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you are just saying this cos its has never happened to you,  Im talking from experience,  and it was really painful when mine happened,  in fact sixmonths after we got married,  U know i never suspected anything till i got married cos im of the school of thot that what u dont know wont hurt you,  my baby was just three months when i heard one ex- gave birth. it was like my world has crashed. i was so confused and i turned to God. Well im still in my marriage,  i have moved on after all the pleas from family members and u know,   my marriage was still very young,  it was a big test of faith,  its all in the past now,  i have my boy to take care of and i have got a job of my own,  i made up my mind to still remain in the marriage and my hubby is a bit sobber now but the deed has been done,

@ lannre, that was just what i did, went on my knew and prayed to God, many called me names, i didnt even tell my folks, its left to my husband to do that if he wants, its really none of my business, im sure if i had left, the lady would have entered, i have vowed not to break my home cos of this cos it will affect the kids later on, i will keep praying to God to change his heart and turn his life around for the better,