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Woo, I had to sign in just to reply to your post sista!

You really don't need the negativity so I will not give it to you (not much atleast lol). I'm sure all the other replys will give you slack about your decisions (which yes, in this case are very poor) but you deserve to be spoken to like a human.

Any romantic relationship that does not allow for you to have that person completely (open marraiges/relationships not included) is not a very constructive relationship-in fact it shouldn't even be called a relationship in the first place. Really, how do you feel knowing that you have given yourself to him and ONLY him for this many years, making yourself exclusively his, yet he isn't reciprocating and is essentially sharing himself between two women? Also, if he is doing this to you and to his wife, he is probably out messing with another woman as well--use your head my dear.

You also know that you are putting yourself at risk as this guy could bring you all sorts of STDs (God forbid its HIV or something incurable) then you'll really be screwed (no pun intended). Open your eyes and know your worth AND ALSO while you do not know his wife you should treat her with respect and back off from her man-- there are sooooooooooooo many men out there, no one here can tell you how to get over someone, that is a hurdle you've got to jump over on your own, but you MUST deal with it nonetheless. Becareful and exit this relationship ASAP before you get hurt!

Hi bros and sis',

I was wondering if I could get anyones help in finding out the title and artist of the track being played in this youtube video:

(music starts at 00:10)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dIEk61W5Kcg


I am a music lover and i am desperate to know the title and artist of this track. The video uploader doesn't appear to respond to comments and I am a bit impatient! lol! Oh and if you're interested in fashion i am sure the youtube video will be of some interest to you (it was to me!) But really, please help folks!

Much Thanks!

Lol Everything above written is hilarious. I would just like to share my own, surely it wont be as comical as the others but sharing is caring!

1.) When we order from our local african restaurant we usually place the food in a bowl and eat together. I will go and wash my hands and my the time i come back this man has already grabbed about 3 pieces of meat that he is chewing mercilessly! I was told as a child that if you and someone are eating together it is rude to start eating without them,  or maybe its just my culture. 

2.) When ever I visited him at his home I will leave with insect bites. I do have sensitive skin but this is simply outrageous! My mum (who is insanely observant) would notice and question why I had so many bites! I warned him that he needed to take care of the bed bug problem or else I wouldn't visit again,  til this very day ( 5 years of dating) I am still getting bitten!  This makes me paranoid and when I start scratching myself while sitting his room this man will get upset and say stop that there is nothing in this room i have disinfected this entire premises! Untrue, I will leave the house that same evening and discover 4 more itchy bites,   

3.) When we go out to eat my man refuses to order his own food! Don't get me wrong, I as a woman of this age see nothing wrong with a woman ordering for her man since in this day and age no one can clearly assign gender roles. It's just that he is extremely indecisive and wants to leave it to me to order for him! Abaa! Why now?


4.) He does not like to wash his clothing!!! 

Either way I love him and his strange ways! Blessings to all!