni:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/you-cant-criticise-govt-without-giving-solutions-actress-dayo-amusa-tells-peter-obi/?

Who is Dayo Amusa?Lwkmd

Islie:
https://www.thecable.ng/imf-nigeria-to-spend-over-half-of-revenue-on-debt-servicing-in-2026/#google_vignette

A time will come when FG wont be able to pay workers salary..

This truth is bitter and scary.

Plan ahead!

TGreatGatsby:
I feel like snitching my dumb ass neighbors who is somewhat like this couple, the woman just dey beat this small girl wey dey stay with her anyhow.

please report that neighbor and save a child.

If you look away you might share in the repercussions in the future.

SlavaUkraini:
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https://dailypost.ng/2026/06/11/ndc-peter-obi-present-when-motion-for-party-supremacy-was-passed-dickson/

Make Obi win first..

Party supremacy ko party supremacy ni

Who sabi NDC before

Mr street HIV is real...

giftson102:
Every married woman has one man she loves more than her husband.

I know many of you will argue, but it's just the truth. If you give women the chance to marry more than one man, many of them will marry more than four men..
Sometimes, women idealize other men, creating unrealistic expectations..

A married woman once told me that she didn't marry her husband because he was her spec.
She married him because he is caring, family orientated and rich. But in looks, body structure and other things that personal, he's not her spec.

As a man, it's important to have in mind that you cannot tick all her boxes when it comes to the qualities she wants in a man.

If her boxes are 10 and you tick 5 or 6, she will consider you. But that doesn't stop her from admiring other men who possesses the other options you did not possess..
At that point, they will wish the man is her husband and if care is not taken, cheating is likely to occur.

If culture permits women, many of them will marry more than 4 men.
Women are more polygamous in nature than men and that's why they cheat the most, but the society is not ready for this conversation..

No matter how much your claim to love you, there's another man she still loves and wishes he was her husband/boyfriend.

And if that man she loves happens to be her Boss or her colleague at her workplace or even someone within her reach, there's nothing that would stop her from cheating on you with that man.

So, the earlier you understand that there's another man your woman loves, the better for you..

Have it in mind that you can NEVER tick all the boxes of a woman and those boxes you did not tick, there's another man out there who would tick it..

My sermon always sounds like a joke to some men but it's to whom it may concern..

I don't want to say much again but before I close the sermon, let me leave you with a Rongai proverb that says, "A woman who pushes her husband to try brand-new bedroom techniques is cheating."

Dont always generalize..

Not ALL women love someone more than their husband.

Peace.

Richtaiwo:
The funniest political fantasy flying around today is the idea that Kwankwaso would agree to deputise Pitobi. The gap is simply too wide. Kwankwaso is a 2-term governor, former legislator, former minister, and a PhD holder with decades of political structure and experience behind him.

So how exactly do people expect a man with such credentials to line up behind someone who finished third despite all the online noise and turned a 4- academic year course into a six-session struggle? Apart from the court judgment that handed him the governorship, what exactly is the intimidating political achievement here? Social media hype is not governance.

Mr analyzer can i gladly inform you that NDC have zoned the presidential ticket to south.

AdvaatCredit:
No matter how much you earn the maximum amount of loan we give to eligible first time applicants is capped at N100,000

ok thats too low for what i need it for.Tx

AdvaatCredit:
In that case you are eligible to apply but you would need to meet other eligibility requirements such as having a net minimum monthly salary of at least N250,000

I actually earn much more than that.

brain54:
Colonial mentality and low self esteem...


He doesn't even believe the country has what it takes to manage it's own power. He rather wants to push a sensitive and important infrastructure as power in the hands of foreigners.


And these are the people we have in government o.


Oga senator Goje electricity is not rocket science. What it takes is planning and willpower.


So many things are fundamentally wrong with these people chosen to participate and represent in government. No nation can ever grow when it has leaders with such mindset!

You are right that no nation with such leaders can grow with such mindset.

This should let you know that we do not have the Leaders with the will power to solve this power issues .

so it is not bad to refer to a nation who has the will power to manage this sector for a while.In this case China.

Truth is bitter!

I'm a federal worker on IPPIS but dont live in lagos.

onatisi:
Marriage is overrated. Many people are in marriage today not because they want to or are happy but because the society seem to see married people as good . Well all that is changing now . You can be happy as a single person .
Majority or even 90% of men in marriages today will jump at the slightest opportunity to become single again and be like that for life same for women also

Maybe your marriage is overated..

Mine is not overated and is a beautiful institution that has rules and will only be successful if these rules are obeyed...

tunapawizzy:
this dirty style of wearing sneakers on Trad ehn

it is not a dirty style..but a creative style.

Dont be rigid and boring

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Marieh11j:
Alex Otti, the former LP presidential candidate, is currently facing the consequences of his unrealistic campaign promises.

The Abia state residents are yet to see any tangible development from him.

Even if he is doing well, his communication strategy is poor

Will you shut up.

Which Abia state residents are yet to see any development?

Is it same Abia state i reside or another one in your roof?

Abians are happy with Otti

Katell:
I am begining to see the result of the Adeleke's family tour to Aso Rock some months ago.

Few days after the visit, the top contender,former governor Gboyega Oyetola withdrew from the race.

Now, the bigwigs have been disqualified.

I'm telling you.

Infact Davido wont campaign against him this time in 2027

tunjijones:
Dem dey strike?

Nobody even noticed!!!!

Thank your GOD none of your family members had any health emergency case cos you would have noticed automatically.

naturalman:
I am seriously down with emotion, anxiety and depression of what the future holds..it's been 10 yrs of graduation and I have being teaching in a private school...life as been miserable...at the age of 40, I am not yet married.i don't even know what to do....kindly help me nairalanders

Avoid fornication with those secondary school girls and watch Favour embrace you.

Do you sell Adderall?

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

young man speak for yourself.

There are many happy men with their one wife..

If e no work for you no come dey generalize....

Sabadon:
if only dangote can distribute fuel stations like rain oil all over.....and partner with few non saboteurs, then it ll be bye bye to NUPENG and NLNG,

yeah he should build fuel stations around cities in Nigeria.

papiSNEH:
Na you lose

she didnt lose..she saved herself from STDS

omoredia:
I dont know why nigerians rejoice when a successful person is in problems. Very wrong mentality

most Nigerians have natural hatred for anyone who is rich or even appears rich..

Jokes apart to tell ourselves the truth, Peter Obi has the highest level of organic love currently in Nigeria.

But the problem is he has to be more rugged to win presidency...

Amgoodtogo:
Iceland offers some undergraduate studies, as well as post graduate diploma course for free. And they are taught in English.

I'm 42yrs old, and relocating to Iceland via study route for a 3yr bsc program. By September, I should be in Iceland by God's grace. Just paid my registration fee, and other payables. Currently waiting for my resident permit.

please can I send you a dm..so you could guide me on this route.Thanks

Edoreborn:
This is outright rubbish..let me use myself as an example,,i married a woman that is very manipulative..She was very good outside but she gave me shege when we were alone..The problem started when she started visiting abuja frequently..She started comparing me with others to d extent that i saw numerous chat with men..i kept my cool because i loved her.. Meanwhile she was painting as a demon in front her family to d extent d ones in London would call dt they heard how av being calling them all sort of names..


To cut d whole story short,,d abuja lifestyles changed her n she started seeing other men..Pls,,men tolerate a lot in marriages..my only lucky charms why i didn't take laws into my hands was to relocate back to lag..What u don't see doesn't kill..story long sha.. inshort,,fear women...

There is no excuse to physically torture or batter your wife.

There are other ways to correct a woman