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Religion / Re: Prophet Odumeje Was Slapped & Beaten By Security During His Church Demolition by magicminister: 4:22pm On Jul 07, 2022
iiifedimma:
In as much as am never one of his church member, what is bad is bad, they shouldn't have beat him. There's no any joy in losing a properties this country is getting worse


What was the need for beating him up? Was that part of the mission? This country can never learn. Was he resisting them from doing their job? Was there any prior order for evaluation? What is all this pls


What soludo did was totally wrong am not against him demolishing his church but ordered his men to humiliates, harassed and beat odumeje up is totally wrong..


Clearly, you didn’t watch the video. They never harassed or slapped him. It appears they were placating him even.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Mass Shooting At July 4 Holiday Block Party In Gary, Indiana. 10 shot, 3 dead by magicminister: 11:56pm On Jul 05, 2022
KingOfTheDamned:
Probably gang violence . Likely a rival gang decided to shoot up the party ...

So Unfortunate

Gang violence cos they’re black? Keep going!
Health / Re: Nigerian Doctor, Isyaka Mamman Jailed For Killing Patient In The UK by magicminister: 9:15pm On Jul 05, 2022
GreatAxeMan:
Abóki "doctor" thought that federal character and quota system works in the British National Health Service. grin


SHAME ON YOU!!
Anyone that qualified to become a doctor -even in Nigeria- is incredibly hardworking.
Doctors are not immune to mistakes but the difference between a white and black doctor is that the black ones are jailed and barred from Medicine when they make mistake.
What was his work load that day? Was it a new patient or a patient he had in his care?
There are some many factors to consider before you write him off!
Education / Re: Nigerian Pupils Make Dresses With Needle And Thread (Photos) by magicminister: 6:27am On Jul 05, 2022
SultanOfPuna:
Should be Teaching these Kids Programming, web design and Computer graphics..
WTF is this
This is 2022 not 1955

We have over 23 million tailors in Nigeria,
Dem suppose flog that teacher walahi
So she is proud that she taught kids how to sew cloth

While Kids in China are already creating Apps, and softwares. Nonesense 
Lets not celebrate mediocrity


A well rounded school will provide the resources for students to learn various skills they may need to thrive. No be everybody go be programmer and scientist! We still need fashion designers, we need musicians, we need so many other skills!! Relax

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Nairaland / General / Re: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by magicminister: 5:42am On Jun 29, 2022
Travicon:
Hello Nairalanders,
I will try as much as possible to make the write-up short.

I am a 21years old guy at a Russian university with two Nigerian roommates (In the hostel though). We averagely get the same amount of money as an allowance monthly, but mine always finishes first.

I don't spend unnecessarily on myself, and we cook together. I discovered after two months of staying together that they care less about buying things that we generally use in the room. For instance, I always buy food season, detergents, and cooking oil (quite expensive).

I cook most of the time. Anytime I decide not to cook, we always go hungry and I can't cope with that. This has made my cash always run out faster and I can't stop them from eating my food or using the things I buy.

There was a time also I lend the last money with me (100k in naira) to my best friend then in Nigeria because he claimed his dad was sick and promised to repay by month-end. I didn't have anything to take me through the remaining days of the month but I gave it out because he was a close friend. Month-end, I couldn't get money from my sponsor because of some issues. I contacted my guy but he stopped replying to me on WhatsApp. I managed to get 20k but the rest is probably history now.

Whenever people talk about their problems, I always feel for them to the extent of giving out my money even if it's the last cash on me. I have never had a girlfriend, but I don't always have the strength to reject if a girl asks for airtime or money from me (including my mum and sisters though)

I always try to go to any length to see people happy even if it means borrowing money from another person for them. I'm that foolish. Generally, I'm too soft-hearted and nice but I don't know how to solve this problem. Someone advised me I should get a girlfriend who should always be angry with me if I'm being too nice to people and that will help me solve the problem to some extent but I think it won't.

I'm not from a rich family, not even from an average family. I'm even from a polygamous home so I know what it means to have suffered as a Nigerian. I was on the street and I guess that's what is making me this weak emotionally. I'm a simp all-around in my life and relationship with people. People are always cheating on me, taking advantage of who I am.

I NEED genuine HELP, please.

These days, I rarely comment but I saw your cry for help and I hope you get to read this:

Understand that you are not too nice! However, you have a deep rooted need to be loved or appreciated or wanted or needed.
Unfortunately, this makes you overcompensate with your generosity despite your very limited resources.
This can put you in a very uncomfortable and even dangerous situation; you are seen as an easy outlet for everyone and their problems.

The question you need to answer truthfully to yourself:

1- Who is there for me when I need them?
2- Who can I confide in during my times of need?
3- Who is a recurring drain on my limited resources?

Keep #1 and #2 close and pour the love they put into you, back into them as well.
#3 are people you need to either keep at arms length or cut off entirely.

Also, remember that the problems of the world will never finish and be you alive or dead, people will always have their problems.


Finally, for your room mates, you need to have a meeting on how they can contribute to the upkeep of the resources.
Since you already cook, how about you volunteer to cook three times a week but they provide the resources.
That way, you save the money and when they do not provide the resources, you can eat out.
Should they refuse your proposal or offer an unacceptable arrangement, then put your foot down and protect your resources.

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Celebrities / Re: Jackie Appiah’s Luxury Mansion Will Amaze You, Check Out The Interiors by magicminister: 6:38pm On Jun 25, 2022
Nigerian developers could never design something like this! Even the houses in banana island that are more expensive than Jackie’s house are so ugly. !

Jackie’s house is so beautiful and Nigerian developers have a whole lot to learn!

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Crime / Re: Peter Nielsen To Die By Hanging For Killing Nigerian Wife, Daughter by magicminister: 11:54pm On May 20, 2022
Jesus, I was just researching this case last week.
I was thinking they probably let him escape because he is white and a foreign National. To my utmost delight, he was still in jail and going through the court cases! Im happy justice has been served! Will not bring the woman and child back!
I’ll be happy to watch his execution!
Crime / Re: A Mob Action Witnessed In Lagos: 2 Armed Robbers Burnt To Death (Graphic Photos) by magicminister: 8:42am On May 12, 2022
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Urheadmaster:
For these modern day jungle justice is still treading among us in Nigeria

No thanks to the authorities that failed the citizens.

People no longer rely on them since they decide to collaborate with armed robbers and kidnappers nowadays in Nigeria angry shocked sad

The citizens now chooses to barbeque any suspicious persons without proper investigation angry shocked

If you look over the course of 50 years, we haven’t made any progress

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Politics / Re: PDP Abandons Zoning, Throws Presidency Open by magicminister: 4:23am On May 12, 2022
In spirit of fairness, ibos should be given a shot!

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Sports / Re: Paul Pogba Celebrates Eid Mubarak With His Wife, Zulay by magicminister: 4:01pm On May 04, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


my brother.... the wife is LATINA (Bolivian), and whether white/latina/asian or black, they all know the law! he could be married to an African woman and the outcome would be the same!


No woman on earth can understand the struggles of a African man like an African woman!!!
Travel / Re: Warri-Bayelsa-PortHarcourt Link Road: The Worst Road In South-South Nigeria by magicminister: 4:33pm On Apr 06, 2022
freshkpomo:
Southerners ate slaves,they love slavery that's why their life will remain like this. Their leaders are slaves to the North, they sell their people for 2cent, they comeback home and some agberos start ahouth "Up chair, ISSA national leader there" just to feed on little crumbs. These crumbites do the dirty job and sell the rest of their people left.

Those in the military are worse, they ass lick their northerner Ogas even if they are killing everyone in their town..

South should be renamed after Uthsman Dan Fodio because logically it is alrdday a conquered territory!

What has the North got to do with this? Regardless of the jurisdiction the road falls under, no state government should allow any road in his state to deteriorate to this point!
Travel / Re: Ebonyi International Airport Runway In Progress by magicminister: 7:54am On Apr 06, 2022
This one is for their private jets cos no commercial airline is coming there!

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