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Apart from the vacation, what other things should he remove please? You think he has the better deal? Try and price the cost of electronics and see! Perhaps she should handle feeding only and see how much of her salary remains?

efosky1246:
He is the man here. it is his responsibility to curtail the expenses according to his pocket. with your analysis he is living beyond his means. It is too early into the marriage to put that much financial strain on the woman.

Let's analyze the man's expenses.
2.5k daily for food for 30days=75k
Fuel for car and gen 1.5k/day=45k
Rent.........................................= 70k
Contribution for health insurance=10k
Contribution to vacation................=40k
Contribution for children trust fund=40k
Man had only 20k left, so you understand now?

sugarlyn:
Bros, it's too much.
She earns 80k and you still want to carry all these load inside 80k?
When babies start coming, with these your logic, the whole baby things such as wears, diapers and feeding will be on her.
Do you want to kill her?
Please reduce the load and don't use your stingy to pursue a good wife.
She did the right thing to quit what she can't finish.
Your girlfriend is honest and it's hard find an honest girl.
Op. Go back and review your list abeg

Let's analyze the man's expenses.
2.5k daily for food for 30days=75k
Fuel for car and gen 1.5k/day=45k
Rent.........................................= 70k
Contribution for health insurance=10k
Contribution to vacation................=40k
Contribution for children trust fund=40k
Man had only 20k left, so you understand now?

efosky1246:
she dodged a bullet. a mule is what you're looking for. not a wife.

this is 80k for goodness sake. If at the barest minimum she spends 1K everyday on feeding and transport. 30k is gone. the contributions you demand of her will definitely finish the remaining 50k. she has nothing left to spend on herself as a woman or on miscellaneous expenses she doesn't want to bother you about. And in addition to all that she'll also be the one to cook and clean.

on top wetin?

what kind of a man are you? would you wish this on your sister?

You can't tell me you love that woman. this is a marriage of convenience for you. If you were earning a million you will not choose her. so let her be abeg.

Marriage is not by force, you're clearly not ready to create the lifestyle you want for your family hence why you need to depend on a woman. hustle more or find a woman earning 200k+ to work with this your budget.

N.B: If any alpha male wannabe devoid of common sense and cursed with a brain that can only formulate the word simp quotes me I will swear for you and your generation. this is a new year.

I don't believe that. Don't force your false narrative on everyone, just say the ones you've met are useless

Unknown31:
don't make the mistake of having a girlfriend in the Nigeria. Nigeria girls are useless.

Hello.
I'm an introvert. I'm 26years, I would like a relationship with a female- preferably 25years and younger, religion- christianity.
I'm cool and fun to be with once we are familiar.
How to reach me? Send a mail.