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delishpot:no he is a man he calls me on skype on video, I can call him when I want He has shown me his house, his things... when he goes to the beach he calls me on video because he knows I like the see. I was born on a island but now I live on the continent, in the mountains ![]() |
Aprime:I think you got the point |
imas:you know I told him I do not have money, just to avoid misunderstanding, as, unfortunately, your country is well known here because of that problem. I live on my own work that is very fascinating but nobody becomes rich with science as it belongs to the human kind, and so on .... but you are right, a greencard, for example, maybe always seen as a kind of reward... |
blublahd:I'll try to see how to move this there, I am not sure I know how to deal with it... anyway, "no man" was meant as you mean "any african mother wants to....." Also "any" European one likes to have grandchildren, but it is not a problem. Do you think it was funny for me when the doctors said that I had to undergo surgery and I would not have any children? I cried all my sorrow for years and it still hurts, but there are things that cannot be changed. |
Ipledge:nooooo, you are not too inquisitive ...... ![]() I have cooked the stock by myself I am not saying that my Egusi is perfect, i have done my best and I was proud, that's all I followed step by step a youtube video, after I watched 100s of them to understand exactly what I should buy and do... |
promsman12:I am sorry if I bothered you but it was not compulsory to read what I wrote not even to comment on it... |
Ipledge:Please you are very welcome ![]() anyway it is not that I wanted to speak about my cooking abilities.... ![]() |
blublahd:I am a physicist, I study new materials for electronics I need cultural knowledge, in my country no man has problems with the fact I cannot have children, adoption is seen as a good way to have a family since in my case not even the most advanced medicine can help. Regarding Egusi, I can buy Nigerian food in my city and look below my picture ![]() |
Ipledge:here we go, my camera is not that great but I was so proud that I took a picture. I have watched all possible youtube video on egusi preparation, and there is an African shop that sells Nigerian food in my city, thus, I got all ingredients. I wrote I am a scientist, I cannot lie, sorry, it is a professional influence.
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blublahd:Dear blublahd, thank you! I am "very true" and the story is true. I have not given all details (it would take a book... but it is a 100% true story) This is right the kind of answer I need. I need to understand but I do not have enough knowledge. I am still learning. However, one of the first things I understood is exactly the "child thing" you mentioned and this worries me a lot. This is also why I specified that point. |
Dear All, Ii took me a while to drop these two lines, but I need your opinion! In August I met on the internet a truly handsome Nigerian young man. We started exchanging mails and phone calls. Things were not that smooth at the beginning, but our "relationship" turned in something (maybe) more serious beginning of December. He is very nice, funny, I like to speak with him, and I feel "only too good" when he calls me and he wants to hear from me. Honestly, I think I am in love with him like a teenager ![]() I started to learn about his culture as much as I can, beyond what we get in our newspapers: I discovered a wonderful country, an incredibly fascinating culture, delicious food (I cooked my first Egusi soup a couple of weeks ago, I am very proud!). I have also learned a couple of Yoruba words. I am really trying to learn/understand as much as I can (music, cinema, history…). Of course, I also discovered this absolutely nice forum looking around for info about Nigeria.I am not famous, but I am a public person. I am a scientist, if I would give you two/three keywords about my work, you would find immediately my official homepage and know everything about me. So…Where is the point? I am European (white), older than him (I look pretty young but numbers are numbers), and I can't have children because of a past illness. Thus, when he says that he has true feelings for me and he would like to marry me if our relationship develops in the future, I feel uncomfortable. Although I would love that all this could become true. I told him I have never married anybody before. He said it is because it is destiny. I had to wait for him. Why destiny put the “supposed to be” man of my life so far away from me, it is certainly puzzling He said he told his family about me. If this is true, I would be the happiest woman on the world. I really have feelings for him and care a lot about him, but I do not see any perspectives for this "relationship". Plus, I am not sure he really likes me, maybe I am only a toy for him, or even worse So….just tell me what you think….I would really appreciate your opinion! THX |
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He said he told his family about me. If this is true, I would be the happiest woman on the world.