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ihavesense:
Listen to your father.
He knows what he is seeing in that Yoruba Muslim man. If you foolishly get married into that family, you will regret it. Love is still intoxicating you sha.

God please don’t let us bring in children that will bring disgrace to us.
Imagine an uncircumcised philistine getting your daughter pregnant outside wedlock. Tufiakwa! I can imagine your father’s grief!

ihavesense:
Listen to your father.
He knows what he is seeing in that Yoruba Muslim man. If you foolishly get married into that family, you will regret it. Love is still intoxicating you sha.

God please don’t let us bring in children that will bring disgrace to us.
Imagine an uncircumcised philistine getting your daughter pregnant outside wedlock. Tufiakwa! I can imagine your father’s grief!

Stevenbright:
What is happening to his finances?

Is he a business man whose business is slowing down? If yes, try to factor out why and suggest ways by which he can revitalize his business.

Is he a salary earner who seems not to understand how his finances are dwindling faster than expected? Analyze his recent expenses or habits that are causing the financial drain. Advice him accordingly to clear his doubt and free his mind from that illusion.

PJtech:
Drop your wish for this Christmas celebration you might be lucky to get it. Anonymous is passing

Mine: My wish is to bring something to the table this year Christmas for my family. But as it is now i may not go home for Christmas make i no go dey count plates lol 🤣

10kg of rice 22k
Chicken 18k

calabaman:
You could join our married people's group.

Seeking more members so we can discuss pertinent issues such as this and more:

My WhatsApp no: 080371369.21, chat me so I may add you.

calabaman:
This is sad.

As a Christian, discuss this with an elder in your church.

And move on prayerfully.

With time, he would come around.

calabaman:
Never disregard a father's blessing.

Please take my advice and seek and elders counsel whom your father listens to.

Marriage or being in a relationship is hard enough even without parents blessings.

Imagine if they don't agree.... #Wahala

It's just my dad tho my mom supports the relationship I'm just tired of the whole separation thing it even went as far as him telling me to move my things to the other room (that's my boyfriend) but my guy's people has gone to see my dad he's still not accepting he wanted me to do an abortion not minding if i loose my life yes my father said so that he doesn't care if i die while aborting he doesn't want to bring Shame to his family according to him and you said i should not disregard him when I've tried haba I'm human na I don't even have an elder in question what then do i do

Argue for it citing your baby and a united home.

calabaman:
Cc nfplmod

But I think the onous is on you.

Your father doesn't like him for obvious reasons:
> He is yoruba and you, Igbo.. (archaic reasoning)
> He is Muslim and you are not. (my Muslim buddies are my best buddies)

You are the one in the relationship, not your dad (FYI)

My advice Get an elder who your dad respects and listens to and confide in that elder, who will talk to your dad.

Our parents e.g Toonubu need advisors, who will mention modern ways of dealing with issues. The same goes to your father.

lavylilly:
Merry Christmas 🌲

arkad139:
I have spare 50k that I want to dash to one person