men dey come talk

If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

Kolo may thunder fire you there what are you begging for. Justice must be served these men are evil. Making our country soo hard to live in. God will punish you kolo haruna for begging for forgiveness

the name Seun sounds like APC

Boys are play the sex tourist card with white women any thing to escape poverty becos country is hard

Chai I can imagine the look on Steve's face when he found out this deep sh.t

sorry sir oo oga adult. You know what I am talking about even though I choose to be sarcastic about it. The truth is that the unrulybehaviour and criminal life style of some fewblack over there also add to what prospective travellers suffer. Also The narrative of some few NGO looking for grants and some media houses looking for foreign sponsors made many western citizens and organisations think Africa is all forest where animals live or a big slum where destitute live . See I no fit talk jare

Mummyfour:
this comment is for childish people that don't know what they want out of life and not for serious minded people like me
Reading my post from beginning to end will definitely convince you that I am not one of those you alluded to
Thank you

PeachtreeReside:




There are people who have made millions from businesses too....


Nigerians are NIGERIA'S problems.


We need a change in attitude and mindset.

yeah I can testify to that

isabi2lof:


Honestly, since then , I do give up easily in a relationship, because my previous relationship taught me how to cope alone in a relationship, if you don't reach out to me for awhile, I will just be fine with it , sometimes I don't even know if I'm in a relationship or not , before you know I will just call it a quit..

then look for friendship first before love. You need to keep healthy friendship that will grow into something romantic. Don't give up on love. Then you should learn to need help or rather allow people assist you do things even things you know you can handle by urself. This will really help.

PeachtreeReside:
I read with great sadness of the people who having sold all their belongings to The UK only to get there and not be able to work or work enough to pay their bills both in the UK and in Nigeria.

I have seen videos of Nigerians who in Nigeria were well to do but due to several factors chief of which is peer pressure succumbed to this decade's Japa Wave and are now caught in between The Devil and The Deep Blue Sea.


Most cannot afford to come back and continue the lives they interrupted because they do not have anything to fall back on or to.

https://www.nairaland.com/7813973/uk-skilled-worker-visa-story



It was sad to see Professionals here in Nigeria become Carers, Cleaners and I wondered if there parents are not wondering why give a child an Education if the said child would run away to another country to do a job that he or she would not have dared to do in Nigeria.



Inasmuch as i love the UK, the ambience, the well planned settings and all, I am not fooled to think that they are issuing visas out of love or concern.


They are pooling in funds into their Economy and it is a gamble that they have played knowing that a percentage of those who come in will go back without being able to achieve the aim of getting that coveted British Pssport cum Citizenship.


Definitely not a loss to the UK Government as their policies are notorious for being changed at will to favour them whilst putting people in peril.


The cunning of The British is something we need to study... Same cunningness that led them to colonising countries bigger than theirs is a kind of juju in my opinion.

If you can raise millions of Naira into servitude, why can't one channel those funds into an Industry that The Lebanese, Indians and Co are thriving?


Not all can japa, so what next?



I remember those IG Japa Professionals who spurred a lot of people on and grew their YouTube pages with all sorts of information, they arr laughing and dancing to the banks with their earnings.



I wish we had a group of people who will encourage us to know how to build our Country for a better today and tomorrow.



N.B

This post is not about advising people not to japa ooo.


Just think about it and pray we'll before you go ahead is why I wrote this post.

there are people who have raised money in millions to start business in Nigeria and nothing came out of it. Staying and spending money in Nigeria will not be a problem if you can see what u spend your money on. There were times foreign degree is more preferred than Nigerian degrees for employment in Nigerian owned companies. Put government aside Nigerians add to the problem we have

Thomasankara:
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its here already. Check well

Baba GO work. Thank you Tinubu for Umahi.

My ministers to look out for is Ezenwo Wike and David Umahi. These men will make us proud.

isabi2lof:


Alpha male and feminist stuffs especially here on NL will do more harm than good in the nearest future ..

Honestly, if someone has told me before, that I will still be single by now , I will say it's a lie , cos to me , I thought I was in a committed relationship but then life happens..

I literally saw those red flags , should I say I was being naive then or I was thinking it was true love , even if he's coming back with private jet to marry me now ,I don't want to ever end up with him , I was traumatized in that relationship,to the extent my family was like I'm the one forcing myself on him , someone that's older than me with good eight years , during those period , I wasn't finding anything interesting ..

What pains me the most was that , he made me look foolish in the eyes of my family, cuz the more I was covering up for him , the more he was exposing his weakness to them to crown it all , he doesn't listen to advice..

The truth is that I was ready to be with him despite knowing his weakness, he's this kind of person that , you must tell him what to do before he will actually knows what to do ,once I decided not to say or do anything, this guy will stay like that , without moving an inch .. .it gets to point, I was like , it seems I'm the man in this relationship, and that's not what I need , I actually want my man to lead why I follow..

if I will talk to u privately it would have be nice. Becos with thus mind set you may face the same issue in your next relationship or you may meet an alpha male who thinks he is smart too. Then you both end up having heated arguments all the time

Leave that girl focus on ur wife. There is nothing more than relationship. Your relationship is what you say it is. The definition you give it is what it will be. Don't let anyone blackmail

Bigchristo:
the ones wey dey this generation wan use billing kee men oo, na next generation or other generation go enjoy that 7 women to one man prophecy if it later comes to pass

baba na help meet God promise us oo. He said for it I not good for a man to be alone I will make him a help meet na wetin God tell Adam. Na to find those ones ooo

Zxcvbnmghtr:


You are still saying the same thing. It's still all about women. All the hard work is all about us.

yeah for the good ones. God didn't not make man to be alone. He said it. For its not good for a man to be alone. I will make him a help meet. So if you fall in the category of a help meet them be glad for a good man is working hard and grooming himself for you.

fineberry:
bro, I don't understand the prepare for the future that you seems to emphasize o....Asin men should not give up love: is that you're saying?

No bro not love but they should not give up on themselves. Self development is key. Having a good personality will make a man marketable any day. There are ladies everywhere fighting to be with a goof man, I mean good ladies all they need is a man of worth a man that has values... don't die in the hand of one foolish, unstable , undecisive girl all in the name of love. Beta women full everywhere u won't see them cos u are still trying to meet up with silly love demand of one confused girl. Focus on you be polished and alive
you will meet better woman who will not cheat on you or block you on social media because of Tfare or sub. Some of us can't date those children talk less of using them as side check.

Zxcvbnmghtr:


You really think you have made sense? Honest you haven't. Let me explain. Firstly, the woman who wanted to commit suicide is as a result of a broken marriage which made her depressed.

Secondly, ordega is making her own projection based on her feminity in a sport that requires some masculinity in relation to womanhood.

To you having so many women is an achievement in life? You are here advicing men to work hard inorder to have as many women as 7 or more?

SHE IS ONLY BEING HER NATURAL SELF. ACTING ON HER BIOLOGICAL TRAITS, simply as A,B,C .

I didn't come to make sense. I speak reality. You really don't know what happens in the world of men my dear so there is no way you will understand what I wrote. The goal is not to have many women but to have themselves groomed for the future.
The reason you are a side chick to a married man is because you found a man who have taken time to work hard and groom himself. His yesterday future has become your today Mr dream man if he died of heart break you probably be single now.

the matter is critical. One day the table will turn.
You also forgot to add those of you that travel stay just one month in America the next day you are shouting I wanna wanna on the streets of America disturbing the innocent citizens una hand dey too.

Nazgul:
I didn't modify o, I was booking space. In case the mods carry it to front page, so that by the time I post I won't land on page 3 or 4. 😏

these are the kind of people who book space everywhere. Church, Bank, train,

Izunna Okafor so this kind of thing happened to a man and you choose to report it with big big grammar. Please What is your problem.

This is what I try to make men understand on this forum but most of them can't spot it.
Some weeks ago a very successful woman wanted to jump into the lagoon cos of man. That is just one out of many who have gone beyond just thinking suicide to attempting it. This is another successful lady thinking about settling down. My point still remains that being successful will not make a woman forget or kill her need of a man. Am not talking about the perverts who claim feminist online but are craving for a man's touch. My advice is this guys look beyond social media groom yourself, work hard and be ready for the future. 7 women will still say let us bear your name we don't need your money. Please guys don't die now stay alive for the future.

Law fears no sentiment. Abuja is in a state of mess a clean up action is the best for abuja

A man can become a beast when
1. His respect due him is not given
2. When he feels handicapped by his wife
3. Some is frustration.
I think husbands needs emotional support

They should give us the respect that we deserve as Africans. They can't be making this much and not respect the African nations

since she is in London no problem let justice prevail.

he is going to study in white man land. People he promised body bags.

The annoying part of this kind of thread is that many of those posting and the OP will soon start blaming the youth and calling them lazy.

In Nairaland everyone na professor until you quote them

post the one on tinubu