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AmigoDeDon:
lol send me a dm I am still in the business of helping people escape poverty….

Fiscus105:
I won't be surprised, she started having multitude behind her,and for the multitude to be, seeking for prayer, prophesies and even marriage counseling. After all, it's in the book, "old things had passed away".
Africans and middle east are slave to religions.
When they hear religion, they submit their common sense. Little wonder, they lag behind in the committee of greatness!

MasterTeeUSA:
It will shock you to know that most of the new registration are APC members. I just registered and will be collecting my PVC. He go shock una lol

Fekumzi123:
😂
So many ladies like you have said more than this but later cry for a man.
Body go tell you

Ablesam171:
Dis na why people like me dey say, “Make una dey marry virgin.” Tell me, why would your woman complain about your size if she has never experienced one bigger than yours?
For me, it's a no no besides why would any right thinking man want to do penis enlargement

lightwind:
I don't patronize them in anyway. They will come into the street collect your trashes it's either they dump it in the streets or pour them into the gutters drainage at night time.

This needs to stop immediately.


First time to comment on nairaland forum in 9 years now 🎊🎊🎉🎉🤗🫶🥰

Hezmatosky210:
The problem here is that you try to quantify everything. There are some chilling and quality moments women gives to their men that are not quantifiable. I mean that are priceless. Even nine hundred billion dollars can't buy them. Only that we too dey forget things

Evaress:
if you don't parboil it, you soak it in salt water for 15min before adding it. If you are using it like that raw, it can be harmful to your health in the future because the leaf contains toxins.

Princedapace:
Is it the leaf they call Miracle leaf?

DrAda:
It appears the female gender is under attack. This new trend to always highlight the negatives and rarely acknowledge the positives of women in general is very disturbing. Constantly dishing out a litany of advice and yet failing to work on one's shortcomings is equally hypocritical and repulsive and my hope is that we all improve on this over time.

My take on this topic is that while it appears that divorced women get the short end of the stick in majority of cases due to the above points outlined, a choice has been made and the consequences must be lived, no matter how ugly. Focusing on what would have been had she stayed in the marriage is not in the equation anymore since a choice was made to leave in spite of the new perceived challenges.

Once again it all boils down to decisions, some choose to stay in unhappy, abusive marriages preferring that to the alternative while others choose to leave. Our job is to respect the dignity/right to live and be happy of both parties and most importantly mind our own business while we are at it.

Thank you very much, don't mind those niche and anti feminist that will not live in peace,due to their cruel way of life👍🤝

zoghys:
The problem is the language barrier and racism. Some Chinese won't give you a time of the day especially when you're coloured. But then the economy is fantastic and has a huge prospect.

ManirBK:
Just today, I came across a class exercise from a primary school that had me laughing nonstop.

The teacher set some standard questions for the pupils, but one particular student decided to take a completely different approach with his answers. What he wrote on his answer sheet didn't just make the teacher look foolish — it left the entire classroom in chaos!

advocatejare:
Believing that a single person can beat more than 20 people at once. Rather than for all of them to attack at once, they will be going in twos to chop beatings 😂

gbaskiboy:
Bisola is the only house mate that I can categorically tell you is doing well in the field of entertainment.b

Axis313:
Indonesia, largest producers of palm oil.
That's the country that their leaders are organized unlike our own.
I read somewhere that I'm the 70s Indonesia and Malaysia came to Nigeria to get palm oil kernels to start their own palm industry, today we can see where both Asian countries are in terms of using palm products to sustain their economies and where our dear country is.
Today it is the Malaysian currency Ringit that is use to sell palm oil to other countries just as many countries use US dollars to sell products to other countries, and it helps strengthen the Malaysian Ringit,I hope our country will get there one day.

Lyricalz01:
Ok na, enjoy, things are so cheap in the village, but na money no dey to buy them

Melagros:
COMRADES, after her husband (Tinubu) has impoverished them, now you're deceiving them with a cup of rice per widow

What a shame

Seun:
I would like to wish every member of this forum a happy and prosperous New Year.
2025 was a challenging year, but we pulled through. Thank you for making Nairaland your online home.

Kcash200:
Hi guys,

I have a problem i have been dealing with since i was 12. I am from a large family and when i was 12, my mum told me my Dad is not my biological father and for me to make it a secret. I did not know what to do with such an information at that age but i knew it was wrong but i couldnt talk so i am not the one who destroys the family. Everyone lives in peace but i always wonder what will happen if only they know the truth. My biological father has other children and some of them know me that i am outside. He was involved in my life financially from 12years as far as i am aware of. He sent me money then and i kept quiet too and also supported me financially a couple of times though we have no personal relationship asides 2-3mins phone calls here and there and it is been like that for years.

I know my biological father and we kept in touch while i was in secondary school. Now that i am an adult now, i feel really sad about the whole thing and sometimes i even cry on my bed. I have been living in secret and a double life and fearing i might be outed one day. Some people in my mother's family are aware which is very strange and i find it shameful as a man now but i did not choose my fate. I have always tried to forget it and just leave my life but it is always just there especially when i think about starting my own family. I am striving hard for it not to define the way i see marriage and life as i am trying to write a different story for myself.

I grew up with my father who is not my biological father and i have been a good son to him as well and still taking care of him but it bothers that my whole life is a lie and it is hard knowing what i know and i can't say anything as that will scatter the family. I met some girls from a very good home who i can marry but i am scared if i tell her or other girls, that her parent will not let me marry her with that secret.

I am scared of getting married publicly as someone can take the news to my biological father as i do not intend to invite him as my biological father but i always feel heavy anytime i think about it. I want to start a new life for myself but i don't know how to handle this. I do not plan to tell my father as he is getting old and this can kill him at his old age as he has been through a lot in life. He is finally enjoying and i am taking care of him very well and he prays for me all the time.

I am building a good life for myself as a professional and have a lot of girls around me but i don't know what to do. Should i keep quiet and tell the girl i marry after marriage ? Isn't that me building my marriage on deceit. It is a shameful thing to talk about if you look at it.

Sometimes, i feel like they caused me trauma putting me in this position but i am an adult now and will bear responsibility for how i live my life and cant continue to blame any trauma or anyone. I am the one who has to keep quiet for peace to reign in the family.

I don't want to wait too long just incase it is a dealbreaker for someone but i also don't want to be disclosing to anyone.

Aside from marriage, i still do not know what to do with that information.

Bankowner:
The #150m casket is the gold card that has bought the late mother permanent residency (PR) in Heaven.


I'm kinda wondering if he ever spent that much on her in her lifetime.

osuofia2:
Annie is not better than Natasha, He Tuface is unlucky with women. All the women in his life wants to possess and control him. I feel bad for him, he is too innocent for all the women coming his ways

MatrixReloaded:
Because what Ghollywood stand for are mostly seductive movies without good headings. And they don't have any Actor except the actor turned pastor of a guy.

slim75d:
This is premium jollof rice not poor man's oil rice.
Oil rice goes this way
Palm oil = 300
Rice 3 cups
Onions = 200
Maggi. = 100
Pepper = 200
Cray fish (optional) = 200
Salt for taste
Na wetin I cook today , life goes on