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folake4u:
I'm sorry, I don't want to talk to you outside Nairaland.

Looool and who told you I entertain catcalls from men who approach me on the way? I don't even answer those ones. Matter of fact, an ex-lover had told me that if we had both met on the street, I wouldn't have given him audience which is 10000% true.

My male friends who know me very well do not call me past 9/10pm except it's an emergency, and that rarely happens too.

It's like you don't get it. The people I'm even talking about are men that I have to deal with strictly because work brought us together but now they're deviating and losing focus.

Tenrack:
😭😭🤣 Guy relax. She fit no be your spec. You're getting carried away by what she said about herself. Lmao.

folake4u:
@ the bolded. Says who??!!

Please speak for the women you know.

I have short attention span but since the beginning of this year, it has been worse and my WhatsApp DMs are a mess, I respond to some and ignore some. My head FULL.

I have had men start chasing me since I was in primary/secondary school, my body matured quite early which didn't help matters and till date, I am still not used to Men's attention. It DRAINS ME infact. It is tiring.

Due to the number of irrelevant messages I receive from your gender, I don't pick calls from random men once it passes 9/10pm. The exception is close family, friends, gist buddies or the LOML.

Only today, I've received numerous chats from men folks but let me show you just two examples.

The first picture: He's a professional senior colleague, an opposing counsel whom I came in contact with while representing my client. I've only met him once at the police station in course of discharging my services but since then, he has decided to be a nuisancé in my DM. Yesterday, he said he wanted to hang out on a weekend and I'm like "I can only spare 4hrs of my time" and he's saying it's small? And goes ahead to say gibberish. I simply ignored him, he texted me this morning and I didn't respond.
PS: I've warned him severally that I'm not interested but he's a phóôl. I can't even block him because I still need to work with him.

The last picture is an Alhaji in ______ Group of Companies. I came in contact with him through work. I wonder how he attained to the height of his career with his bad written English. This one sef I can't block him because I work with him. But yet he acts unprofessional.


So yeah. Not every woman desires male attention from unwanted men.

folake4u:
@ the bolded. Says who??!!

Please speak for the women you know.

I have short attention span but since the beginning of this year, it has been worse and my WhatsApp DMs are a mess, I respond to some and ignore some. My head FULL.

I have had men start chasing me since I was in primary/secondary school, my body matured quite early which didn't help matters and till date, I am still not used to Men's attention. It DRAINS ME infact. It is tiring.

Due to the number of irrelevant messages I receive from your gender, I don't pick calls from random men once it passes 9/10pm. The exception is close family, friends, gist buddies or the LOML.

Only today, I've received numerous chats from men folks but let me show you just two examples.

The first picture: He's a professional senior colleague, an opposing counsel whom I came in contact with while representing my client. I've only met him once at the police station in course of discharging my services but since then, he has decided to be a nuisancé in my DM. Yesterday, he said he wanted to hang out on a weekend and I'm like "I can only spare 4hrs of my time" and he's saying it's small? And goes ahead to say gibberish. I simply ignored him, he texted me this morning and I didn't respond.
PS: I've warned him severally that I'm not interested but he's a phóôl. I can't even block him because I still need to work with him.

The last picture is an Alhaji in ______ Group of Companies. I came in contact with him through work. I wonder how he attained to the height of his career with his bad written English. This one sef I can't block him because I work with him. But yet he acts unprofessional.


So yeah. Not every woman desires male attention from unwanted men. If u don't mind we talk on WhatsApp. Rules stands. No changing of the narrative. And if u can't do the WhatsApp chat, then let me give u some advise. Try and cut off guys from chatting and calling u at all times except the bosses u work with. I mean only official issues. And see the truth staring back at u.

ukaface:
Na so
Who told you this?

Ashirioluwa:
There is nothing new in this hairstyle.

CharleyBright:
Will they parade the python if it kills the man or any person?
Africans and senseless traditions.
In this time and age, some people are still believing and aligning with deities?
Ibos still doing Dibias and Ezenwanyis upandan.

Manny21:
After looting their state dry. The praise and worship are for who exact? God? Very laughable

raskymonojendor:
She did not switch off her phone when told to do so..
She claimed that the air hostess hit her first but there is no video evidence. The only video we have circulating is of her slapping the air hostess and her cloth were already torn around that time. And her getting dragged by Ibom air staff out of the plane..

Gbadugbakun:
This is very wrong and stingy of him, why not invite someone and pay them. Why perform on your own wedding. This is why Cain killed Abel 😒

EvilMerodack:
Guy rest, or just move to your homestate and if you are originally from Lagos, then continue to live there till end of time

I d-e-t-e-s-t seeing people say s--h-i-t about the place they stay

See as he group an entire city into one, like say everybody for IB dey copy character from their neighbours to live

shegzhkn:
Wow! this is crazy. Please be safe.