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Please has anyone used or using Shape U corset enlighten me a little because I want to buy one for my belle. does it really help to reduce belle fat and how does it work? Thanks

SAMBARRY:
of course I'm calm E just be like say the spirit of Stoopedity just possesses some women after marriage

Where is this your anger and bitterness leading you to because I can't even get you one bit. All I see here is your insult upon insult, is that the way to advise someone. I taught I have problem but I see the one that pass mine. Good day ma

Platnum1:
Lovelymam,
Sorry u feel this way. he wants u at home. I suggest u either act like u have forgotten all abt it,make him feel happy until one day u catch him in a jolly good mood after eating his favourite,then u be llike "honey,can u blv d wonderful dream I had abt a shop that was just attracting customers....."
The second option is that u work from home.u can make puff puff or moi moi or zobo,or queen cakes,appoint a sales girl who will come pick it up fRom home n market for u then u pay her a salary. This too need permission from ur husband.

We women can complain but just try to control/stop it. Be his safe haven.
All the best.

My dear I have pass that stage of moi moi puff puff. He is capable of a good business but he don't want until the last kid who is still in PG class enter secondary can you imaging that. All he want is for me to sit at home before you know it I will become mama iyabor mbanu. Being woman does not make us less human from men but sure to accord them their respect.

lrguru:
Once any lady comes here cryin foul with this kind of story, one thing comes to my mind; She's not tellin d truth and she's a trouble maker. Their stories are always one sided, they never say what they did wrong and always paint the man as the vile one. OP, first change your ways.

I wish you know me more than this. I wish he will also open up for the world to judge me. I may b making a mistake which I may not know until you tell me.

Mynd44:
1. This is a one sided story. Are you sure your actions have not contributed to his actions?

2. I doubt you did not notice traces of this in him but that's past, it has happened

3. You said he does not allow you work...please explain that. If you can raise capital to get a new shop what would he do?

4. Have you tried other forms of resolving the crisis? Like try to be a lot more sexy bla bla bla

5. Perhaps you should stop being bitter and depressed when you want to talk to him. Cook a nice meal, freshen up, no tears, be all smiles and wear that sexy thing he likes, give him that sexual experience he wants and and not ask for what you want...do that three times that table your questions

6. Has there been situations in recent times when you both are good and all smiles or it has always been like this?

My husband is not a talking type he likes keeping it to himself and is not helping the matter. How can you know when things go wrong if he didn't open up. I'm not a lazy type. I had a business centre before it was demolished. I know I may b stubborn at early stage of marriage of which every newly married couple experience that but not any more. All my prayer everyday is God change my weaknesses. May b I'm giving him too much attention. All I want is to engage myself with something again but he refused that since I started staying at home with kids that they hardly fall sick. Yes he pays monthly salary but money is not my problem. Respect me a little please. All I want is a happy home. I want to work again, I want to be financial independent. Let me go out like other women instead of sitting at home everyday. I'm not used to this kind of lifestyle no one knows tomorrow as you know an idle mind is devil's workshop. I'm I asking for too much.

Note: nairaland is a faceless forum before I come here I believe to get the help I need of which if I keep on lieing it won't help me in any way because I know I'm doing myself. Thanks

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