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Lmao @ above replies. . .

dear poster,
Nobody is truely romantic both the white,brown,yellow or blacks. . .
A guy will only be romantic if you want him to. . .
no use mistake do romantic to a naija girl who doesn't really want it ooo because na trouble you dey find so 'she will take you to as a mugu'

The word romantic can only enter a relationship if they are both very free with each other. . .freedow of attitude bring romantizism

A male Dog na DOGGY while A female Dog is called what. . .

If some Girls can open there mouth to call a guy dog then they should be ready to answer to female name. . .

darlingD:
some fat bafoon women (wives) used their husbands' shirt as a top for their wrapper.

OLOLOLOLO OOO

If the guy stopped calling you It means he's no longer interested that doesn't make him a jerk! delete he's number from your phone then art like you dont know him when ever you see him anywhere. . . simple as that dear.

Their is a reason why he doesn't call or recieve yours but it's not because of his little project or whatever. . . and since his not giving you any answer. . . BONE!!!

dear poster,
please dont join the JERK CLUB NLAND. . . it's not a good community for new member like yourself. . . you only become a member by pouring insult on you people.

I want where to download a Nokia 3110c games. . .

Fellow mates please your help is needed here. . .

Post me a link. . . thanks in advance. . .  

I need some drivers for this my laptop PC. . .

Sound driver
Graphic driver
synthetic mouse driver
dvd-rom driver. . .


Please your reponds will me appreciated!
Thanks in advance.

[quote ]It depends on what you mean by smartness.  I for one appreciate a girl with brains   who you can always confide in when you need to take decisions because you can always rely on her advice both in business or family .  If that kind of girl is called smart then i'll say yes . But if smartness is a girl  who keeps three to four guys and hides the relationship from each or who always finds a way of extracting money from you then the answer is I REJECT such. [quote][/quote]THE ACTUAL KOK'S    

hollandis:
I never claimed to be one.

Your pouring insult at me show that you are ONE. . . And have admitted to the fact that you are ONE. . . chick-en!!!

   
[quote ]Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh    [quote][/quote]Out of the Aboundant of the chick-en heart she speaks with the toothless mouth "peck"

pick the floors/ground for warms and insect to feed. . . your case na wa ooo

How SAD  hollandis. . .Hol-HOLE. . . Land-LAND. . . Is-IS. . . your screen name shows that you really are a chicken. . .

you are tring to tell us that the Hole in the land was created by your constant pecking of the GROUND. . .

you see how sad you case is        

LORD!!!

If i have a missing rib i would prefer it to be mission for life. . . because i don't think a missing or a part of you would want to be a part to someone else. . . i know of a Guy who had SEX with a lady who is suppose to be getting married in two weeks time while the man that want to Marry this lady is Out there in The UK thinking his so called fianance is Clean and different from all the ladies he's ever came accross while she is Hitting it off with someother Guy back here in Naija. . .      

PLEASE LET THAT RIB BE MISSING! . . .I ADVICE YOU FOLLOW 2FAZE WAY. DON'T GET A WIFE BUT HAVE KIDS!   

MISSION OUTREACH NIGERIA (M.O.N)

And you a chick-en. . . how pleasing

hollandis:
Macgreat is a macmonkey(no longer mac snake)

Not good enough

I cant shout Hollandis because if i be monkey and you be chick. . . you know watin i go do to you when i see you,i will grab you and cut off your head with my sharp teeth then offer you as a sacrifice to the banana plantationz.

That means say this Girl don get over dose love for this Guy ooo


Love : bla

Toxic love : bla bla

over dose love : bla bla bla ship

is that a good advice?

I think so

Lord have mercy. . .

efuah,which of the jungles are you from?,

your dark skin like

No he is the bros to the baby snake .In this case Mac snake.Na who dash you great sef?

Na God add great to my name, you dey jel?,

If them tell me say chicks with flu dey this thread i no go doubt at all  

infect chicks e.g Ef and Ho

but shockwaving

Secrets Of Dating Younger Women





Ah, younger women.

It's taken me a long time now to finally see
clearly that the appeal of younger women is not
just "slight".

I recently read somewhere that when men get
married for the SECOND time, they marry women an
AVERAGE of 10 years younger.

And something like 20% of men who marry for a
second time wind up marrying a woman that is over
20 YEARS YOUNGER.

I also recall reading somewhere that women are
universally attracted to men who are older than
them, and that the "average" relationship contains
a man that is four years older than the woman.

Interesting stuff.

Remember Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall?

Bastard.

Or how about Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta
Jones?

I hate him, too.

In my own family there are age gaps ranging
from 10 years to over 40 years.

Yeah, you read that one right. Over 40 years.

I won't even go there,

Let's just say that it brings a whole new
meaning to "I traded my 40 in for two 20s".

I guess what I'm trying to say here is that
this pattern of older men dating and marrying
younger women isn't going away anytime soon.

In fact, I personally believe that the more
"socially acceptable" it becomes, the MORE it's
going to happen.

For most of my adult life, I've dated women
that were either my own age, or very close.

But for some reason, right about when I turned
30, I began sometimes dating women who were
younger than me.

At first it was a little bit strange.

I didn't feel like I had anything to talk about
with a woman who was five or ten years younger
than me.

But the more it happened, the more I realized
that younger women have a certain appeal that goes
far beyond just the "physical beauty".

Younger women just have a different VIBE.

If you meet the right younger woman, you'll
find that she can bring an amazing energy, vibe,
and youthful atmosphere to your life.

After having the experience myself, talking to
other guys who have shared it, and reading about
it a lot, I can say that many guys have the
experience of FEELING YOUNGER and MORE VITAL when
dating a younger woman.

It can be a blast.

Now, I'm not saying that it's a bad idea to
date women your own age, or women who are older
than you.

Not at all, in fact. Mature women have
qualities that are amazing.

I'm just saying that if you find yourself
attracted to younger women, it's perfectly OK.

And I want to devote this newsletter to the
topic of how to successfully date younger women.

Keep your eye out in the near future for a
newsletter titled "How to date women that are old
enough to be your grandma". Somehow I don't expect
that one to be quite as popular as this one, lol.

OK, let's get to it.

First, I want to talk about my take on younger
women in general, then I'd like to share some
specific techniques and ideas for dating them,


YOUNGER WOMEN MATURE FASTER

Now, we've all heard that "women mature faster
than men", right?

Well, if you could have the opportunity to
listen to a group of four 20-year-old models
standing in front of the bathroom mirror at an A-
List club in Los Angeles or New York, I think you
might change your mind,

My personal view is that SOME women mature
faster than most men, and that SOME women have a
SIDE of them that matures faster than most men.

All women don't mature faster than all men.

But there are those women that DO mature
faster, and these younger women can be VERY
interesting to hang out with.

Take a minute and imagine what it would be like
to be an attractive 18-year-old young woman who
has just graduated from high school and is
starting her first year in college.

Let's assume that she's above average in the
looks department, smart, and beginning to enjoy
her new-found freedom and independence.

What would be going through your mind?

How would you be approaching that world?

Well, I think that you'd probably have begun to
realize (in a big way, most likely) that you have
a certain POWER over most men.

You've probably also begun to realize that
there are certain types of "boyz" that hold a
certain appeal, and that appeal triggers a
certain type of magnetic attraction in you.

(If you've had a chance to go through my
Advanced Dating Techniques Program, then you
understand that this ATTRACTION is being triggered
by certain traits, and not just good looks.)

Now, without taking too long to explain the
point, if you think about it, the traits that
trigger ATTRACTION in women are MORE likely to be
found in an OLDER man than a YOUNGER one.

Traits like higher status, masculinity,
leadership, mystery, challenge, confidence,
composure, and many others.

It often takes men DECADES to cultivate the
traits that are attractive to women, and you'll
notice that when they do, they often act like they
just discovered the concept of FRICTION, and they
behave accordingly.

And if you were an attractive younger woman who
was just "finding her wings" in life, you'd be
responding to this in a way that you probably
wouldn't be able to explain.

The point?

Younger women are more likely to feel
ATTRACTION for a man who is older.

This principle has proven itself to me over and
over, and the more I look around, the more I see
it in action.


IS IT "NORMAL" TO DATE A WOMAN WHO IS YOUNGER
THAN YOU?

One thing that makes this particular topic very
interesting to me is that it often evokes VERY
emotional responses from people.

Some people say, "It's sick for an older man to
date a younger woman", some people see it as
perfectly normal, and some see it as MORE normal
than men dating women their own age.

Everyone has an opinion about it, one way or
another.

The reason that this is important is that the
younger women you'd like to date have a wide range
of opinions as well.

In other words, one 20-year-old woman might
think that the idea of dating a guy who is 27 is
TOTALLY GROSS, while the next one might ONLY find
herself attracted to men who are over 30.

The point I'm making here is that if you are
going to date younger women, you must not let
yourself be overly influenced by the opinions of
others, especially the women you would like to
date.

Just because one woman says "I think that any
guy who asks a woman out who is more than three
years younger is sick" doesn't mean that ALL women
think that way.

The girl right behind her might say "I just
don't have a clue why ANY woman would want to date
ANY guy who's under 40, they're all immature".

If you wind up talking to a woman who isn't
interested because you're "too old", just move
on, and don't let it distract you.

You're going to have to get over any negative
"self image issues" before you're going to be able
to make this work. If you have problems with your
self image, then read THIS and get it handled
before you read any more of this newsletter:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/DeepInnerGame




THE YOUNGER WOMAN'S PERSPECTIVE

I've found that women usually fit into one of
the following three categories when it comes to
how they view this topic:

1) "It's perfectly normal" (Maybe 20%)

2) "It's taboo, and very intriguing" (Maybe 20%)

3) "It's GROSS!" (Maybe 60%)

I just made these numbers up based on my
personal experience and my personal observations.

Some guys I know ONLY date women who are much
younger than themselves, and their experience is
that MOST younger women want to date guys who are
older, see for yourself.

Next, I personally think that maybe only 25% of
the younger women you meet are even worth your
time and attention.

75% are in the categories of not interested in
older guys, not attractive physically or
personality-wise, too immature, etc.

Of those that ARE worth pursuing, most fit into
one of a few categories:

1) Damn smart, high standards, and on the path to
bettering herself.

This young woman will often respect you and
admire you for your experience in life, and look
to you for approval, advice, and input.

She will probably get a thrill from being with
a guy who is mature, sophisticated, and who knows
how to make her feel good physically.

This woman might be the daughter of a strict
and/or religious family who is now experimenting
with her independence.

2) Attractive and overly-concerned with what
others think, very competitive, life revolves
around boys.

If you meet a woman who is between 18 and 23,
and she's a model, actress, dancer, or other
"entertainer", you'll often find this personality
type,

Often these girls like to PARTY.

Drama usually isn't far away.

These women often enjoy the thrill that being
with an older guy brings.

They are often found on the arm of rich,
playboy types, because they like the attention
and material gifts and advantages.

WARNING: These women, in my experience, are
more likely to be users, cheaters, and the types
that turn your emotional life upside-down with all
kinds of unimaginable drama.

Buyer beware.

3) The nice girl who likes you. Maybe not
stunning, and maybe not a super-genius, but likes
the fact that she's met a man who is a MAN, and
who makes her feel good.

Most of these women have a common realization
that guys their age just don't "get it".
They're tired of hearing about dumb "guy stuff",
and they are fascinated by a man who is both
clearly in control of himself and his environment,
and very aware of how to treat a woman, how to
make her feel good, how to take his time.

These women can be great fun, and they can be a
real joy to be around. They often bring a fun,
spontaneous energy to the relationship, and they
make things a little unpredictable.

Now this isn't a complete list.

And it's not exact.

But it's pretty accurate, and if you use these
categories as general guides, you'll begin to
understand and have more success in your
interactions with younger women.


THE SPECIFICS, WHAT, WHEN, HOW, WHY, WHERE,

Here are some specific ideas for dating younger
women.

REMEMBER: These are WOMEN. They're not a
different species, and everything else that you've
learned from me still applies.

1) Be Cool, Dude.

When most older guys meet a younger woman that
they feel attracted to, they immediately begin to
act WEIRD.

They stop acting like "themselves".

Now, women don't know what you're like
"normally", but they can tell INSTANTLY if you're
NOT ACTING LIKE YOURSELF.

We guys do all kinds of subtle and not-so-
subtle little things when we're feeling nervous,
and these things give women the HEEBIE JEEBIES!

So be cool.

Relax.

Don't act like a Wussbag.

2) Treat her like a BRATTY LITTLE SISTER.

Now that you're being "cool", take it to the
NEXT LEVEL,

Use one of my favorite personal techniques, and
treat her like your BRATTY LITTLE SIS.

Tease her.

Make fun.

It's OK, go for it.

Say all the things you never had a chance to
say when you were a freshman.

Now is your big chance!

And don't worry about it when she plays "fake
mad". Just turn it up some more.

Oh, and call her on everything she does or says
that's immature.

I can't go into all the reasons why this is a
great idea, but it is. You keep your power, you
have all kinds of opportunities to be Cocky &
Funny, and you can always keep things interesting
and challenging.

Oh, and it's COMPLETELY different than the way
most Wussies treat her, which is good.

3) Don't try to follow or get her to lead.

Women in general are not attracted to men who
don't take the lead, and younger women are no
exception.

In fact, younger women have less experience in
life, so trying to get them to lead and tell you
what they want you to do is just a horrible idea.

Don't do it.

You lead. You decide where you're going. You
make the rules.

If you try to make her the boss, you'll run her
off faster than you can say "I touch myself".

4) Don't try to take advantage of the situation.

Most attractive young women have had at LEAST
one "icky older guy" that "tried something" with
her.

Younger women are HYPER-ALERT when it comes to
sketchy behavior.

If you try to take advantage of the situation
or try to "make a move" too early, you'll most
likely signal to her that you're a "perv" and that
you aren't to be trusted.

Lean back.

Chill.

Give her room.

When you walk down the street with her, bump
into her and push her AWAY from you.

Tell her not to walk too close to you, tell
her that other people might think something.

If you're alone with her in your living room,
don't sit right next to her.

If she touches you while talking, don't touch
her back, or better yet, make fun of it and say
"Keep your hands off the goods".

5) Don't intrude on or interfere with her life.

You must remember that younger women have lives
of their own.

Often they're very close to their families, and
they're unsure of how their families would respond
if they found out that their pride and joy of a
daughter was dating an older guy.

Remember, she just got FREE of the overbearing
father, and she doesn't need a new one.

Don't call her at work, don't show up to see
her unexpectedly, and don't embarrass her.

vIf you want to make an attractive young woman
perform magic (the instant disappearing act), just
interfere with her life.

She's free, so let her be free. Encourage it,
even. Don't interfere.

6) Let her come to you, don't chase her.

If you want to make friends with a cat, the
best tactic is to IGNORE IT.

Cats are interesting creatures.

Have you ever noticed that if you chase a cat,
it will run, but if you sit and ignore it, you'll
soon find yourself pushing it off of your lap?

Same goes for younger women.

Like I just mentioned, younger women have often
just "escaped" from controlling parents,
structured lives, and zero freedom.

If she's attracted to you, it's not because
you're creating the environment that she just
left, it's because you represent something
different.

You'll find that if you call her all the time
and chase her, she'll be harder to get a hold of,
and less likely to continue to see you.

If you let her go, let her live her life, and
make yourself more scarce, you'll be more likely
to have HER pursuing YOU.

Be the man that she's always dreamed about, and
then don't chase her.

7) EXPECT her to change.

If you're dating a woman between the ages of 18
and 23, you need to remember that her life is
probably going to change DRAMATICALLY over the
next few years.

You need to keep an open mind, and not try to
restrict or hinder her options.

You need to expect and even encourage her to
grow, change, and become all she can be.

The reality is that the chances are SLIM that
she's going to be with you in a few years.

In fact, the chances are slim that she's even
going to be the same person in a few years.

Get over it, and be OK with it.

Challenge her to grow, achieve, and be her
best, and don't accept second-class behavior from
her.

But, she's going to change, so expect it.

Be CHIVILROUS.

Most younger women have had VERY FEW men in
their lives who even knew what the word "Chivalry"
meant.

If you're one of those men, then you need to
LEARN what the word means.

Opening doors, walking on the outside of the
curb, and pulling out chairs makes a BIG
impression on younger women.

When you combine a masculine, powerful presence
with chivalry, you will stand out and make
yourself VERY intriguing and attractive.

9) Stay totally calm in the face of drama.

Younger women often have a lot of drama
happening around them, and they often act
dramatic.

I could write an entire book about all the
things that a young woman has going on around her
that are TOTALLY UNSTABLE,

And the most influential one is the other
people in her life.

If she freaks out about something, don't let it
get to you.

Stay cool and calm.

Don't try to fix all her problems, and don't
try to stand in for her dad.

She isn't looking for advice, so don't give it
to her (unless she asks seriously, and in a non-
emotional tone).

One of the things that makes you attractive as
an older man is the stability that you bring.

So BRING IT.

10) Be conscious of how often you see her and
speak with her.

Younger women are less in-control of their
emotions, and can become attached more quickly
and easily.

The "trigger" for a woman "becoming attached"
is how often you see her and talk to her.

If you want to trigger the "relationship"
mechanism, spend a lot of time with her.

If you DON'T want to trigger those emotions,
you need to limit the time you spend with her.

As a rule of thumb, don't see her more than
once a week, and don't talk to her more than once
or twice a week unless you want her to start
becoming very attached to you.

And I don't care what you SAY, it's the AMOUNT
OF TIME you spend with her that makes this
determination.

Trust me.

UNDERSTAND ATTRACTION

As always, the most IMPORTANT thing you must
understand when dating younger women is how
ATTRACTION WORKS.

If you don't understand ATTRACTION, then none
of what I just taught you will make a damn bit of
difference,

In fact, if you don't understand ATTRACTION,
then most of the things I just taught you will
probably BACKFIRE on you.

So what's the best way to learn how to make
women feel ATTRACTION for you?

In fact, what's the fastest, most efficient,
most complete, most EFFECTIVE way to learn how to
make women feel ATTRACTION for you available in
the world?

I'd say that it's my Advanced Dating Techniques
CD/DVD program.

And after spending YEARS figuring all of this
stuff out, you can believe me when I say that this
is the program that I wish I would have had when I
first started.

If you put a young, beautiful woman in a guy's
house on his couch, he doesn't know the FIRST
THING about how to make her feel ATTRACTION for
him. He'll do things to please her, hoping that at
some point she begins to get "into the mood", and
then somehow lets him know.

It will NEVER HAPPEN.

But if that guy knows the secrets of how to
make a woman feel ATTRACTION, and how to smoothly
take things to a physical level without triggering
resistance and rejection, then he will be
successful almost every time.

If you want to be that guy, then you need to
get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques Program.

It is literally JAM PACKED with hundreds and
hundreds of techniques for making women, young and
not-so-young, feel ATTRACTION for you.

All the details, plus some great free audio and
video samples are here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries



And if you haven't read my online eBook "Double
Your Dating", then you need to go and download it
right now, and read it. You can download it right
now and be reading it and learning great
techniques within just a few minutes from right
now. It's here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook




IRONIC PROLOGUE:

As I sit here in Starbucks writing this
newsletter on my laptop, across from me is a
couple sitting at a table talking.

And guess what? He's obviously older.

He's probably in his early 30s.

She looks and sounds like she's around 19 or 20
years old.

It's obvious that this is the first time that
they've met (they're wrapping up their
conversation, and she just said, "It was nice
meeting you".

He wasn't saying much, and she was basically
doing all the talking, and boy, was she ever
talking. About a million miles a minute,

She was leading the entire conversation, and he
was trying to be a "nice guy" and let her lead
things.

She was talking about what life was like before
she moved away from her parents.

She was saying, "My parents were overbearing, "
and talking about what it was like to live at home.

The guy was sitting there nervously talking to
her, and fidgeting.

She was asking him questions like, "What is
your family like?", and he was trying to give her
"good answers" like "My family is nice, and my
parents are sweet", etc.

It was obvious that she was trying to keep the
conversation going, and he was trying his best not
to "say anything stupid", he was trying to seem
like a "nice guy".

At one point when she asked him a question, he
sat forward, turned his hands up in the air in a
"I'm just a regular guy, nothing special here"
gesture, and answered about himself.

They just got up and left.

It was PAINFULLY CLEAR to me that this guy did
NOT understand what to do in this situation.

He probably met her online in a chat room or on
a personals website.

He was probably all excited about meeting her.

He probably offered to take her to dinner, and
paid for an expensive meal, and maybe even a
movie before winding up at Starbucks.

He probably has no idea whether or not she is
interested in him, and he will probably go home
tonight wishing he would have kissed her, and
wishing he would have "made a move".

He didn't get it.

DON'T BE THAT GUY!

OK, enough of my ranting.

Go check out the samples of my Advanced Series,
and get yourself a copy. It's the answer!

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries



And download my eBook here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook



I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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