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Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 6:04pm On Sep 08, 2009

sexyLeamon:
pls explain in depth

my bf and i were neighbours we started our relation 6 years back , now am 24 n he is 26. i gave him all the love and he too show that he is to be trusted .i got married 2007 , under family pressure to a man 10 years older than me, surly he is not my dream man even my bf blessed this marriage for his unability to open house and marry me, for the past 2 years i shared my sex life with my bf mostly till just recently when he sent this bad news to me through a text.i couldnt beleive it first but it was a reality, he never asked for any thing in compansation again jut threating me to send fotos and clips to my husband .once he told me that he wants all my jewelery and money ,i can give my jewelery but where is the money coming from , my husband is a business man but give a little every day to care for the house , there is no saving at all and this is what i told him, after that he never asked me ,he might be waiting for my offer.

Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 8:14am On Sep 08, 2009

THE AMAKA:
seriously, hold up!!
im really starting to think why people get married anymore.
is it pressure from aging, pressure from parents/family, pressure from your spouse?
if you cant trust him, WHY ARE YOU MARRIED?
some people are always doubting their lover after marriage, even after the marriage has JUST taken place.
i mean, are you serious?

there was another thread of a girl saying that her husband was sleeping with his ex and that he still texts her and such, and he doesnt want to cut off contact with her. and he is STILL SLEEPING WITH HER.
the female knew about this ongoing relationship with the ex PRIOR to the marriage. and she STILL MARRIED HIM.

well ,i never have the time or never care if my husband was cheating on me , it was pressure from parents to marry coz we r 4 girls in the house and as usual one after another and hurridly, my bf ws a great boy and lot of girls was chasing him and i taught i was lucky till i fall. even a lot of married ladies and by jokes some time they passs news of going out with bf and u know there is a lot of them ,some are seriously responsible ladies. only lucky ones survives, till now no body answer me what to do rather than telling my hubby.

Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 10:30pm On Sep 07, 2009

this ever happen to a lady like me?

Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 10:28pm On Sep 07, 2009

ifyalways:
where are u from,where do u stay and where is the loverboy from

am not nigerian but west african not far from u , one hour flight , the so called lover is my country man.

Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 5:35pm On Sep 07, 2009

agathamari:
what would piss off your hubby more. you telling himhonestly what happend or you ling about it when he sees the tapes. if you love your husband tell him or are you only sorry about the fact you got caught?

my only sorry is trusting that man , am just playing on time , it started a month ago , no way to tell hubby there is no courage .not even discuss that with my closer friends even family. am using this thread just b,coz we dont know each other ,

Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 8:01am On Sep 07, 2009

yes he is threating to send the film to my husband, i trusted the so called lover but i was not aware of camera in the room, how can my huband see me in such position telling <lover> that my husband not good in bed, sometimes i have the courage to tell him b,coz lot of ladies felt in this trap , hope one of the trapped to encourage me.

Family › Re: Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 1:02am On Sep 07, 2009

chaircover, will u tell him if that occured during marriage undecided

Family › Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 2:13pm On Sep 06, 2009

married ,what can u do if blackmailed by lover with sex films and fotos? huh

Romance › Married And Blackmailed By Lover: by loleeta199(op): 2:01pm On Sep 06, 2009

married and your lover is blackmailing you with sex films and fotos .who you will do?

Family › Re: Cheating Mum. by loleeta199(f): 1:11pm On Sep 06, 2009

if u alone know that, just keep silent,

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