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I've been depressed like for quite a long time with certain things going on in my life. Hence, I've been thinking of going on a weeks vacation. However, I wanted to go alone, but then I live with my mom and grand mom and I really don't feel like leaving them back here and going on for a holiday. Hence, I've decided to take them along too. So, I need some good suggestions on places where I could go. Probably some beach would be good. Also, my grand mom is reaching her 70's. She is diabetic and does have the regular old age problems. Traveling with her could actually be a bit risky. But, I really wanna go for this vacation. Hence, I need some tips and suggestions to take better care of her during the trip. However, I've found these tips online http://www.diamondpersonnel.com/family-blog/travelling-tips/5-things-to-consider-while-travelling-with-elderly/ and it seems pretty helpful too. But would really appreciate to get some more advice. Thanks in advance.

Hey guys! I have this guy in my work place, whom I'm really friends with. We talk to each other a lot and he's really very understanding. I really have started liking him a lot. I even told him how I feel for him. But he says he just wanna stay friends and that he doesn't feel anything more for me. But I just can't understand how. He calls me late night, he wants to talk to me when he is drunk, he remembers me whenever he is sad or happy. How can he not be in love with me, if he remembers me in every point of his life. However, he says that he is not and it's really getting difficult for me to remain just friends with him. I've even thought of not talking to him a lot of times. But then that would get things complicated. Hence, I'm just pretending to be normal and he too understands how difficult it's getting for me, so he is keeping his distance too. Well, obviously I'm not happy with that either. What do I do? Do you think he is really not in love with me or he is just pretending to be. However, he has had some past tough times in relationships and he somewhere does blame himself for it. I'm somewhere really heart broken. Need some advice.