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LivingFree:




*whispers* close your mouth, your teeth are too white, it's bringing attention to us

Okay dear.

LivingFree:
You and me of all people, who send us

Nobody jare. Wetin concern us sef.

LivingFree:
And you come here just to shine teeth so let me join you

Your teeth is even whiter than mine. Let's flaunt it joor.

2sexynet:
Since 12 PM baba... Nobody comment for your thread.

How far na. I just switch to this handle among the numerous ones na him I see ur post.

Longest time bro. I know u are balling hard for Yankee...

boiz2men:
I think she's still here and prolly lost her phone or number. She also prolly doesn't want to reconnect.

I can't believe I am missing her troubles

Last seen was may 30. I wouldn't want to conclude like that tho.
We all miss her.

boiz2men:

I still sent her a message today and no reply yet. Calls don't go.

cruchenutii:
Ok. You're still in school I guess?

I think you should go & start writing on BellaNaija if you are really serious about this thing.
You can try to find her contact & write some free articles for her If possible just to show your skills. I use to have her contact before when my company was paying for Ads on her platform, not anymore. but I think she is not that hard to reach.

Also start writing personally on Medium.com. Then use it as portfolio.

One thing I don't like about literate writers is that their Articles are mostly too long & does keep the reader all through, but since you can actually perfect this. Biko use this opportunity & build a portfolio before leaving school.

I'll resume school September this year, but I'm currently working. That takes most of my time. I'll consider this dear, now is that very busy time of my life. But before I resume school, I'll start working out something with this brilliant idea.

Thanks for your concern and encouragement dear, I really appreciate it.
You can check out more of my works via the link in my signature.

boiz2men:
Hi.

Is Aderola or black hawk OK?


Haven't seen her around here

I've tried reaching her all to no avail.

donjobill:
OK!
We thank God that all is safe with you.

Amen.

cruchenutii:
Hey girl, wait...did you actually write this all by yourself ?

Just seeing this Post now & the Important thing to note is you kept the reader's focus from beginning to end.

Welldone. Btw, are you literature student?

Lol, sure I did. Most if not all, my articles here are written by me.

Thanks dear, yes I am.

LesbianBoy:
Meanwhile makydebbie your hips is getting bigger hope it's not what i am thinking! Boys sef

What are you thinking? Lol

JixNation:
Leave the hermaphrodite to deal with his/her madness.

Lol, I don leave am jare.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yuck! I'm bound to step on people's toes as long as time permits. I'm controversial. You'd better deal with that, Ghanian beauty!

Spits too!

Stop forcing it, nobody has noticed or even cares.
Have a nice day.
I pray you get what you give.

N0favors:
To think a female typed such horrible thing

I'm totally disgusted honestly.

UyaiIncomparabl:
C'mon! Stop crying over spilt milk now, okay?
Let this pass please. Let me rest.

This is not crying over spilt milk. This is just being bitter and trying to rub it on innocent people. If you don't want to vote, you move on without using derogatory words to kill someone's spirit. Your nonsensical words, do you know what it would've done to this op? This is cyberbullying and to think a lady would go this low.

We all know being savage is the new new but don't be stupid about it.
Spits.

N0favors:
This is low.

Honestly. She doesn't even know how stupid that comment is.

UyaiIncomparabl:
That was even mild.

And totally unnecessary.

donjobill:
Thought u were celebrating ur birthday in your hometown "eve land" (Volta Region) and not in Accra.

Lol, I currently reside and work at Accra.
Can't go there for a birthday celebration.

JixNation:
Hello Makydbbie.

I heard there was a flood in Accra, hope you're safe?

Yes my dear, I'm very safe.

Thanks for the care.

MissJoy29:
A happy belated birthday to you dear. This shall be the least achievement you will celebrate. May you continue to climb higher & higher. Age gratefully.

Thanks dear.
Amen.

austyn0:
Yeah,, we all do....

You are gonna need a brother as well,, not just God

Yes, sure.

Done.

austyn0:
Yeah,, you are tryna be realistic,,,quite understandable.

Yes dear.

Just trying to be on the safe side.
I only need God in this life.

austyn0:
I understand your point.....

But he made vital points using a family story....

It isn't a must you must be the giver and try not to expect a reciprocity,, but you are entitled to some mandatory expectancy...

That family story sef ehn, I'll say we shouldn't depend or bank on family lol. Based on personal experience.


I understand your last statement but like I said, life is already unfair and not a bed of roses where we get what we want.

swiz123:
When Someone helps us, we tend to naturally become indebted to them. When opportunity comes that we help them, we tend to feel obligated to help them back. That we chose not to help doesn't make it right; they chose to expect help from us because they helped us doesn't mean they are wrong.

I expect help from you doesn't mean I won't seek for other means if things goes south. But, there is nothing wrong in feeling entitiled to one's help. The problem comes when we choose to dwell on these feelings when the entitlement isn't forth-coming.

If you believe so much with your views, I fear you might be unruly compelled not to beg for help when need be.

I agree with the part that, when someone helps us, we naturally become indebted to them. Now that I'm saying is, life is already unfair. Life has different twist and turns. You could help Mr A because you feel when you're in need, Mr A will be there for you, only to get disappointed because like I said, humans are unpredictable. So if I help the whole world, I'm going to do it because it's the right thing to do. And it's up to them to help. If you feel entitled all the time, you'll lose on many opportunities and get depressed in the long run.

Why wait for someone when you can do it yourself?

I'll beg for help, but I won't beg because I've once helped you before. I'll beg because I know you've what I need and could help me with it. But it's all up to you to help me out.

Sorry for my late reply, I'm currently at a poor network zone.

DonPiiko:
Sorry

Thanks dear, it's okay.

I don't know why I didn't get the mention.

If we help a friend in a difficult situation, possibly, financially; we have every right to expect help from them when role's reversed. "one good turn deserves another" they say. So, technically, they owe us one

Each person is living for him/herself.


When I offer someone a favor, I don't offer because I'm hoping when I need help, you'll automatically be there for me. You may end up disappointed. If you're going with this ideology while helping someone, you'll get discouraged and disappointed because we humans are unpredictable. And truthfully, it's up to the person to help us. You've done your part for humanity, don't expect a reward. You're not entitled to any trust me. If one comes fine, if it doesn't, move on.

Now, is it wrong to feel entitled to get conceivable capital from big BRO? -- Of course not. Doesn't our big bro owe us a thing? -- of course he does.

You can expect something from your brother in this case. But don't bank on it! Whatever the case is, don't just sit down and wait for bro to remember you. There is nothing intrinsically wrong with you having expectations of others for help or whatsoever. But the fact remains that even if he's the richest man in the world, it is still totally up to him to decide whether to help you out financially.

In this life, we're all responsible for our actions. And that happens individually. If you failed at life while waiting for your brother to help you, then it's all your fault. Solely yours.
We owe ourselves by being responsible to ourselves. No one will do that for us. No one owes us a thing. I'm sorry, I get your point, but I stand by mine.


We're definitely responsible for everything that happens to us, life is one big injustice and we've to accept it. Even life doesn't owe us an explanation if we fail.

AyamConfidence:
if 80% of the girls in Africa were like you or even almost like you....then Africa would have been beautiful

All the best girl... conquer

Awwn.
Thanks dear.. Amen

AyamConfidence:
this Ghana girl oooo I'm in love

Sorry I'm late.... congratulations on your book

More power

Thanks love.

Deshannel:
I hope they didn't break your heart?

The heavy heart I used to sleep last night ehn.

Chai this people score oh.

Proudly representing Nigeria. Go super eagles. We moveee.

Please win, let it be my birthday gift.