₦airaland Forum

My elder sister is in her early thirties and never married. She seems so depressed because we,her junior ones are married.
She is currently in a dilemma. She has four suitors presently. The one that is ready to marry her is a federal worker in his forties. But the problem she has is that he impregnated a lady 10 years ago and he bore him a son. She is concerned that marrying a man that already has a son might be a problem in the future. The second suitor resides far away from her location but he is scared of coming home because of insecurity in the Eastern part of Nigeria. He told her to wait a bit,that he will come to perform marital rites if things cool off.
The third one is the one she loves but she is concerned that he is not yet financially buoyant, he is a civil servant ( a teacher).
And the last one is a nursing student who plans to travel out after his nursing degree but the problem is that he told her he will marry her after he graduates next two years.
She has been studying those suitors and has never been intimate with any of them. Most of them knew her through recommendations from colleagues. Who do you think she should go for if you were in her shoes?

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