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Hello NL people,

The guy just revealed the main reason he go involved with me and why he left Naija. A lot of what he was saying is somethings I have heard from him before. I ma greatful for all your advices, you people are great oh!!!!!!

oniema

It really helps to hear other people's opions abi.

No wahala guy. Next time you visit South Africa drop me a mail.

Thank you

My dear being pregnat by default is: taking the morning after pill/emergency pill and the sperms can not respond to the pill. When you think you have prevented someting from happening but later you find it has happend.

190

I beg you in God's name, Dont call me names with all due respect.

Holydante

Ndo bras.

We dont shoulder our man's responsibilities, I will speak for myself. I believe that no humanbeing should be treted like an animal. My people are very accommodative that is all.

Many thanks for you advice, Dis Naija babe will grow to see more and best as strong as his people.

deniyor

Na woo for you.


oniema

1. Youll be responsible for his feeding ( food is just shit I dont mind)
2. youll clothe (Mba) and shelter him ( not an issue)
3. You'll see to the baby welfare( It is my own anyway, I will give it the best of my ablility)

4. you'll be the stepping stone to his papers and (Mba it will never come to pass unless if he uses juju on me)
5. He'll dump you with the baby and take his leave ( he can do that it is not the end of the world by the begining of a better me)

@ Omolola1,

Thank you my sister, after all it is for his baby, I can still protect myself since there so much laws in SA that propects women's rights and properties.

@deniyor bras I believe you did not look at my post but glinced abi. I have asked all the questions but I believe he is into me for the papers. Every man or woman how leaves his country of birth is looking for green pastures bras. So many request is that you people advice me on whether he is into me for the papers or monie a beg o.

Dalu

ndewo/E kaa ro

I am dating a Igbu guy for six months now, I got pregnant(his family in Naija is aware) by default and he accepted and requested that we keep the baby even though it was not part of our plan/mission. I have done a background check on him(like his real names, family, brothers, sisters, mother and if he has a wife) with the help of my Naija friend whose based in Naija. He requested his siter to send all his pictures including his ex-girlfriends and all the family members. The guy is not financial stable I am the sole provider in everything including his being(which I dont have a problem with that as I was aware of what I was putting myself into). He asked me to marry him which I have agreed on conditions that his mother or sister must be present during our wedding. He is a very loving, caring, reliable, respectful, kind hearted and handsome(I believe most Igbo guys are). My problem here is what if this man is into more than love with me(like papers, money and etc). How would I know that he is sincere. Asking him is just out of line since he might say what I want to hear not what his plans are. I dont mind him being honest with me. Like just say what is it you want with me.

I believe you people will help me with advises

Dalu.