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love isnt about money though, but you still need money to keep it going and moreover you dont have to be a bill gate No,when you make your financial status known to the woman she tends to understand where you are coming from and where you are going to..

KissChrix:
If the girl no fit manage you, She can get the fvck off

you dont have to my brother just be the real you. thats why you shouldnt lie about your financial status.

KissChrix:
The girl go con dey make demands wey you no fit reach


You go con dey find money about?

4. MONEY...Money problems can start even before vows were exchanged. They can build up from the expenses of courtship or high cost of wedding.Money can stand between marriages and relationships for no just reason and things will not most definetely goes well with the couples.
SOLUTIONS
1.Be honest about your financial status.
2.understand that one partner might be a spender while the other a saver.
3.never hide income or debt. bring financial documents to the table and try to solve together
4. Do not blame
5.let each person to have
independence by setting aside money to be spend at his or her discretion.
6.Decides who pays some bills at the end of the month
7.Talk about your aged parents and try to set aside money for their up
keeps.


5. HOME CHORES;Most partners work from time to time and most time do more than one job or hours spent are longer.
so it is important to divide on who does this and who does that.
SOLUTIONS
1.Be clear on your respective job at home write it down so that there wont be resentments.
2.Be open to each others and find solutions together.


6. NOT MAKING YOUR UNION A PRIORITY. If you want to make your marriage a good one and make the love life going well,you should not end when you say i do so make yours a priority. You have to find it,keep it and make it last.
SOLUTIONS
1.Do things you do when you are dating,give compliments ,appreciate each other,
and show how much you care.
2.Plan dates,make sure you take her out ,to the mall,cafe,cinemas and so on,rekindle the union/
3. Respect one another,say thank you and show appreciation, it makes your partner knows they really matter/


7. CONFLICTS..Conflicts is part of life and they should be occasional,you should know how to handle situation,do
not give rooms for blames cos it worsens the conflicts,.

SOLUTIONS
1.Understand you are not a victim,its ones choice whether to react or how to react.
2.Be honest,d onot let your comments trigger the anger of your partner when you are trying to resolve issues and do not look for payback times.
3.Change your views,do not react to every thing or what has brought unhappiness in the marriage.
4.Give little and get more.. apologise when you wrong though its hard but it can make things work out fine.

[b][/b]1; COMMUNICATION.;Relationship problems start from poor communication. You cannot communicate while checking your phones or flipping through sport channels or watching TV.
SOLUTIONS
1 make actual appointments with each other..if you live together,put the cell phones on vibrate,the kids to bed.
2 try not to interrupt until your partner is through talking and ban phrases like,you always or you never.3.use body language to show you are listening,do not check your watch,nod so that your partner will know you are getting the message and you can rephrase for him or her to know you are with them.

2; SEX; Even partner that stays together can be a mismatch,SEXUALLY. having sex is one of the last thing you should give up,sex brings couples together,it releases hormones that helps our body both mentally and physically right,and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy.
SOLUTION.
1.Learn what turns you and your partner on,and coming up with personal sex list.
2.plan. not necessarily means at night when everyone is tired,it may be a quickie in the morning or afternoon or better stil take the kids to grandmas on Fridays for sleepovers. when sex is on the calendar,i mean been plan,you tends to anticipate for it,why not have sex in the kitchen,standing by the window and lots more,it rekindles your love life.
3.visit a counselor,if you cant solve it on your own.

we will talk much about the others later.

Moreover the only form of birth control is ABSLINENCE ,it works but accidents can happen.

lovedoctor1:
Lol,u see,girls are funny,just like what you said. It is very possible for a woman to get pregnant if they havent reached menopause..but women nowadays just take the risk by not using contraceptive and when they eventually get pregnant,they tell you unwanted pregnancy...Whaooo,Unwanted indeed,they get carried away by been in love and most especially some men dont even agree with them using protective measures.

Lol,u see,girls are funny,just like what you said. It is very possible for a woman to get pregnant if they havent reached menopause..but women nowadays just take the risk by not using contraceptive and when they eventually get pregnant,they tell you unwanted pregnancy...Whaooo,Unwanted indeed,they get carried away by been in love and most especially some men dont even agree with them using protective measures.

Efegbog:
I hear so many girls say..."I have an unwanted pregnancy". Please shut up. What is unwanted there?.When you were having sex without a condom, were you expecting a deep freezer or a table fan?

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[/quote][i][/i][quote author=ybalogs post=51027923]So help you God.

its about making up relationships.

lovedoctor1:
what we do is we rekindle broken relationships and marriages..Just letting you understand how relationships can go down the drain even if you think you are with the best person.

what we do is we rekindle broken relationships and marriages..Just letting you understand how relationships can go down the drain even if you think you are with the best person.

ybalogs:
You're still not communicating .

Relationships tussles..




Most relationships have got their ups and downs.At the beginning,you try to impress someone,we dress up,make up and talk sweet. Everything seems pleasant and we think we are at the best and you think thats the ideal person for you. But as time goes on we tend to see ourselves more and more,maybe she doesnt fix her hairdo well,or dont do some cleanups at home ,and so on…..at the end of the whole scenario,we tend to have problems in that relationship or marriage. Harsh word are thrown at each other,and a whole lot of things get blown up. You just got to look at the whole union if this person is who you want to be with,considering the good times you have spent together,why you have been together and see how you can have a discusion and turn things around for good again. If you can get over the roughs and ups and down,it gets better,but if otherwise,you just got to go different ways.


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