Zimbabwean President Robert Mugabe’s sacking of his deputy Emmerson Mnangagwa was part of a wider purge, to to neutralize any resistance to the political rise of his wife, Grace, analysts said.
Mugabe sacked his long-time ally Mnangagwa on Monday for showing “traits of disloyalty”, abruptly removing a favorite to succeed the 93-year-old leader and boosting the likelihood of Grace Mugabe becoming his next deputy and potential successor.
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State television ZBC said the purge went beyond removing Mnangagwa, 75, as half of the ruling ZANU-PF’s national provincial executives separately met and passed resolutions expelling supporters of the former vice president on Monday.

ZANU-PF leaders in the eastern Manicaland region called for the expulsion of cyber security minister Patrick Chinamasa, a former finance minister before he was moved in a cabinet reshuffle on Oct. 9, ZBC said in an online report.



Chinamasa, fellow cabinet ministers Oppah Muchinguri, Chris Mushohwe and 36 other party members and officials were accused of being Mnangagwa allies who were disrespectful to Mugabe.

“The province recommended the expulsion of 39 individuals from the province who were involved with the Mnangagwa-aligned ‘Lacoste’ faction, which is accused of not respecting the party’s one center of power principle,” ZBC said.

The three cabinet ministers did not respond to calls for comment.

The process to weed out Mnangagwa allies was repeated in four other provinces, the state Herald newspaper said.

A senior ZANU-PF official from Matabeleland South Province told Reuters that the provincial executive there had on Tuesday passed a resolution to fire 15 senior members linked to Mnangagwa, including state security minister Kembo Mohadi.



Remaining provinces were holding separate meetings on Tuesday, two ZANU-PF sources in Harare told Reuters.

Recommendations by the provinces will be discussed by ZANU-PF’s supreme decision-making Politburo at its sitting next week and if adopted will seal the fate of the officials.



International Crisis Group’s southern Africa senior consultant Piers Pigou said purges of ZANU-PF members seen as supportive of Mnangagwa would neutralize any potential fight-back.



“Survival is going to be the name of the game for many people,” he said.

Five ZANU-PF provinces and the youth wing also recommended that Grace become vice president, ZBC said, opening the way for the first lady to serve next to her husband in government.

Grace has said ZANU-PF plans to change its charter this month to allow Mugabe to appoint a female vice president at a special congress set for mid-December.
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PRESIDENT and General Overseer, Christ Mercyland Deliverance Ministry, Prophet Jeremiah Fufeyin along with ace actor, Kanayo O. Kanayo and Chinwe Owoh celebrated Prophetess Anthonia Fufeyin birthday on Sunday in a grand style. Fufeyin Fufeyin who said that he wants the birthday in a low key shocked his congregation when he presented a cheque of N30million to his wife. The Prophet said that he owes his wife love, as she stood with him when he had nothing till now. Reading from Ephesians 5:25, Fufeyin said that husband should love their wives as Christ loved the Church, insisting that was why he has to celebrate his wife in a special way. Kanayo who anchored the brief birthday oration advice couples to live in love and harmony, supporting one another. He urged Nigerians to love one another and believe in the country, insisting the future is bright. The actor described Mrs. Fufeyin as a virtuous woman, who has helped to build shattered lives and destinies. On her part, Chinwe Owoh sang praises to God and eulogises Prophetess Fufeyin and thank God for her life. He commended the Prophet for his ministry and his philanthropic gestures and supporting people who lost hope......
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Will you allow your stepson/daughter marry you because culture demands it? Please be honest.

Insult and lying

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I’m going to let you in on a little secret. This piece is for only married men and women or intended couples. I’m very sure it will transform your marriage and change your life generally, because when you get it right inside you wouldn’t have it wrong outside.


Even some of the most confident women get anxious about sleeping with someone new for the first time. The only difference being that feeling this way doesn’t directly, err… impact our ability to get the job done. There’s probably nothing that kills a boner faster than the anxiety of not being able to perform. And then trying to explain to the woman you’re sleeping with that it’s totally “not her” definitely doesn’t help things, either.

Lost hard-ons aren’t the only fallen soldiers of bedroom anxiety. There’s also the whole issue of trying to hold out long enough to ensure that your woman enjoys her time in the sack with you.

Hard times all around (or, you know, not). So what can you do to up your bedroom mojo? Here’s what experts and real men have to say about how to overcome anxiety and be more confident in bed.

1. Educate Yourself
One of the best things you can do in order to feel more confident in virtually any area of life is to expand your knowledge in said area. Unfortunately, they don’t teach How To Please Women 101 in school. “S*x education usually just covers the basics of biology,” says certified counsellor Jonathan Bennett. “Guys aren’t normally taught how to please a woman. Usually, that comes through experience and open communication with partners. Consequently, men with little s*xual experience can feel insecure and clueless, leading to a lack of confidence in themselves and lack of pleasure for the woman during s*x.”

So what can you do to get up to speed? “My advice to men with little s*xual confidence is to read up on tips, methods, and tricks to be better in bed.” Bennett recommends exploring the free resources out there to get a leg up on your learning. “There are great free articles and videos on the internet that explain in specific detail ways to please a woman s*xually,” Bennett says.

Dr. Dawn Michael, Ph.D, echoes this sentiment. For a more vivid learning approach, she recommends that younger, more inexperienced men consider hooking up with an older lady who can teach them a thing or two. “If a young man wants some hands-on experience, he may want to spend some time in bed with an older woman who is willing to show him a move or two or three – you get my point,” she says. “People feel less confident when they feel inexperienced, so getting as much information as they can get is wonderful.” Also, when you’re seeking out s*x knowledge, take p#rn with a grain of salt. “Many times, men learn how to have s*x from p#rn,” says Dr. Michael, “and that may be fine if they are watching p#rn that has some educational value to it. But I recommend videos that truly are made to educate – and there are now plenty on the market. For example, S*x Smart Films has some wonderful information.”

“For me it was discovering that drinking a little can help longevity, but also just learning how to give good head. If you can do that, the rest of your performance isn’t as heavily scrutinised. Practice and earnest discussions with women about what they liked, what they didn’t like, etc. also helped. Learning by watching p#rn isn’t the best. Unless it’s woman-on-woman. Dude p#rn stars are not generally very adept.”
–Scott,



2. What Women Want
Another issue that’s likely killing your confidence in the sack is focusing on what the media tells you that women value when it comes to things like pen!s size and the duration that s*x is “supposed to” last. “The men I have treated in my practice who’ve had anxiety in bed usually worry about pen!s size or ‘holding out’ so they can last longer for their partner,” says psychologist Kelley Kitley, L.C.S.W. “We can’t do anything about size, other than an acceptance model,” she says. “I help men restructure their thoughts around performance and relaxation to enjoy being in the present moment by being mindful versus racing to the finish. S*xual intimacy is more about quality versus longevity for most. A good orgasm can take all of two minutes, and 80% of women orgasm by clitoral stimulation rather than penetration.”

Getting clear on your woman’s specific needs will also help your cause. “Men can increase confidence by knowing their partner’s body,” says Kitley, “asking what she likes and having her teach you instead of making assumptions. Many men report what turns them on is being able to pleasure their partner, so make that a goal and your confidence level will be booming!”



“The first few times I slept with my now-girlfriend, it was a disaster. Partly because we were both very drunk, but also because I had this idea in my head that I needed to be inside her for at least 10 minutes before finishing. But we were doing it while wearing whiskey blankets, so I could never seem to get there, and it’d make for a really awkward ending to things, if you’re picking up what I’m putting down. Finally, on round three (when we were also more sober) she pretty much held me down, made me finish within minutes, and then showed me how to rub her to make her finish. We’ve been good ever since.”
–Steve,

3. As A “Performance”
Intercourse is a two-way effort (at least). If it wasn’t, you’d just be masturbating. The key to stop feeling pressure to perform is to stop viewing s*x as a performance where you’re the star – and that if you mess it up, it’s all on you. “Guys sometimes feel anxious about s*xual interactions because they think of s*x as something on which they’ll be judged,” says licensed marriage and family therapist Jill Whitney. “They may think they have to look or act like p#rn stars – and nothing could be further from the truth. Most p#rn is designed to appeal to men; what’s shown is not at all what’s appealing to most women. P#rn is a lousy template for a guy who wants to be a good lover.”
Feeling this way also leads men to detach themselves from the act in order to self-evaluate their performance as it’s happening. “If you’re feeling very self-conscious about s*x, you may find yourself ‘spectatoring’, or thinking so much about how the other person sees you that it’s almost as if you’re a spectator to the sex rather than a participant,” Whitney explains. “This is no fun for you, and probably not so great for your partner either, because she may sense that you’re not really there.”
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So, how can you kick this bad habit? “To avoid spectatoring and overthinking, relax into your body,” says Whitney. “Ease out of your spinning mind and into the sensations of being with the person you’re with. Notice the look and feel and taste of her. Notice how her body responds to you and how yours responds to her. You can build an awesome, positive spiral of noticing and responding that’s really s*xy.”

“I’m a reformed jack-hammerer. Meaning for all of the girls I slept with up until my current one, I did them hard and fast, like I was the star of a p#rno. In retrospect I feel bad about it, but looking back none of them ever asked for anything different, so I figured that what I was doing was okay. And I was getting off so, win-win, right? Then I met the girl I’m dating now, and she made me have s*x with her really slowly. I panicked the first time, because I was worried it wouldn’t feel as good, and that I wouldn’t be able to finish. But doing it that way was more intense of a build up, rather than trying to get there as hard and as fast as possible. I don’t look at it as a performance now, no. But if I did, she’s definitely the star.”
–Robbie,

4. Watch Your Appearance.....
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