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Ephort:
As someone who's married and divorcing now, see my added nuggets:
1. Avoid girls from broken homes. They come with loads of trauma. I learnt the had way.
2. Avoid girls who hate their fathers, even if the man is irresponsible. You'll soon join their fathers' club.
3. Avoid girls who disrepect you. Treat her minutest disrespect as a bloody red flag.
4. Body count matters. Avoid girls with loads of escapades. Avoid girls with unresolved attachment to their exes. Avoid girls who insist on keeping male besties.
5. Lastly, most people don't improve after marriage. Red flags multiply after marriage.

All points seconded. Also, for a lady to tuly be under the authority of Jesus cannot be overemphasized. I mean truly o, and not pastor...I said Jesus.

It may be postpartum depression. She may need to use some counseling before prison.

I agree with you! I've often thought of it. It's the exchange of saliva that amazes me the most!

Politician par excellence. I wished though that the metrics of development align with his political prowess.

Haaa! 22 Year old vehicle? Fiaar godu ooo

Hmmmm.

Badb0y4lyf:
I will buy normal 2015 G63 and two houses in Lekki with that money na you know where you Dey speed go with Brabus Benz is Benz.

See as the car look like land rover...e nor even fine sef...

Talismann:
well anyone is free to term it what they may,but I won't be there to console anyone who marries a lady with daddy induced injuries and pains when the problem starts.

It definitely brings problems.

Personally, I don't plan on using my lifetime to help anyone cure issues they couldn't solve for themselves.

Fishes so so abundant in the river.

Thirded!

zoedew:
When a man is your sunshine it is bound to get dark very soon! Sooner than expected!

How about when a woman is your sunshine?

Talismann:
when we tell men to avoid marrying a girl raised by a single mum, it seems we are wicked.

They may tell you their father was a demon, trust me even if he is a demon, that is not a girl you should marry. Why? Because her mom will have filled her with hate towards men and trust me, you don't wanna settle with a woman who has daddy issues.

It never ends well for the man.

You may chose to pity her and marry her out of pity, but your life will be a wreck. You cannot escape it Mr man.

Edit: it even goes deeper than avoiding a girl who was raised by a single mum. Even if both parents are together and the mother calls the shots in the house and you notice the father doesn't have a voice, better run for your life Mr man. It will end in premium tears for you if you marry a girl from such setup.

Doubt this at your own d00m

Seconded; but at the risk of supporting a stereotype!

LoneSoldier:
There is no life more sweeter than a bachelor's life....

From the way I see this, the woman's family is cursed, it is a hereditary syndrome at play here.... Imagine for four years the woman has been giving this innocent man discomfort all in the name of marriage....

Tufiakwa....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

Yet, bachelor's will be rushing to be tied. It's why Paul would say, "it is better not to marry...but if you must..."

Dogalmighty17:
There is only one rule. Never get involved with any woman not in good terms with her father or any woman whose father left the mom.
She will be a contentious woman to you and will make your marriage hell. They are naturally rebellious and will take out that anger of not having a father around on you.

That one dey...except the one wey truly know Jesus. I said truly o.

Caaz:
One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

No....that's a wrong generalization!

lordm:
Leave a wayward life alone

This is the foundation! But many would leave the cause and focus on the symptoms.

kolnel:
The actions taken by the Trump administration are justified. Students must conduct themselves responsibly both on campus and outside of academic settings. Harvard should have taken a firm stance against protesters who engaged in violence and disrupted the educational environment. Peaceful protests are acceptable outside school grounds, but disrupting classes and inciting violence is a clear abuse. It remains to be seen how Harvard will handle and recover from this situation.

Seconded! However, I don't have faith in his motives.

Senate, Rep, where is the bill?

Vawulence

The ideal!

If truly it is a HolyGhost led crusade, although she went there as Iya Osun, she ought to leave as a born-again sister, as it was with the church of Peter after Pentecost!

Hmmmmm....🤐

I think I like Wike...he understands the terrain.

nairalanda1:
Statement does not make sense.

He will remove criminality in subsidy... then remove subsidy?

If he removes the criminality, the logical assumption is that he would keep the subsidy then

Either way, subsidy had to go. If we kept subsidy as it was in say 2011, by now it would be eating 90% of our budget....

When a mad man asked him to contest, what were you expecting?

AngelahFlo:
Hello Nairalanders,
I'm just curious about what strategy this APC guys have up their sleeve concerning the forthcoming 2027 elections. I'm quite sure it's not the strategy used in 2023 as that won't fly this time around. The floor is open. What strategy do you think will be employed this time around.

Going by your topic, I'm somewhat curious. So one can become President simply by saying "emilokan"! Wow... aren't you interested in becoming one? All you have to do is say "emilokan"!

Jashub:
Why is the fault always from the man...why don't you clowns ever tell women how to behave like women and be intimate with their partners? Nonsense

Exactly!

Halo22:
And u know most of the things you mentioned cannot be all in tact.

Those are the conditions. If she doesn't have any of them, it won't happen.