₦airaland Forum

slimjohn2k5:
Bro there are family members i dont talk to. Not that we quarreled but discussing with them is all negativity.
Surround urself with positive people and stay away from negative energy.

We are talking about "Mother" here and not just "family member"

mariovito:
All the answers you need are already in your post

I'm tired seriously.
Seriously

Kushites:
LAZY YOUTH. DON'T USE YOUR BRAIN LIKE YOUR MATES, AND MAKE IT. EVERYWHERE YOU GO THERE ARE PROBLEMS OF ONE KIND OR THE OTHER. NOT ONLY ''NIGERIA''. HOPELESS THINGS.

THERE ARE LOOKING FOR SLAVES IN LIBYA, SO YOU CAN GO THERE.

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Some of u just open your mouths waaaaaaaa to talk anyhow in public

It breaks my heart each time my mum calls to reveal some weird things to me.

Last year, someone from the city traveled to the village and when she asked the person about me, the person told her that I was going through serious hardship and that I had emaciated so badly. The person even went further to tell her that, while I was much younger, they had thought that my Destiny was going to be bright and they are disappointed that I haven't lived up to that expectation.
Only God can tell how bad I felt when I heard about this. I asked to know the person's identity, but she refused telling me till now. I got so angry that I hanged up the phone on her. I was like, how can a stranger, a non-relative have the audacity to say such about your own son and you being the mum couldn't shut her down? I was disappointed in her.

In November last year, she dreamt I was attacked and stabbed.

Just this night, she called to tell me how she dreamt of me been Naked in the dream.

I remember sometimes last year, I was sending her money almost twice every week. I notice that whenever I experience financial difficulties and I'm Unable to consistently send her money, she begins to get unnecessarily paranoid and premonitive.

She was supposed to go back to the hospital for check up on her breast issues, but since there has being no money yet, she's wondering why it is taking me this long to have money and send to her. I told her money can't always be available at all times. There are good times and there are bad and hard times. I even asked her to go take a loan from their women's meeting, and I will pay in bits till I completely offset it. What else?
I can't share my present situation with her cos she can't help me, and I also don't want to get her worried about me, so I just pretend as if I'm cool. But I'm in fact, not.
This is a woman who hasn't done anything for me aside birthing me, breastfeeding me and taking care of me till age 10. From age 10 till now, she hasn't being responsible to me or my younger ones. She expects so much from me and the pressure she's mounting on me is becoming increasingly troubling.
I'm a very emotional person and these things get to me seriously. Most times I try to avoid her calls because nothing good comes out of those calls except lamentations.
Let her negative dreams about me be kept only to herself please. I'm trying to change my line, so she can be unable to reach me. Whenever I need to hear from her, I'll hide my number and call her, then send her whatever I'm able to. My mental health is not in a good shape at this moment. The country is already hard and she's making it harder for me. Why all these negativities for God's sakes?

I want to ask, is this how your own mothers act towards you?

In my next world, I wouldn't want this kind of a mother abeg. Haba!

This is a woman who hasn't paid my fees before, or even given me any form of emotional or financial support. Even as an undergraduate, I was still the one sending her money.

I would have preferred my dad stayed alive while my mum died. Her matter don tire me abeg

datola:
These thieving politicians and landed properties!

My intestines are squeezing

See looting.
And some people are starving without a ray of hope.
Nigerian politicians, I pur una spit for face.

Imagine if he had served for 8 years?

realG101:
Smh, a president is only as influential as his country. Tinubu may have level as a local champion in Africa, but in the eye of the rest of the world, na boy.

You preside over arguably the poorest country in the world, that one na better president?

Nigeria is also the highest cluster of poor and wretched most people in the world.

If you've ever seen documentaries of Nigerians putting everything on the line, crossing Libya and the ocean just to escape from the evil Nigeria, you will know that Nigeria is no country to be proud of.

You're absolutely correct Bro.
I wish I could be taken to Europe or any African country even if it is for me to be a slave there. I'm tired of everything about this country

solreal450:
Some people sha,will they tell us that kemi is bigger than king of England

I wonder o.
The hatred is just too much

Elusive001:
Noooooo bros.

Naturally, thunder dey do press up to fire those who support Islamic terrorism and the hardship and suffering wey timibu keep for ground for Nigeria

Ok senior man. Bro the hardship is too much. Since today, if I tell u say I never Chaw,, u no go believe. Headache and fever too. Life tire me

Samantha125:
Why are you copying Malagans thread?

I tire o my sweetheart.
All these copy copy people, make God epp dem

Elusive001:
Nope.

Just stay one side so that thunder no go confuse.

Na u dey send the thunder?

Elibaba1:
How can you snub person wey no send your papa

If una no show una uncouthedness , una no dey rest.

Elusive001:
Really?

So do not dable into Tinubu’s side make thunder no fire you.

Stay one side bros.

Make I stay your side Abi?

dettolgel:
Na products wey get market you fit demarket

Rubbish

dettolgel:
Stop running your mouth, do it if e sure for una

Brother, good afternoon and happy WUkend

Skodiswayze:
Most populous black nation wei dey beg for loan, can’t you use your population for your betterment like India and China, keep fooling yourself. You’re comparing UK to Nigeria, when last has the UK political leaders visited Nigeria on a state visit. Most populous black nation who doesn’t have electricity that war torn Iran still boast of. Kemi is bigger than your garbage president globally that one that is being hand-escorted like a toddler all over Europe

I'm sorry Sir

TheStoriesOfMan:
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You like? You like what you see?

Bro, I am having serious headache right now

lordm:
How are you:

I am fine.


That's the biggest lie. "I am fine"

Especially by adults

Bro, I won't lie I'm not fine. If u love Humanity, do something

Rubbish award.

Do u know what people are going through right now?

Lie: it is well.

We all know it's not well, but you keep saying it's well. Well, I understand it's well.


How are you?

I'm fine. But we all know you're not fine.

I'm on my way, but you know it's not true. In fact, you're yet to take your bath.

What is that minutest lie people tell everyday.
While it may not look like a lie, it's actually a lie.

Nlfpmod

Princedapace:
Mehn, bro, people need to start telling these guys the truth. Nigerians have no business suffering. I mean, having AC in this hot season is a must for Nigerians. Omo, Erupeans dey enjoy. During one hot season in Italy, if u see how their govt was making provisions to ensure citizens enjoy calmnes in their body, they created swimming pool in many places, look at the war in Ukrain, the govt of Ukrain cares so much about energy for citizens during winter. God, in Nigeria, these guys no even care. Guy, the heat was too much that i kept talking about it withh the guy I gave a lift. Man, it was like hell. But people mama and papa were under the sun light and will still pay tax to Nigeria govt. Omo, forget, Tinubu get mind o. God, i guess my heart is too soft. I cant be this wicked.
No no no, pls, anyone who is yet to birth a child, pls, ur child does not deserve to sleep under heat, ur child didnt offend anyone in his/her previous life.
Pls, dont birth a child here except u have made provisions to ensure they dont experience heat at night... Imagine heat and mosquitoes. If Nigeria had stable electricity, millions will install AC. Heat inside shop is like u are inside prison. This is too much for such a rich and blessed country.
Tinubu keep saying he removed fuel subsidy to give more money to governors. Same governors looting the money. U cant protest, if u do, police would be sent to deal with u. who controls the police? Tinubu. He cant persecute the governors, he needs them for election. These guys get money and loot it. From local govt chairmen to honourables, governors, senators, house of rep members, they collected these money and loot. We have no single benefit of the fuel subsidy removal. Politicians only got richer and budgted a lot for office furniture, change of cars. To tell u how wicked these guys are, these guys budget money for cars more than they budget fro schools and healthcare. Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
god, who did black race offend? Like there is something nature hasnt told us. Probably a cursed race, i dont know. If cursed, Nigeria is worse then.
how can u budget more money for politician cars than for healthcare and education? Look at all governors, all they do is asslick president. While they do anyhow. As long as u are loyal to the president, EFCC wont come after u, if u protest, police and soldiers come for u. Omo, wetin Nigerians go do like this?
Tinubu, pls, removing fuel subsidy is not bold step o. It is not the policy Nigeria needs.
What Nigerians need is serious institutions to checkmate corruption. There is money in Nigeria but it is wasted. Like, fix that part, if govt provide 10 naira for something, let it be used for it. Money given to senators, let it be used. These are areas u need to fix. Leave whatever benefit the common man on the road.
Expanding tax coverage is not what we need in a country with 80 percent informal sector because they arent breathing. As someone who operates in the informal sector, i have no single benefit from Nigeria o. I cant even take loan to do business. They cant give me. But govt expect me to pay 25 percent of my income to them. What do I stand to gain for doing that?
I dont have health care coverage from govt that is good, public schools are terrible which means I will pay more for private education if I have kids, there is no electricity, bro I pay a lot to sustain 24/7 electricity. No be only politicians deserve soft life. I cant be working while they eat becus they are govt. I am sick and tired mehn.
I have elderly ones to care for. Govt thinks I am rich but I am struggling. Govt, I have a lot of responsibilities because u have failed in ur social contract for Nigerians.
Politcians use our money to import girls from SA, Brazil, Dubai and buy properties for their side chicks. At least salary earners in Nigeria can take loan, those of us in the informal sector we cant.
My cash flow is reasonable, i needed a loan to build a house but no bank will give me. Those in the informal sector are not benefiting a dime from Nigeria abeg

I sent a PM

dettolgel:
Since when does being "the most populous black nation on earth" a force to reckon with on international stage? abeg no make me laugh !!

The most populous black nation on earth with almost zero influence on international scene. My dear, she is concerned with countries that matter on international scene, not a puppet nation.

The same Nigeria that was running its mouth until USA dropped bombed on Christmas day. Instead of sending the US ambassador packing, they rewarded them by "secretly" and subtly setting up USA post in Northern Nigeria under the disguise of military training.

Uncle, don't embarrass yourself, Kemi knowns that Tinubu worth less than a used tissue paper when it comes to international politics.
Tinubu went to UK to receive instruction from his puppeteer

Ha!
Omor see finishing.
I'm not Tinubus supporter sha

Trust Nigerian politicians at your own peril.

POV
I'm down
I'm sick and tired of everything going on with me. But I know God will not let me down, I trust Him to send me help

SlavaUkraini:
The federal government is making huge profits from high crude Oil Price

Jagaban should be sensitive to the plight of the common Man by subsidizing the price of petrol in the short term...

Let's show concern towards one another.
Nigerians are going through a lot right now brother

Princedapace:
Life is not fair on Most Nigerians. Due to the nature of my work, I rarely go out, today, I wanted to buy food, so I drove to the nearest mall to buy food. It was around 2pm. Immediately stepped out, see sunlight, the crushing effect of the sun was unbearable, I was inside my car, turned on the AC, yet I could feel the effect of the sun before my AC circulated. But something caught my attention, the many Nigerians on the road side, people's mom, fathers, brothers, sisters, bf, gf. Lord, this is too much. With such heavy sun, Nigerians needs AC in their shops. God this is too much. The sun was so much that even with my AC on, I could feel it a bit. But I could see how much of pains are on the faces of the people I saw outside, the people inside shop whose solar fans are now blowing hot air, those roasting plantains, shops are so hot eh, a friend told me she had toc close her shop and go home becus the heat was unbearable and she uses solar fan.

But why? God gave us oil, gas, lithium, gold, farmable lands, many other natural minerals, but none we have been able to use for our benefits. Why are we sufferinng like this? It is like the suffering is deliberate. I felt so terrible, I imagined my mom too, where she might be under the sun, maybe going to buy something. The pains of many older men and women who have never known any form of comfort and happiness since they were born.

I cant stay inside without electricity, I must on the Gen to sleep, to work, to do anything. My family deserve 24/7 electricity, they deserve to drink bottle water, they deserve comfort. Imagine ur child, an innocent child dealing with this sun but govt says u are owing them 700k of income tax. This means quality of life has degraded further. This is pure wickedness. Nigerians have no business with this wickedness.

Let me give u a break down, a person earning 30m yearly is not rich. That person is just a bit able to afford a bit of comfort and YES, u deserve comfort in such a wicked and hot country. How on earth should a human be exposed to this type of wicked sunlight every day of their lives? While the politicians cant even survive one minute outside this wicked sunlight, they expect u to survive it and pay them 25 percent of ur income sweat.

Why so wicked to ur own kind? Why are blacks this wicked? We patch our roads, we take herbs now becus health care is wacky, expensive and out of reach of most Nigerians, we take herbs, we are dying becus of it, we dont fucking have electricity, Nigerians deal with heat without electricity. If we had stable electricity, every shop would have an AC, it is a needed appliance now, the heat is too much. But most gen cant even carry AC, most solar that can carry AC are super expensive for over 90 percent of Nigerians.

What type of life is this? Many were born, raised and they got old under this wickedness. Pls, if u are reading this and have not given birth, pls abort it. If na Benin republic or Ghana, just go there and born. It is better.
YOUR CHILD DESERVE 24/7 ELECTRICITY AND AC UNDER SEVERE HEAT. BEING A NIGERIAN IS NOT A CURSE. PLEASE DONT TAKE MY WARNING FOR GRANTED, THIS COUNTRY IS WICKED, THE LEADERS HERE ARE EXTREMELY WICKED. I think they have intionally weaponized suffering. It is a pity the people cant fight to save them selves but were hoping the US helps them out.
These politicians intentionally refused to invest in education, STEM based education would have saved this country, proper political structuring would have saved this country, they knew, they know exactly what to do. I say this because when u sit with them outside political environment, when u sit with them one on one, u will hear them say this truth, they know that unity as it structured now can never take this country anywhere.

Sometimes i really wished the Igbos succeeded with their move in 1967, this would have changed the story of the black race. NIGERIANS biggest problem merging multiple ethnic groups into one. Now, the masses cant unity to fight their oppressors and the politicians love it that way. NIGERIANS HAVE SUFFERED. If u are a politican reading this or work for them, i knee down to beg u, pls, have mercy, it is enough. Pity for these old men and women. Sometimes i feeel for my dad, i feel for my mom. They are growing old, they never enjoyed life. That is the story of millions of Nigerians.
Now, govt has made it worse more for us, they have vowed to take from us the more which will make it harder for us to even support families and friends from our income, govt says if u make 25m and above per year, u are rich. Na still from that 25m u go buy fuel for ur family house, na still their u go use give them cold inside heat. God, this is too much.

If you see the way I'm suffering, you'll cry.
People now ridicule. I've emaciated so badly, I'm just left with my Big head on a very thin long neck.
It's not funny.

SlavaUkraini:
Let the price rise to 5000 Naira per litre, we will still buy it...

But Iran must never be allowed to develop nuclear weapons...

To all the Nairaland Terrorists Sympathizers, hold on....

Iran is winning the War 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Be sensitive to the plight of the common man please

The problem of the North resides amongst the northerners and there's nothing any outsider can do to help you guys.

Every administration, you're always in power either as president or vice, yet, you can't better your region

dettolgel:
Kemi no get Tinubu time, na Trump and Keir she dey drag. Tinubu na small fish where she dey

How is Tinubu a small fish before Kemi?

Some of you are really funny. Who is Kemi before a president of the most populous black nation on earth?

God bless Tinubu for snobbing her.
Is there any sane president who would have associated with such Character.?
A woman who continues to denigrate her own country