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SweetCunt97:
being alone and lonely are different things?

cococandy:
The fact that you’re drawing a parallel between crimes and the choice to stay single tells all the reason why a thread like this is necessary.

You folks say you don’t shame single women. But that’s all you do.

Zabiboy:
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Its a proven FACT.
All the women the OP used had at least a child irrespective of their decision not to get married
Linda ikeji has a child
Genevieve has a child
Okonji-iweala has a child
Cardi B has a child
Nicky-minaj left music to focus on family
Tiwa savaga has a child...
All the women above can do without marriage (some are even divorcees)....yet they knew that having a child is IMPORTANT....
So if you still believe a woman can be fulfilled without a child ( hers/adopted), then go ahead and be that woman..
GL
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Vyolet:
Op, you forgot to include Rita Dominic, she has never been married and we don't know if she has a child yet.

Arthur2021:
you people blame society always for not making your choices. If you continue to depend on society opinion of you that's your problem.

I know many unmarried ladies from nigeria in their 30s and 40s and no one bullies them for it.

People's opinions will always be there,waiting for their approval before making a choice is you ladies problem.

Since society did this or that, if you are waiting for society to embrace your choices then wait for eternity. Because in as much as you have the right to your choices they have the right to see things as they see

Romangalactic:
Continue quoting and highfiving yourself kaamisha/monishaa/eghee

merahki:
Africans who have swallowed the Bible and Koran in their entireties, complaining about western and other cultures shaping our views
Oh the supreme Irony

mrblessed:
Hmm. So much contagious energy. I never implied she should settle down with someone below her preference, what I opined is her undisguised wish to be "wifed" by a man. Therefore, it amazes me how you completely ignore such unambiguous line while launching your missile. Even she had to, she won't be the first person to make such sacrifice for "love." Men and women do it almost on daily basis.

Bojack:
Nice thread, still waiting for unmarried men

merahki:
I am literally falling in love with many Nairalanders these days, for their posts
From so many angles, many, many women, some men, all beautiful, empathetic and intelligent souls. I feel blessed anytime I come across real posts reflecting these qualities. When you see love in posts, you just know. It is accepting and kind and non-judging.
I am becoming Agapelistically or filialistically polyamoral


(That probably makes no sense but it does, to me )