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@bronx dog

I don't think you fully understand what being in a long term relationship truly means, so I'll forgive you for your harsh response. I was nothing short of great to this man, but sometimes that's not enough and sometimes it's too much. There are faults in every relationship, but we've worked it out for so long (6 years), so why run away now? He's all I've known. I think you would be more sensitive if you've been in my position, but good luck to you I hope you never have to feel this kind of pain (It feels like somebody died, but they didn't, they just up and left).

Well, the heartbreak sky is getting clearer and clearer, less painful clouds each day. I think I'm getting tired of being tired. I think I'll go back to work next week. If it was meant to be then he would be here with me. It's obvious that he isn't, so I guess it's not meant to be. I'm kicking myself for staying with him for so long. It should have hit me by the third year we were together that he wasn't ready to eternally commit to me. I've lost the meaning of love, it feels like nothing but pain and heartache. I'll keep you posted on my recovery. Thank you.

Thank you all for your caring responses. My heart is still aching. My daily emotions include crying, sobbing, wailing, then realizing it's all the same, but doing it all over again. How can someone hurt you so much? 6years of my life with him. I put in my all in a relationship that I thought was alive, only to find out it's been dead for quite some time. He called to see how my day was going? Is he kidding? What does he expect? Why is he playing with my emotions? I didn't speak to him. He left me a message on my answering machine. I wish this pain could go away. He was my first everything, first boyfriend, first love, and now I feel like he'll be my last love. How can I love again? Who can I trust myself to love again? Is the rest of mankind this heartless? I've never been so confused in my life. I'm smart, I have a great career, I'm cute, but I'm heartbroken. Why does being heartbreak make you feel so lifeless? Gosh, this is painful. You build a future in your mind with someone, and they take that picture and shoot it, and just like that, it disappears. I don't know what else to say folks, but for those that feel my pain, I'm sorry, nobody should go through this kind of pain, Thanks for posting.

I've been in a relationship for 6 years. I thought we were destined to be together forever i.e. marriage. I guess I was wrong, he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, and he's already dating someone else. I put my all in this relationship and have invested so many years only to be left at HELLO?! I'm confused. I'm not eating, I can barely sleep. I honestly feel like the world has come to a stand still. He said he just didn't see himself marrying me. It took him 6years to figure that out? Huh? So he says he wants to be friends. It's so hard. How can I act like I'm not in pain and be friendly? If anyone can advice I will greatly appreciate it. What have you done to heal? Did you stay friends with your ex? Please be kind with your words. I am overly sensitive to negative remarks at this time, so I kindly request warm responses. Thank you.