TV/Movies › Re: Why Almost All The BBN Housemates Fade After The Show? by lyrose(f): 12:41am On Jan 23 |
Check them out on Tiktok,like Bambam,White money etc they are all all making money quietly gbaskiboy: Bisola is the only house mate that I can categorically tell you is doing well in the field of entertainment.b |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Top Producing Countries by lyrose(f): 6:08am On Jan 15 |
Axis313: Indonesia, largest producers of palm oil. That's the country that their leaders are organized unlike our own. I read somewhere that I'm the 70s Indonesia and Malaysia came to Nigeria to get palm oil kernels to start their own palm industry, today we can see where both Asian countries are in terms of using palm products to sustain their economies and where our dear country is. Today it is the Malaysian currency Ringit that is use to sell palm oil to other countries just as many countries use US dollars to sell products to other countries, and it helps strengthen the Malaysian Ringit,I hope our country will get there one day. Amen 🙏 O But do you know the population that is consuming our oil only Nigeria (only Palm oil)it is enormous my brother. |
Food › Re: Foodstuff I Bought With 11,450 Naira From A Village Market In Delta State. by lyrose(f): 8:57am On Jan 02 |
Lyricalz01: Ok na, enjoy, things are so cheap in the village, but na money no dey to buy them Things are not so cheap in my village, except slice difference in price of garri from town,from delta state |
Politics › Re: First Lady Distributes 1,000 Bags Of Rice To Widows, Others In Nasarawa by lyrose(f): 8:26am On Jan 02 |
Melagros: COMRADES, after her husband (Tinubu) has impoverished them, now you're deceiving them with a cup of rice per widow
What a shame She is first lady of the governor of nassarawa state,not oluremi tinubu |
Nairaland General › Re: Happy New Year And Welcome To 2026! by lyrose(f): 8:06am On Jan 02 |
Seun: I would like to wish every member of this forum a happy and prosperous New Year. 2025 was a challenging year, but we pulled through. Thank you for making Nairaland your online home. Amen 🙏, and same here, Thank God for the gifts of life🙏 |
Family › Re: Help, How Should I Handle This Family Secret? by lyrose(f): 11:27pm On Dec 25, 2025 |
Kcash200: Hi guys,
I have a problem i have been dealing with since i was 12. I am from a large family and when i was 12, my mum told me my Dad is not my biological father and for me to make it a secret. I did not know what to do with such an information at that age but i knew it was wrong but i couldnt talk so i am not the one who destroys the family. Everyone lives in peace but i always wonder what will happen if only they know the truth. My biological father has other children and some of them know me that i am outside. He was involved in my life financially from 12years as far as i am aware of. He sent me money then and i kept quiet too and also supported me financially a couple of times though we have no personal relationship asides 2-3mins phone calls here and there and it is been like that for years.
I know my biological father and we kept in touch while i was in secondary school. Now that i am an adult now, i feel really sad about the whole thing and sometimes i even cry on my bed. I have been living in secret and a double life and fearing i might be outed one day. Some people in my mother's family are aware which is very strange and i find it shameful as a man now but i did not choose my fate. I have always tried to forget it and just leave my life but it is always just there especially when i think about starting my own family. I am striving hard for it not to define the way i see marriage and life as i am trying to write a different story for myself.
I grew up with my father who is not my biological father and i have been a good son to him as well and still taking care of him but it bothers that my whole life is a lie and it is hard knowing what i know and i can't say anything as that will scatter the family. I met some girls from a very good home who i can marry but i am scared if i tell her or other girls, that her parent will not let me marry her with that secret.
I am scared of getting married publicly as someone can take the news to my biological father as i do not intend to invite him as my biological father but i always feel heavy anytime i think about it. I want to start a new life for myself but i don't know how to handle this. I do not plan to tell my father as he is getting old and this can kill him at his old age as he has been through a lot in life. He is finally enjoying and i am taking care of him very well and he prays for me all the time.
I am building a good life for myself as a professional and have a lot of girls around me but i don't know what to do. Should i keep quiet and tell the girl i marry after marriage ? Isn't that me building my marriage on deceit. It is a shameful thing to talk about if you look at it.
Sometimes, i feel like they caused me trauma putting me in this position but i am an adult now and will bear responsibility for how i live my life and cant continue to blame any trauma or anyone. I am the one who has to keep quiet for peace to reign in the family.
I don't want to wait too long just incase it is a dealbreaker for someone but i also don't want to be disclosing to anyone.
Aside from marriage, i still do not know what to do with that information. Who will be your Father of the day,on your marriage day?? Please still use the one who raised you up. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Jeremiah Fufeyin Buries Mother, Asetu, In ₦150 Million Gold Casket (Pix) by lyrose(f): 11:27pm On Dec 14, 2025 |
Absolutely Bankowner: The #150m casket is the gold card that has bought the late mother permanent residency (PR) in Heaven.
I'm kinda wondering if he ever spent that much on her in her lifetime. |
Celebrities › Re: Annie Idibia And Her Children Vacation In Umhlanga Durban by lyrose(f): 1:42am On Dec 05, 2025 |
osuofia2: Annie is not better than Natasha, He Tuface is unlucky with women. All the women in his life wants to possess and control him. I feel bad for him, he is too innocent for all the women coming his ways But his name is 'innocent idibia'🙃🙃😂 |
TV/Movies › Re: When You Go To Nigeria, You Don't Find Them Watching Any Ghanaian Movie-selassie by lyrose(f): 1:26am On Dec 05, 2025 |
MatrixReloaded: Because what Ghollywood stand for are mostly seductive movies without good headings. And they don't have any Actor except the actor turned pastor of a guy. I just watched "Taste of Sin'by almost all d high ranked actors in ghana@iroko tv,am a Nigerian |
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Food › Re: The Ultimate Nigerian Native Jollof Rice Recipe (authentic Palm Oil Rice) by lyrose(f): 6:15am On Oct 05, 2025 |
slim75d: This is premium jollof rice not poor man's oil rice. Oil rice goes this way Palm oil = 300 Rice 3 cups Onions = 200 Maggi. = 100 Pepper = 200 Cray fish (optional) = 200 Salt for taste Na wetin I cook today , life goes on 3cups of rice approx =1000 Plus gas quarter kg=300 Total=2300 You are a big Man |
Culture › Re: Ooni Gets African Recognition, Abuja To Host 2025 African Day Celebration by lyrose(f): 7:47am On May 12, 2025 |
Where Minister of culture and tourism want to eat money,by sponsorship and bringing all states to Abuja, waisting Nigeria money all in the name of culture,Na wa O |
Romance › Re: Should Parents Be Comfortable Giving Their Daughters In Marriage To Yahoo Boys? by lyrose(f): 5:08pm On Apr 22, 2025 |
[Some of them will open a business as camouflage,you won't know, until she has enter into the marriage,Yahoo regime quote author=Bobodee09 post=135079737]As a parent i don't think I can ever give out any of girls to a yahoo boy. The thought always drive me nut.
I have a lil cousin who is getting married this year, we got to meet her fiance over the weekend and the guy is a G boy, he has no other skills. Some of us aren't comfortable with it but her mother isn't bother cos obviously the guy is rich to some extent.
In asmuch we now live in a completely mannerless and moraless society as a parent can you give out your daughter in a marriage to a yahoo boy.[/quote] |
Science/Technology › Re: Sea Lion Caught In Benue State (photos) by lyrose(f): 12:25am On Apr 12, 2025 |
UncleKoboko: Very aged or sick.
I hope these savages won't devour it.
Before dem go chop wetin go kpai dem. Before nko,wey almost 20 men caught I fish,it will not be enough to squandered self, What is their business whether aged or sick,do you know the type of fish they sell call stockfish,do you know if it is age or sick, don't worry they will use agbo to flush after squandering 🖐️👏 |
Politics › Re: Ibas Appointed Wike's Cousin To Head The LG Service Commission - Fubara’s Ally by lyrose(f): 12:16am On Apr 12, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Uromi Killings: Kano Delegation Visits Edo by lyrose(f): 7:20pm On Apr 11, 2025 |
Osanoghodua1: Stupid things by Edo governor! He even stood up while addressing a deputy governor, he's a coward, I heard he was speaking Hausa when he got to Kano! Not against him going to Kano or them coming here but he should also tell them the menace of the northerners here. He is also a deputy governor and the delegate from Kano is older than him,Maybe that is why he respected them, even when he visits Kano,they would stand for him has a visitor,just icheck it out!! Vengeance for vengeance is not a good deed. |
Agriculture › Re: Oyo, Netherlands Collaborate On Tomato Production by lyrose(f): 3:01pm On Mar 30, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: Does Talking Stage Make Sense? by lyrose(f): 6:32pm On Jan 12, 2025 |
MartinsD12: In western world talking stage in relationships is very important but here in Nigeria is mess up by Nigerian girls , talking stage is opportunity for them to milk you dry financially, their house rent will start to expire, their mama in village will start to fall sick, you will fill their cooking gas or even buy a new cylinder for them , infact talking stage is when they will take you can you take care of me financially in Nigeria it's talking money that's what Nigerian girls have turn it to be Be calming down bros, talking stage is for guys who has international airtime to spend,they are well to do, enough credit to throw around,my opinion and experience though |
Health › Re: When Last Did You Deworm Yourself by lyrose(f): 12:06pm On Jan 09, 2025 |
MMempire: When last did you come across alcopar? what is alcopar |
Properties › Re: Thinking About 5k Something To Give My Landlord. by lyrose(f): 7:11pm On Dec 25, 2024 |
Bigcowhorn: Then you don't know wine
5K can get you two bottles with change. That is why some are called cheap wine Alcoholic wine is up to 3500 upwards, except is non alcoholic,just check wine shop |
Crime › Re: ”We Told People To Stop Coming But They Refused” – Agidigbo FM Reacts by lyrose(f): 7:14am On Dec 20, 2024 |
Nimen: Imagine how hungry people are for them to gather like that before 5am. This country is in crisis abeg You mean 5pm |
Crime › Re: ”We Told People To Stop Coming But They Refused” – Agidigbo FM Reacts by lyrose(f): 7:14am On Dec 20, 2024 |
Nimen: Imagine how hungry people are for them to gather like that before 5am. This country is in crisis abeg You mean 5m |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Your Transport, If You're Travelling Home For Christmas by lyrose(f): 7:06am On Dec 20, 2024 |
lyrose: Till tomorrow then,wish is possible Woow,is even today |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Your Transport, If You're Travelling Home For Christmas by lyrose(f): 7:05am On Dec 20, 2024 |
leksymaxy: Lagos to ibadan going tomorrow by train from babatunde Raji fashola train station to Obafemi awolowo train station moniya ibadan and it is free of charge between 20th December to Jan 4th Till tomorrow then,wish is possible |
Business › Re: What Has Been Your Biggest Source Of Income In 2024? by lyrose(f): 12:25am On Dec 19, 2024 |
SyrusdeHansome: I made more than 300$ on dogs, made about 40$ on hamster Kombat, made 19$ on Memefi, made about 50$ yesterday on DRX, etc. Not trying to make mouth here but simply telling pple to stop being pessimistic when crypto mining is mentioned. I can't tell u how much I've made and lost from crypto trading so far but the truth is that there's money online. Mind u, these are just telegram projects not to talk of what I've made from some few apps and browsers Please can I Dm you on Whatsapp so you will teach me on this my what's app number -09062158405-i reside in Suleja |
Politics › Re: Top 10 Exported & Imported Products In 9 Months, 2024 (Jan - Sept) by lyrose(f): 7:52am On Dec 10, 2024 |
They should not export our food anymore so there be enough food to eat |
Politics › Re: Top 10 Exported & Imported Products In 9 Months, 2024 (Jan - Sept) by lyrose(f): 7:47am On Dec 10, 2024 |
[Economist talking 👍quote author=LegendHero post=133229546]
The data is for Jan - September. Dangote started petrol profusion proper in October.
Also, importers work based on contracts. Some of them have months of contract already that need to be fulfilled.
By first quarter of next year, everything will stabilize and the petrol import would have reduced in comparison.[/quote] |
Politics › Re: France Leads As Nigeria’s Top Net Export Destination In 2024 by lyrose(f): 7:40am On Dec 10, 2024 |
That's is how they overestimate,as if they know Economy! |
Politics › Re: Food Importation May Destroy Nigeria’s Agric Sector – Akinwumi Adesina by lyrose(f): 5:41pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Big!Big lie!!this ogbeni,let them give us food to eat!!so will export the one we have. |
Romance › Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by lyrose(f): 1:41am On Sep 07, 2023 |
I left nairaland and am back To reply your mentions #did you say you are dumb or lazy or stupid,or your family is!!maybe let me leave you,you might be dead🔥✍️quote author=HeyCorleone post=71230845]
This is stupid.
That you were too dumb and lazy to continue with the "knee down, stand up" doesn't in anyway invalidate it.
I don't see the big deal in Pentecostalism.
The emboldened only establishes your presence in the hall of fame of dimwittedness. Like people don't flirt in Winners. You're telling him to marry her in her church but it's obvious they already had sex before marriage so of what then makes her church any special?
I left Pentecostal for the Catholic church so it's not like you pulled the greatest stunt ever.[/quote] |