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Miss_Ife: I am very surprised, to say the least, that you considered having s.ex with your 28 yrs old boyfriend without any of you thinking about protection ! Haven't you had at least some basic s.ex ed class ?

Anyways, what is done, is done. There are some things that you need to do ASAP, no matter how hard it seems. First you HAVE to talk to your parents. Then, you must see a doctor, to confirm the pregnancy but also to run some tests to make sure that you didn't catch any disease while having unprotected s.ex. Remember that most of the STDs need to be checked twice with a three month interval in between. If you have the opportunity to, you can also let your boyfriend know, though I doubt on his support.

Your life will never be the same, that you need to understand, that doesn't mean that things won't turn out fine eventually, but you are in for a rough ride now. You need to be strong and take responsibility for your action.

thank you ms ife. u have given me the best advice so far u seem understanding i hope my parents r like you. i am just so scared that they will disown me. what if they kick me out the house? me n my bf use the pull out method, he says as long as he pulls out b4 he comes then i wont fall pregnant but i dunno wat happend cus he pulls out wen have sex.

seriallink: So u are still talking huh? What is not fair here? Aren't u supposed to be in school.. U come let old man dey fire u...yeye girl!

he isnt that much older than me. he turned 28 in may n i turned 15 in january so he is just like less than 13yrs older which isnt to bad bcus my dad is 15yrs older than my mom. n i dont look 15, i matured b4 most of my mates n my bf says im more mature than most 25yr olds.

omg!!! u guys r bein mean to me please u guys r scaring me more n im gona start crying again. i kno my bf loves me bcus he tells me so all the time and we waited to have sex when i was ready. he didnt pressurize me like other guys try to, he waited until i had turned 15 n was comfortable so you see he does love me. if he didnt love me he wouldnt have waited. what do u guys think my parents will do to me? i am so scared. i dont kno how i am going to look them in the eyes again.

omg y r u bein so mean to me. its not fair. i didnt ask or pray to b pregnant. all i want/need is just some advice or atleast reassurance that everything will be ok so i can atleast go to bed n stop worryin.

my name is salvation and i am very scared and cant sleep because i have fallen pregnant. i started dating my boyfriend last yr and we have been having sex for 7 months now. my parents dont know that i am dating the guy because i am not allowed to have a boyfriend yet and also because my boyfriend is 28yrs old. i love him and he loves me and he says that age is noting but a number so we shouldnt allow it to keep our love from each other. i started getting my period at 12yrs and i havent missed a month until last month so this evening i used a pregnancy test to check n it read positive and i have been crying ever since because i know i have disappointed my parents especally since i am the first child. my boyfriend doesnt know yet that i am pregnant and i am scared to tell my parents bcus i dont want them to send my bf to jail because i really love him and want to be with him. i have also been thinking about just telling my bf so i can get an abortion but i am so scared that i mite die in the process or not be able 2 hv kids later. i am asking u all for help bcus i hv read some stuff on this thread eversince i started suspectin i was pregnant n most of u all are older nigerian people n some r nigerian parents so u all might have some good advice 4 me since my parents are also nigerian.