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biolabee: you are always on point



Yes some women use the child for emotional blackmail because of their
own issues but this does not mean all men tried to be good fathers



Please still be careful on NL
Also take baby's advice and beg an elder in your family to notify your
ex family
after that leave it to God

His family is aware, ofcourse the brideprice was returned so that one is not an issue. i actually have left everything in God's hand.

i was in your position when i left my ex, taut of so many evils to get back at him afterall he doesnt hv monopoly of violence esp when i was abt to loose my job cos of him but thank God for my pastor, talk to your pastor to join you in prayers, it pays to be good but so easy to be bad.

am in, if you re interested, kindly check my profile and email me so that we can exchange phone nos and start from there. lv you all.

let us be friends real life, those of us that have good jobs, we help out, schedule vacations and visitations, learn one or two things from each other. communicate and share each other problem.

@all single parent: pls we are the only ones that know what we are passing tro and would also be in a position to help one another, can we form strong friendship amongst us.

@baby 123: i forgave him long time ago but wouldnt want him to cross my path again. yes it is as bad as that. thanks anyways.

thank you all for your contributions on my post but i hv actually decided to let nature take its course and for God to take control. when the time comes he will guide my path.

@ nikkykay: thats exactly wht i am talking abt, he has nt set his eyes on her since she was born and doesnt show interest, how do i get myself to get them hav a relationship. how i wish its so easy.

@ biolabee: thank you so much, my ex is so useless that i wont want have a relationship wit my daughter until she is of age like say 18yrs, but pls how do i go abt it when she starts asking abt her dad?

@ujujoan: once again i dont keep companys. @ WAvixen: would like to know how you let your baby know his dad, at what age?, do you leave them alone together, does he visit him? i am really curious.

i have only one problem now and that is how to keep my daughter away from her dad when she starts asking abt him, she is so cute and lovely and wont want her dad to hurt her in anyway cos that man is crazy and can do anystuf and apologize the next minute.

it even irritates me when a man tries to touch, i have sent two suitors away already cos i wont pick calls, wont hang out or even chat with them normally without saying stuff like ' you all are d same'.

@ coogar, i resent them so much to the extent i abused my elder brother just last week for making his wife that just put to bed cry for his actions against them. i think i need serious deliverance for that to stop.

i think he is possessed or cursed, i have the full support of my family,i wouldnt hv coped alone. my daughter is so cute, i love her so much and wont like his dad to influence her negatively that is why i dont hv any relationship amongst them until she is of age. how to achieve that is what i dont know.

he is the type that would beat you and next moment he would be crying and apologizing that he doesnt know what came over him, then the next beating would be more serious than the previous ones on silly reasons like i didnt come back home on time. or even during minor arguments.

@ ujujoan: i dont keep company nt even now. my ex was very abusive, was trying to make it work until one day i fainted at his beatings. sometimes i look back and thank God cos i would have been a dead person now if i had tarried.

there is a mental problem going on amongst nigerian men, dont know whether it is because of the harsh economy. i never taut i would a single mum cos i had great plans for my marriage.

i havent started dating for more than two year, i even hate sex now. i think i need reassurance that men are worth their troubles. and yes i walk and work with my head high, owe no explanation to anyone.

i am in my early thirties and got a good job, dont feel anything taking care of my daughter, infact she is my only source of happiness. i even am thanking God that i have custody of her and she wont be influenced by her dad's behaviour thats why i never want her to have any relationship with him until she is of age.

i notice the way she normally clings to men whenever they carries and it pains me the more that she has not enjoyed such from her own dad. he doesnt care because he is so irresponsible and cursed. how do i get my daughter hv a relationship wit such a man?

i dont want my daughter to have any relationship with him until she is like 18yrs, but i am worried that she will soon start asking abt her dad, what do i tell her?

my daughter is two years plus and her dad has never set his eyes on him, we did traditional marriage and court marriage, then he started showing his true colors even to the day of the white wedding, fortunately my people were there and the wedding didnt hold,i left him for good but still fortunately i was already preg for him.

where are all my post mods? it is really frustrating here.

we are just the same

Nig 1-Bukinafaso 3

Pls lets save our energy cos CIV are beating us 5-1.

My prediction is CIV 5- NIG 1. Quote me after the match.

[quote
author=omotola1]Mstcheeeeeeeew!
As if I knew he was refering to this site.[/quote]what is wrong with the site? if you like comply,that
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omotola1: Hi peeps, I just heard that Civil defence has started recruiting. Pls how true is this?
Someone from Abuja just called me some few minutes ago.
Pls guys, kindly confirm. Thanks.

its true, just go to mins of interior website and upload ur resume.

its true,they started accepting CV online yesterday.

please have anyone collected his/her letter from Inec head office abuja.