Celebrities › Re: Video Of Jane Emoka Lesbian Sex Leaks, Lady Behind Miss Anambra Cucumber Sextape by loadedvibes: 8:11am On May 17, 2017 |
Lol.. anambra people |
Career › Re: MTN NG Salary Structure: Salary Of MTN Nigeria Telecommunications Plc by loadedvibes: 7:14am On May 16, 2017 |
How many full staff them get ? |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe: "Even The Devil Can't Stop Me" by loadedvibes: 1:58pm On May 15, 2017 |
Go collect |
Crime › Re: Co-tenant Slaps Nursing Mother To Death by loadedvibes: 1:53pm On May 15, 2017 |
Chineke see slap. But e no go good o.. if on the last day people they talk wetin kill them person come out say na slap kill am. |
Crime › Re: White Woman Scatters Nigerian Woman's Goods In Her Shop In Dublin (Video) by loadedvibes: 12:59pm On May 15, 2017 |
Lol |
Business › Re: Naira Strengthens, Gains N2 Against Dollar by loadedvibes: 7:44am On May 12, 2017 |
Lol. Gently let's keep it going.. we go soon hit 1naira to 1usd |
Technology Market › Re: Pristine Macbook Pro 8gb,2.9ghz,i7,800gb For Sale!!!! by loadedvibes: 1:12pm On May 09, 2017 |
Lol 2012 mac book pro for 370k lol.. this seller na comedian o. |
Career › Re: Be Mindful Of The Words You Use by loadedvibes: 10:35am On May 05, 2017 |
Notbb |
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife Storms Rivers 4 Traditional Rulers Day Of Golden Jubilee Celebration by loadedvibes: 10:46am On May 03, 2017 |
Ooni news now making headlines |
Celebrities › Re: Will Smith Son Jaden Smith Goes With His Hair As A ‘date’ To The 2017 Met Gala by loadedvibes: 6:27pm On May 02, 2017 |
Naso craze dey start o |
Celebrities › Re: Basketmouth Wife, Elsie Place Heavy Curses On Side Chicks by loadedvibes: 6:26pm On May 02, 2017 |
Lol.. go on |
Celebrities › Re: Ghanaian Man Drowns Nigerians With This!! by loadedvibes: 6:24pm On May 02, 2017 |
Epic response. New King of savagery detected |
Culture › Re: Emir Sanusi Lamido Shares His Payslip To Debunk N12Million Salary (Photo) by loadedvibes: 1:11pm On May 02, 2017 |
Na wa o.. 1.2m |
Food › Re: How Do You Like Your Garri by loadedvibes: 6:47am On May 02, 2017 |
This garri too expensive na.. this is not the normal garri |
Crime › Re: I Make N15k Daily But Haven't Sent A Dime To My Wife -fake Policeman by loadedvibes: 10:15pm On May 01, 2017 |
Protecting your wife huh |
Events › Re: Facebook User's Weird Birthday Message To His Friend, Calls Him "Fool" by loadedvibes: 9:32pm On May 01, 2017 |
Baba this is serious k |
Celebrities › Re: Soldiers Beat Comedian Arinze Baba In Enugu (Photos) by loadedvibes: 9:25pm On May 01, 2017 |
Lol naija soldier no get chills o |
Music/Radio › Re: Adekunle Gold - Work (official Video) by loadedvibes: 12:01pm On May 01, 2017 |
Is he still with ybnl |
Education › Re: Civil Defence Corps Arrest Man And His Wife Paid 600K To Hack JAMB Network by loadedvibes: 9:51am On May 01, 2017 |
Can you teach me this.. |
Romance › Re: Lady 'Destroys' Man's Manhood As They Dance In Weird Manner (Video) by loadedvibes: 10:50pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Lol.. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Steps Out For Church Service Amid Domestic Violence Brouhaha (Pics) by loadedvibes: 2:56pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
All this fine girls always dey end up with shitty husbands |
Nairaland General › Re: Lady Escapes From A Big Python In Edo (Photos) by loadedvibes: 10:24am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Hehehe |
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Members Paying Tithes With POS Inside Church (Photos) by loadedvibes: 8:38pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
So what? I dont get your point.. if you can give it in cash why not also go cashless .. your money is your money and giving is giving which ever forms it takes |
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife Chills With Oba Of Elegushi After Being Snubbed By Oba Of Lagos.PIC by loadedvibes: 5:42pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Wait is anybody seeing that guy holding a staff and sitting on the floor.. na person papa be that o.. Chai |
Celebrities › Re: Freeze Secures Bail Of Arrested Mother Of 3, Pays One Year Rent by loadedvibes: 11:22am On Apr 28, 2017 |
Him go soon come social media come gloat just now.. |
Technology Market › Re: NCC Confirms Mtn's Payment Of Another 30 Billion Naira by loadedvibes: 9:09am On Apr 27, 2017 |
Lol.. mtn go run o |
Christianity Etc › Re: Police Rent Out Station To Church For Service In Lagos (pic) by loadedvibes: 5:54pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Good thing I swear |
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Was At COZA As Benny Hinn Ministers (Photos) by loadedvibes: 10:00am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Naso... |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Lady Who Twists & Bends Her Body Into Strange And Unnatural Positions by loadedvibes: 3:39pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Mumu mumu talents na full this naija.. how this one take help naija move forward na ? |
Celebrities › Re: Ex- Big Brother Naija Housemate, Gifty Shares Nude Photo by loadedvibes: 9:52am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Share Your Challenges As A First-born by loadedvibes: 12:05am On Apr 19, 2017 |
Maychang: I've been doing a lot of thinking lately, the challenges and how tough it has been as a first born child.
I often heard that many of us go through a lot of challenges which could be fustrating and sometimes, lead to depression.
I also know a handful of my kind who have found it hard in every area of Life- Job, Marriage... infact all areas of life.
I remember how hard it was to scale through secondary school- i remember staying at home for 2 terms for school fees. Even gaining admission to the university was very tough- it was just as though the devil was so interested in my case. After years of struggling , I finally gained admission to the university with many challenges as well.
Now, to the Glory of God Im out of school, Nysc certified, patching up with a small scale company- yet i dont feel satisfied with what Life has offered me. I feel cheated and its annoying when you have to struggle to get jobs with youths who had graduated at age 20/21... and you are just there looking for vacancies that has no age barrier.
My pastor once said i needed to pray well because the devil targets the first born of the family. he said i had to run to God to rescue me. Well...I did pray for many years but things are worse.
I look at my younger brother sometimes and see how well things went for him; most times without stress. I look at other families as well and see how the younger ones are faring well compared to the Eldest. Its really depressing.
Why is Life not fair to us? Op I think you need God.. been a first born doesn't have to hard.. are you born again ? |
Politics › Re: Rescued Chibok School Girls Resume Classes, Share Their Dreams And Aspirations by loadedvibes: 2:10pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
This people too fresh to be chibok na |