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femi4:
Go for part time in open university, you ll have time to do other things

Thank you, i would do that.

perfectgen:
Firstly, I empathize with you and hope that you find it in your heart to make the best of the situation without losing hope.
I believe that what you mean by having lost your studentship is staying beyond the provisional years to complete your study. If this is so, go back to your school, ask for your unofficial transcript which will show all the courses you have taken and your grades. With your transcripts handy, find the nearest National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN) closest to you to see if they can offer you admission while factoring your gained credits from the university you attended before. You may have to start from 200L or 300L but it is something and surely more flexible.
Wishing you all the best.

Thank you so much, i would do that.

Hezzyluv:
Bolded, Sorry about that.

Note, I just have to sympathize with you because, you sounded as tho you're worried or depressed about it. If not, I wouldn't have waste my sorry over inconsiquential matter.

The most important thing here, you can read and write, glory be to God for that.

Just concentrate on what I had said earlier and develop ya self. Walahi, "e get where you go reach wey them go dey dash you degree anyhow". And you fit even attend schools online.

Important note to you again, 4get about what people are saying or you think, they may be saying. If you even look very well sef, people are not even saying anything. Na you just dey crucify ya self.

Please where can i study online? I would appreciate it. People just keep asking why i haven't served, taunting me. It's denying me of certain well paying jobs too.

telim:
you are depressed because you lost a shitty admission.

If it is possible to transfer a certificate i would have transferred my useless engineering certificate to you free of charge. Taking a look at the certificate gives me headache because it is not different from a printed paper.

Learn a monitiseable skill and bank. No body will ask you of your certificate if you master a skill. This is a new era and alot of foreign companies hire based on skill set.

Companies that pay well don't care about your
Educational background
Race
Country
Sex
All they want is to deliver what they need even if your understanding of English is not perfect.

Thank you, i feel so relieved by this.

TUANKU:
OP listen to this advice.
Same thing i suggested, learn a skill.

Thank you

TUANKU:
Where are you based?

Rivers State.

Maj196:
So what do you want to do or you're just seeking for closure

I actually just need advice

TUANKU:
Okay. At 27 you still have your best years ahead of you so you don't have to think yourself into depression. Personally i would suggest you learn a skill for now, one that can earn you a good pay.
You can still go back to school in few years time but just know it is not the end of the world. I was in my first semester in my final year in the university before i was forced to abandon school (I did dumb stuff) and it took me 2 and a half years to go back and start again although by then i was already earning some money on my own from skill sets i picked up.
You might be in a bad place at the moment but just know it is not the end of the road, as long as you don't give up on yourself then you can still make it in life and achieve whatever you aim for, trust me. The mind is the most powerful weapon in the world, use it wisely. Do away with negative thoughts, they are not good for you. Try not to think about the wrong/bad things that have happened to you. Suicide is OFF the table.

Thank you very much, i really appreciate your kind and thoughtful words.

TUANKU:
Okay. First thing you need to know that suicide is not an option, let's begin from there.
Secondly, how old are you? Just want to know before i share my story with you.

Thank you very much, I'm 27 and the sole provider for four siblings and my mum.

Hezzyluv:
Oga......

4get about what people are saying. Go learn skills school no dey run. People go just talk taya ni. If you finish learn skills and you start to dey make money, na them go still talk and use you as example.

And, if I may ask, what do you mean by "you lost your studentship"?


Lastly, with what you have written, you sound like someone who may not know the next step after your NYSC. I heard of people crying after the scheme because alawee stoped.

I already have two jobs, i'm taking care of four siblings. The studentship is i lost my admission.

TUANKU:
Your account was just registered today, how can one be sure you are for real and not just another NL tipu?

Please i don't know what an NL tipu means i just need advice on what i'm going through.

Please i don't know what an NL tipu means i just need advice on what i'm going through.

I need help because I'm depressed and really down mentally. I had an extra year and i tried but couldn't still graduate due to so many factors, now i have lost my studentship and i don't know how to redeem myself and serve too. Please help, i need advice or an alternative. But apart from that I'm a 27 years old female, and the sole provider of my family of four siblings and a mum, so i have something i'm doing, i'm just really depressed for losing my admission after wasted years and trying to recover it.

Please where can i study online? I would appreciate it. People just keep asking why i haven't served, taunting me. It's denying me of certain well paying jobs too.