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Romance / Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by madewin(m): 12:37pm On Jan 23, 2019
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Romance / PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by madewin(m): 10:48pm On Jan 22, 2019
Pls I need some tips on how to toss a girl.
Yeah I know is funny enough to make one cry but I have to come out of my small pride bcuz am obviously dying inside me.
I met a gal last year after closing 4rm work, we were waiting 4 a bus, unlike the usual me I confronted her, though at first, did not know wot to say or do rather than saying hi, but thank God she seems to be interested in me and replied with her name. She did all the talking as if she was the one toasting me, obviously, even though I am a novies, cud tell she was into me.
We got very close later on, that's abt 2 months down the line, up to the extent she visit me frequently but I couldn't tell her how I feel not bcuz I wasn't bold enough (depending on how u see it) rather I didn't know which words to use, I av never woe a gal successfully with words dat eventually, she excepted me, tried few times, but, well I just accepted my fate (i.e I may never av a gf). With time I was friend zone, fully aware of wot was going on but cud nt let d flame out bcuz I dnt av d matches stick, I couldn't approach my friends cuz they will mock me 4 the rest of my life, all I did was jux to wallow in pain, watching another guy do wot I wasn't man enough to do.
Why can't I toast a gal?
I was a polytechnic graduate from ozoro, delta state.
Studied civil engineering, with only abt 3 to 4 gals as course mate (if u know any engineering friend/guy, u will get wot am trying to say), though during my ND I wasn't much into gals not to talk about dating, because I didn't care more or less, at then, with the whole of campus one composing of the faculty of engineering only!, u will hardly see any lady apart from the iron feast once lolz.
When I started my HND program, it was then I noticed a niche in me, relating to dating. I was bothered bcuz I could not call a lady 4rm the other side, didn't know what to say to her, I don't really have female friends only guys bcuz of d nature of my department.
This made me do some silly things then like going to campus 2 for no reason than finding a gal to woe lolz, campus 2 which host the other faculties with plenty of ladies there (as crazy as it sounds, yeah), in fact it was blif that if u ar finding a woman /gf, d Best and important place to search for one was campus 2, this was the same campus through out my OND (ND) I didn't step foot in.
I actually did get some gals contact then, but all ended up in, well u know, in case u don't, "in failure ". Did everything I cud, am actually was an introvert (through out my ND) but this somehow now place me inbetween the line of intro- and extro-vert, bcuz I started going to places, places I weren't dreaming of going to b4. While trying to av a gf, I can't seem to denial the fact that I was exposed, to things I wouldn't care about b4, it actually upgraded my life for good, but didn't stop me from being gf-less (girlfriend less).
Graduated, did my nysc, still don't know how to woe a gal, watching someone from nowhere taking d gal I did love but didn't know how to express myself, was d last straw of it.

Pls guys I jux need some tricks on how to go about woeing a lady.

ur opinions are welcomed with good Heart including those who will insult, Note: no one is perfect so I tk God beg u, I nor come here 4 u to correct my grammar
Biko !!!!





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