₦airaland Forum

Yankiss:
Your views are outlandish. In spite of everything, people stil marry and post decades of marriage anniversary. Marrying a virgin isnt an easy task and dosent guarantee fidelity. I know those who maried as virgins but posed a serious problem later, wanting to explore life they missed in girlhood. Inexperienced girl is very difficult to manage. You wont understand this. Some girls that have seen it all tend to be more faithful in marriage because nothing really moves them. Marriage is about LUCK. Take it or leave it. What works for Couple A might sink couple B.

You just can't help being absolute with your reasoning. Again, I never claimed marrying a virgin guarantees fidelity. I'm speaking in a general sense but there are always exceptions.

If you're claiming sexual experience before marriage makes a lady fall deeper in love, more faithful and less likely to cheat than a virgin you're the outlandish one here.

Yankiss:
You are really funny and nihilistically so. Like all facets of life, Marriage is not perfect or meant to be so. In spite of chaos, infidelity and distrust people still marry and live happily ever after.

As with everything in life my perspective is not absolute so I'm not sure how you got the impression that I expect perfection out of marriage. I simply stated the objective risk of marrying a non virgin not marriage in general.

If I'm funny and nihilistically so, "live happily ever after" makes you funny and naively so. Life is net neutral at best and only net positive to delusional people. A man's role is to protect and provide not seek happiness.

lamentor78:
You are not a serious human being, how many people earns 500k monthly, go to school teachers in public schools and see their earnings

This mindset is exactly why Nigerian politicians don't care. So as long as people are worse off than him the inflation doesn't matter and he's unserious?

It's like politicians saying other countries are worse than Nigeria so we should be grateful even if they embezzle money and undermine the democratic process.

We need to stop glorifying suffering like it's a certificate of honour. Modern society and technology was envisioned by humans who wanted a better and easier way of life.

BeeBeeOoh:
The Op has proven beyond every reasonable doubt that he's still suffering from Juvenile Delinquency.

Try to read up on the meaning of words before typing.

"Juvenile delinquency refers to unlawful or antisocial behavior committed by minors who have not yet reached the statutory age of majority, which is typically 18. These are actions that would be classified as crimes if carried out by an adult, such as theft, vandalism, or assault".

You're welcome.

Panda7:
Well, I understand your painment I mean your mom already cheated on your dad with her sweethearts but is it enough reason why you shouldn't be birthed? As for me, I accept God's will in my life that anyway I had to be birthed. As for DNA, note one could posses and carry traits of uncles, aunts, grandparents etc of either couple.

Lastly, na you dey find person girlfriend/wife attractive why you no go fear for your life?

Your first statement insulting my mom tells me everything about your upbringing, character and intelligence. There's no point indulging you further.

Odogwunajos:
All these small small children who managed to afford an Android phone will just be spewing gibberish. You for give this same advice to your papa nah.

Senior man, please share your elderly wisdom.

Panda7:
Do make person collect your girl marry whether you go smell her pants again.

What do you think will be the outcome if all men did mandatory DNA test on their kids?

Your statement "Do make person collect your girl marry" already validates my point that women can be taken.

But clearly you have blind faith. No worrry your eye go soon clear

Yankiss:
Woman don do this one strong thing. Bro, grieve alone. Leave us to marry in peace

Look up the divorce rate as women increasingly get empowered and promiscuous. Marriage only made sense when women were virgins. Now you're paying bride price for a lady that at least 3 guys have put in different sex positions and she has moaned hard for. She has probably given them head and other nasty doings too.

During that your marriage preparation be on alert incase one of those 3 guys try to tempt and seduce her because they know her weak point. Lastly, remember no matter how well a woman gets over her previous sex patners there's always at least one that gave her an unforgettable sex experience that you simply can't match.

One more thing, remember the more sexual experience a woman has the lower her chances of falling deeply in love with you due to emotionally damage and broken trust. Anyway, if you don't marry virgin whatever you do try to save money for DNA test because one those 3 guys I mentioned will likely come back to finish work.

Kaczynski:
Every day you see men bankrupting themselves renting cars, wearing native wear they can't afford, and throwing cash around just to simulate viability a path-etic, high overhead game and if you play it, you are letting a broken culture dictate your settings.

In a society where almost everyone is lying about their bank account, their devotion to a sky deity and their social standing, absolute and brutal honesty is a shock. You don't have to impress her. You state what you want, you show you aren't desperate, and you remain indifferent to her response.

If she’s looking for a guy to buy her hair extensions and pay her rent, you should walk away. Hopefully your system just filtered out resource drain. But if she has any actual intelligence, your lack of performative bummer will stand out like a cli in a sea of ads.

Most men have been brainwashed to believe life without a wife or children for legacy is miserable but in reality that mindset just gives women power. Nature simply didn't intend for every man to reproduce and even then only child maternity is known for certain.

Truth is if your joy and fulfillment depends on a woman you're playing with fire because feminine nature is unpredictable. It's best to accept their nature and edge the risk with multiple women or simply avoid the game and focus on a personal life project.

The reality is women are largely driven subconsciously hence why most are not aware of and won't accept their unreliable nature. As long as we treat women like oxygen they will continue to have unrealistic demands and increasingly disrespect/derail men.

Ikennaford:
Most of y'all here are dumb, if you using wig, iPhone, make up to equate "not in her league issh" you gat no value as a man

The crazy part we fail to realize as men is that we give women everything including offspring. Ever wondered why nature makes paternity uncertain?

DNA test is absurd no matter how you look at it. It's either the child is yours meaning you wasted money or the child isn't yours meaning you also wasted money.

So the idea of a woman being out of your league is laughable because they mostly offer nothing certain while you give them everything certain.

Even their beauty is artificial and uncertain nowadays.

One thing I have realized with experience is that women don't necessarily make you happy as a man. I'll admit sex is a major stress relief especially to ease frustration. However, they will stress you emotionally or/and financially in return.

You're better off channeling energy and hard earned money into a personal hobbies. It's better to relate with women from a place of abundance because female attraction is the effect of being the best version of yourself in my opinion.

essentialone:
It sounds like you’ve been burned bad. When someone drains you mentally, emotionally, and financially, it’s easy to start seeing the whole gender as the problem.

But let’s slow it down for a second:

What’s real in what you said:
Some women will use a man. Same way some men use women. Some people see relationships as transactions – what can I get, how fast can I move to the next person. If you’ve run into a few of those, it scars you and makes every woman look like a threat.

Where it breaks:
Saying “every woman’s primary objective is to destroy men” doesn’t hold up. Your mom, sister, female friends – if they fit that description, you’d already be destroyed. Most women are out there working, struggling, loving, getting played by men too. The bag/shoes/makeup thing is real for some, but it’s not the operating system for all 4 billion women on earth.

The trap:
If you go into life seeing women as enemies, you’ll either:
1. Isolate and stay angry, or
2. Attract exactly the type of woman who confirms that belief – because hurt people, are easy to manipulate.

The men who “wake up and know peace” aren’t the ones who swore off women. They’re the ones who got better at spotting red flags, setting boundaries with money, and not confusing lust or validation with love. They spend on women who reciprocate effort, not on anyone who smiles at them.

Writing off all ladies, won’t give you peace – it’ll just give you bitterness, with wrinkled face.

Try and smile often. You will be okay las las.

His point isn't that women consciously try to destroy men but their nature to prioritize individual happiness makes them destructive to a man that believes women are resilient and accountable the way men are.

A men will die for the right cause even when it's painful. The only time women exhibit such loyalty is towards their offspring as evident in nature. So in my opinion the only real love a man can experience is motherly love and perhaps sisterly love.

No doubt women are beautiful creatures but their love and loyalty at the end of the day is tied to either survival or/and how happy you make them feel. The moment she feels unsafe or/and dissatisfied she's only going to stick around if there's no better or reliable alternative.

However, it's not a reason to hate or avoid women. The problem is men allow feelings to cloud their judgement about true feminine nature and those men are almost always vulnerable to destruction by women. We see it happening everywhere even to celebrities and respectable men.

To summarize my long talk, from history men deny themselves happiness and even risk survival for a bigger cause far more than women do. A woman will almost always choose survival and happiness of herself and offspring over a man. As long as you don't lose sight of that reality as a man women are lovely creatures.

Babatunjo:
Show interest. That is all.

If she likes you she will let you know. Women are not complicated when they actually want you. The signs are clear. The access is easy. Everything flows.

If she is playing games, step back without resentment. Take that energy and pour it back into yourself. Your work. Your money. Your peace.

Because here is the thing nobody tells young men. The version of you that stopped chasing and started building is the same version that women will pursue.

Another woman who actually wants you will always show up. And she will make it easy.

Valid advice. But sometimes men don't like the type of women that want them. Most eye catching ladies have alot of attention so even focusing on building yourself might not be enough to attract them easily. You will likely have to make some effort to be visible because they have options.

But back to your advice the smoothest path is to focus on personal development and pick out of women that show interest.

azpekuliar:
There’s nothing wrong with a naturally aspirated BMW E90 model (2007 to 2011). No mislead anybody.

I stand by my earlier position. Reason being removal of oil dipstick and sudden electric water pump failure in e90. e46 is goated for a reason.

tobenuel:
If no be for procreation and leisure, to hold body and soul together, man no really need woman o

You don't need women for leisure just procreation.

Wealthoptulent:
pencil na rugged car, corolla is jus over hyped!

BMW ios the best for a MAN!
i have used all this BRAND, i used BMW 3 times now, i have used 2002, 2006 Camry, LEXUS CT 200 Corolla 2019, dealt with Camry 2008, highlander and Matrix and i am HAPPY to RETURN to BMW
so think well bfr YOU come TACKLE mi

Bmw is fine as long as you don't go past 2005. I use e46, its actually reliable if you're observant. But nothing beats Toyota's peace of mind in terms of parts and mechanic availability.

Angelfrost:
Stop handing out drivers' licenses like they are birthrights.

Make driving education and passing of road tests compulsory and treat it with every force of the law.

An average Nigerian driver doesn't know how to drive... I keep saying this!

Even more than half of traffic bottlenecks are caused by this poor driving attitudes and lawlessness.

A friend of mine told me he stopped praying for "Journey mercies" the day he started living and commuting abroad

Another lady said she never knew driving could be fun and SAFE till she relocated and started driving in Europe.


Something is seriously wrong with many of you Nigerians living in Nigeria...! Spits!!!

Why the exclamation and spitting? Something is definitely wrong with you despite being abroad.

Soltix9y:
Have you ever thought that maybe your definition of love is wrong?

I think love is different for each person and that's the fundamental issue. People simply love whoever makes their life feel better/complete. Love is always selfish if you look deeply enough for both men and women.

ebubeson:
If men were insisting on only virgins the several ladies want rich guys, maybe there will be general adjustments.

Virgin or not women are born with inherent value. A man has to earn his value by providing utility. Men will only stop simping when they treat having women and children like a choice not a life achievement.

plsdisvirginme:
Anyone should please give me some business idea or any skill acquisition, I'm empty ,. Help a fellow bro.
Criticism is accepted as long as I'm going to live to tell the story at the end, Thanks

1. No one has a clear direction in life.
2. Everyone feels empty, it's a human feature not a bug.
3. I don't know your qualifications but first thing is to get a job that feeds you at least once daily.
4. Key is something that keeps you alive but gives room for actually skill development.
5. Think of something that you had natural inclination for growing up and try to get better everyday no matter how little the improvement.
6. Lastly stay authentic and unique so be it daily job or skill development, make sure your character and uniqueness shines through.
7. Actualization and height of success is up to the universe. Your effort is only a catalyst so don't take credit or be devastated for/by the outcome.
8. The journey and it's experience is what really matters not the attainment of goals.

All the best.

talented321:
If your parents no get money, you gat face the reality of life..
But the truth is you have to be strong because things are not going to easy anytime from.. Work on yourself, if you are able the sweat in your body can help you with a good reasoning..

AlphaMale666:
You wake up every goddamn day and repeat the same routine over and over again till death! I'ts Like running around a maze over and over and still finding yourself at the same spot you started at! Mahnn!! I need to start travelling and exploring nature more to get outta this maze cus it's driving me nuts! Life is too monotonous! Too tedious! Hope I don't kill myself anytime soon!

You're not alone brother. Saddest part is most people can't truly relate even when they claim to. My little tip is treat life like an experiment. Live every second like your last and one day you'll be right.

Don't let people or structures limit you but don't break the law. The worst thing that can happen to us is being locked up.

Sirheny007:
What a weak man even in death!
Why take your life because of a woman? Why? Just why?

She probably saw you as a weak man, and you were weak even in death!

Pele o. World Strongest Man

Ilamina:


Who put me into it

Na by force

What was the purpose,

If God does not exist, the aliens and the dinosaurs fault

These questions have no satisfactory answer except you believe in a delusion. Just be true to your nature, try to mingle with people and explore life as much as your resources allow. Your next breath isn’t guaranteed so don’t dwell in negative emotions.

There is no meaning or purpose.

Well aligned photography 👍🏾.

Dollarremix:
See fine boy way just waste him life for nothing.well according to Mummy G O hell fire straight.

Same to you
Matthew 7:1

MotorGuru:
The IS 250.
But why not the IS350? The IS250 is a direct injection engine which is prone to carbon buildup on the intake valves which over time could cause random misfires.

The IS 350 has both port and direct injection which totally elinimates this problem and of course has more power.

Well said. IS350 is quite scarce tho.

RealEzee:
Guys, what do you think about both rides, pros and cons,their Tokunbo is quite similar in price tho,that Acura TL no dey bad looking sha

Check out Acura TSX 2008
Best of both worlds

The Lexus is faster, more reliable and cheaper to maintain.

kenzysmith:
Chai i must buy this toys weda na legit or na ritual. Those people wey dey do yahoo no get two head. If i be rich man heaven sure for me. Na only poor man they go hell fire na so so bad things full their mind.

I believe some people also thought of doing ritual to buy peugeot 504 some years ago. I wish you the best!

Which kind country be this? Visa na wahala, oya i no japa again still gats fear your own people!

Nostradamus:
which car is this?

Very mean-looking machine!!

2019 Acura NSX

Lummid:
Money is mysterious!
Work hard get rich and waste it on overpriced things.

When you can get this for max 100m. Which speed is someone looking for again!