₦airaland Forum

giftson102:
Every married woman has one man she loves more than her husband.

I know many of you will argue, but it's just the truth. If you give women the chance to marry more than one man, many of them will marry more than four men..
Sometimes, women idealize other men, creating unrealistic expectations..

A married woman once told me that she didn't marry her husband because he was her spec.
She married him because he is caring, family orientated and rich. But in looks, body structure and other things that personal, he's not her spec.

As a man, it's important to have in mind that you cannot tick all her boxes when it comes to the qualities she wants in a man.

If her boxes are 10 and you tick 5 or 6, she will consider you. But that doesn't stop her from admiring other men who possesses the other options you did not possess..
At that point, they will wish the man is her husband and if care is not taken, cheating is likely to occur.

If culture permits women, many of them will marry more than 4 men.
Women are more polygamous in nature than men and that's why they cheat the most, but the society is not ready for this conversation..

No matter how much your claim to love you, there's another man she still loves and wishes he was her husband/boyfriend.

And if that man she loves happens to be her Boss or her colleague at her workplace or even someone within her reach, there's nothing that would stop her from cheating on you with that man.

So, the earlier you understand that there's another man your woman loves, the better for you..

Have it in mind that you can NEVER tick all the boxes of a woman and those boxes you did not tick, there's another man out there who would tick it..

My sermon always sounds like a joke to some men but it's to whom it may concern..

I don't want to say much again but before I close the sermon, let me leave you with a Rongai proverb that says, "A woman who pushes her husband to try brand-new bedroom techniques is cheating."

Dont always generalize..

Not ALL women love someone more than their husband.

Peace.

Richtaiwo:
The funniest political fantasy flying around today is the idea that Kwankwaso would agree to deputise Pitobi. The gap is simply too wide. Kwankwaso is a 2-term governor, former legislator, former minister, and a PhD holder with decades of political structure and experience behind him.

So how exactly do people expect a man with such credentials to line up behind someone who finished third despite all the online noise and turned a 4- academic year course into a six-session struggle? Apart from the court judgment that handed him the governorship, what exactly is the intimidating political achievement here? Social media hype is not governance.

Mr analyzer can i gladly inform you that NDC have zoned the presidential ticket to south.

AdvaatCredit:
No matter how much you earn the maximum amount of loan we give to eligible first time applicants is capped at N100,000

ok thats too low for what i need it for.Tx

AdvaatCredit:
In that case you are eligible to apply but you would need to meet other eligibility requirements such as having a net minimum monthly salary of at least N250,000

I actually earn much more than that.

brain54:
Colonial mentality and low self esteem...


He doesn't even believe the country has what it takes to manage it's own power. He rather wants to push a sensitive and important infrastructure as power in the hands of foreigners.


And these are the people we have in government o.


Oga senator Goje electricity is not rocket science. What it takes is planning and willpower.


So many things are fundamentally wrong with these people chosen to participate and represent in government. No nation can ever grow when it has leaders with such mindset!

You are right that no nation with such leaders can grow with such mindset.

This should let you know that we do not have the Leaders with the will power to solve this power issues .

so it is not bad to refer to a nation who has the will power to manage this sector for a while.In this case China.

Truth is bitter!

I'm a federal worker on IPPIS but dont live in lagos.

onatisi:
Marriage is overrated. Many people are in marriage today not because they want to or are happy but because the society seem to see married people as good . Well all that is changing now . You can be happy as a single person .
Majority or even 90% of men in marriages today will jump at the slightest opportunity to become single again and be like that for life same for women also

Maybe your marriage is overated..

Mine is not overated and is a beautiful institution that has rules and will only be successful if these rules are obeyed...

tunapawizzy:
this dirty style of wearing sneakers on Trad ehn

it is not a dirty style..but a creative style.

Dont be rigid and boring

B

Marieh11j:
Alex Otti, the former LP presidential candidate, is currently facing the consequences of his unrealistic campaign promises.

The Abia state residents are yet to see any tangible development from him.

Even if he is doing well, his communication strategy is poor

Will you shut up.

Which Abia state residents are yet to see any development?

Is it same Abia state i reside or another one in your roof?

Abians are happy with Otti

Katell:
I am begining to see the result of the Adeleke's family tour to Aso Rock some months ago.

Few days after the visit, the top contender,former governor Gboyega Oyetola withdrew from the race.

Now, the bigwigs have been disqualified.

I'm telling you.

Infact Davido wont campaign against him this time in 2027

tunjijones:
Dem dey strike?

Nobody even noticed!!!!

Thank your GOD none of your family members had any health emergency case cos you would have noticed automatically.

naturalman:
I am seriously down with emotion, anxiety and depression of what the future holds..it's been 10 yrs of graduation and I have being teaching in a private school...life as been miserable...at the age of 40, I am not yet married.i don't even know what to do....kindly help me nairalanders

Avoid fornication with those secondary school girls and watch Favour embrace you.

Do you sell Adderall?

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

young man speak for yourself.

There are many happy men with their one wife..

If e no work for you no come dey generalize....

Sabadon:
if only dangote can distribute fuel stations like rain oil all over.....and partner with few non saboteurs, then it ll be bye bye to NUPENG and NLNG,

yeah he should build fuel stations around cities in Nigeria.

papiSNEH:
Na you lose

she didnt lose..she saved herself from STDS

omoredia:
I dont know why nigerians rejoice when a successful person is in problems. Very wrong mentality

most Nigerians have natural hatred for anyone who is rich or even appears rich..

Jokes apart to tell ourselves the truth, Peter Obi has the highest level of organic love currently in Nigeria.

But the problem is he has to be more rugged to win presidency...

Amgoodtogo:
Iceland offers some undergraduate studies, as well as post graduate diploma course for free. And they are taught in English.

I'm 42yrs old, and relocating to Iceland via study route for a 3yr bsc program. By September, I should be in Iceland by God's grace. Just paid my registration fee, and other payables. Currently waiting for my resident permit.

please can I send you a dm..so you could guide me on this route.Thanks

Edoreborn:
This is outright rubbish..let me use myself as an example,,i married a woman that is very manipulative..She was very good outside but she gave me shege when we were alone..The problem started when she started visiting abuja frequently..She started comparing me with others to d extent that i saw numerous chat with men..i kept my cool because i loved her.. Meanwhile she was painting as a demon in front her family to d extent d ones in London would call dt they heard how av being calling them all sort of names..


To cut d whole story short,,d abuja lifestyles changed her n she started seeing other men..Pls,,men tolerate a lot in marriages..my only lucky charms why i didn't take laws into my hands was to relocate back to lag..What u don't see doesn't kill..story long sha.. inshort,,fear women...

There is no excuse to physically torture or batter your wife.

There are other ways to correct a woman

2m

doctore212:
Who knows best line to pick up olosho this night. Am an arsenal fan .

Am so happy. And na raw I go knack. Anything that wants to happen should happen

HIV is real

dharamanil:
My IELTs result are expired, I currently have a selt B2 proficiency test and a certificate of health care from the UK, online though.

My question is when is the process meant to start and if I has started can someone please share a link to the registration portal.

What are document verification process.

please how did you get the certificate of health care from the UK online.

Which certified link did you use to obtain this certificate.Thanks

OnionBandit:
This woman's beauty is exaggerated

I don't see fair skinned people as extremely beautiful. Oshiomole and Ned would have been more handsome if they were fair in complexion.

you must be dark skinned I guess.

Whether fair or dark anyone who is beautiful is beautiful and anyone who is ugly is ugly,let's stop giving some people unnecessary hope

Kemistri3:
I don't understand this obsession with other people's sexualities

Let them do whatever they want in the privacy of their bedroom provided it's consensual

The act of practicing Homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria.

So no one will allow you practice it in peace.

Xisnin:
Fubara should avoid Wike's trap if he is smart.
He has been ignoring court orders for a while thinking he has absolute power.

He must quickly represent the budget or he will be impeached for contempt of court.
As far as I know, that would be the first legally-sanctioned impeachment of a governor in Nigeria.

Disgrace the court and get disgraced out of office.

NO Governor can be impeached without the Chief Judge of the state.

The Chief Judge in Rivers state is in solidarity with the Governor.

The only loss for Fubara now is the federal allocation that will seize.

helinues:
They are too productive for ejo wewe

Just rest.boring and unintelligent response

Lalami3232:

Hey young men, don't you ever be greedy and start missing your ex. Don't you want the kpekus to go around? Oga when you chop to your satisfaction, you pass it onto the next available guy as usual. Laslas, one man go marry her and privatized her. If to say oyibo dey greedy with their cars, how would you have become a car owner? Pls let's learn to treat out ex like oyibo dey treat their cars
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga you no meet your wife as a virgin and not expect her to be faithful. Why you think say na your preeq be the sweetest in her preeq journey? Una level of confidence dey shock me

I met my wife as a virgin and it has been sweet marital life.Thank you GOD.

O boy I lucky oo

GOD forbid I miss anything or anybody called EX.

CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil

May GOD help you to grow.

kedeojo:
Yes you can, when you are focus and tolerate pettiness. Akeredolu was a consummate lawyer. He was already a lawyer on a service year in Imo when he met Betty. Betty don't have much contribution to his rise. Akeredolu was one of the major lawyers of ACN. Akeredolu might have just tolerated the woman all along.

They met as youth corpers at enugu at a friend's house..

Don't just type for the sake of typing.

She may have some attitude problems but she helped her husband to reach the lofty heights he attained.

They built together!

A bad wife can't build with her husband!